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Is Your Naked Left Ring Finger Controlling Your Life? Here’s A Secret For You…

Catherine — Mon, 30 Aug 2010 20:50:15 +0000

“My younger sister is engaged.” The email somberly reported. “Could we book a session? I am a mess.”

Why is it the lack of a ring on your finger can cause so much pain? Carole (not her real name) choked out her feelings. “She is 9 years younger than me. 9. Josh is crazy about her and he is so romantic it makes me sick. My throat gets as tight as a knot. Then I feel horrible. I LOVE my sister. I don’t want to feel like this but I can’t help it. It should be me. How can she get married first?”

Her story turned into sobs. I sat silently on the phone and listened. Like a spring storm, the sobbing subsided and blowing her nose, she sighed. “What if it never happens for me? What if I am a lonely bitter old woman with 100 cats? I can’t stand it…..and now I am going to have to be in HER wedding.” Sobs reignited….

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Slowly but surely Carole and I turned the flow of her thoughts back into a better place and she recommitted to her own personal love attraction plan. There is no question that the engagement of a younger sibling, brother or sister, is a painful thing for the long time single woman.

That naked left ring finger makes a public spectacle out of itself. There it is…out there for everyone to see….LOSER. It takes a mighty strong woman to see this in herself, this branding from the lack of a ring. It takes an even more magical woman to make the decision to do something about it.

Oprah and Goldie Hawn come to mind. Two mega successful, beautiful, vibrant, talented and influential women who have naked left ring fingers. What is it that separates them from other women who let frustration about their relationship status steal their happiness?

Can you control if you are single? Obviously not or you wouldn’t be reading this article. Can you control how much LOVE is in your life? Absolutely. THAT I can teach you.

I run my ideas by my husband (soon we will be celebrating our 5th anniversary back in Hawaii where we tied the knot…*sigh*) because, not being a guy, I just want to make sure that my theories make sense. He is 100% in agreement on this particular Soul Mate Attraction Secret:

There is nothing more attractive than a happy, confident woman. Men cannot resist a genuine smile….the one that comes from deep inside. That kind of smile works like magic. Can you control how much true happiness is behind your smile? Absolutely, I can teach you that too.

You are one tough cookie. You have been on your own most of your life and you can take care of business. If you are the women who contact me, you are also pretty darn tired of doing life by yourself. Sound familiar?

I am hosting a second preview call this Thursday night, September 2, where I am going to share 3 Bonus Love Breakthrough Secrets and the Two Critical Decisions You Must Make if You Want To END Your Singleness For Good and I would love to have you on the call.

Some of you may have heard the first 5 Love Breakthrough Secrets class already, this class will be all new material. If you want to be a part of a couple within the next 6 months, don’t miss it.

With these 3 secrets and 2 decisions added to your bag of tricks, can True Love be far behind?

You can register for the teleseminar right here:

See you there! Oh, and feel free to tweet all about this call to any friends who crave that ring on their own left finger!

Are You A Snow White, A Rapunzel , A Sleeping Beauty or A Scarlett O’Hara?

Catherine — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 17:54:02 +0000

One of these four characters holds the key to your Soul Mate Destiny.If you are still single and not happy about it, take the time to skim this info. You are manifesting a single life…like it or not, that is the truth of the matter. The part of you that is making sure you stay single is your Inner Saboteur.

Ironically, your Saboteur thinks that the risk of New Love is way more painful than being alone. What does that mean? You either undermine every potential relationship before it has a chance to grow or you abandon the relationship before he abandons you.

So why Snow White, Rapunzel, Scarlett and Sleeping Beauty? There are four Saboteur styles and I categorize them with imaginary characters to personalize them a bit. This is not an evil force living inside you heart breaking your heart at every turn (even though it feels like that a lot of the time.)

No, this is a sensitive and caring part of you who just wants exactly what you want….TO BE LOVED AND FEEL HAPPY. That’s it. Your Saboteur can be won over and recruited to help you attract True Love. Wouldn’t it be nice if your path to love was easier and more fun?

Once you know your Saboteur style, you can make a Soul Mate Attraction Plan with some real teeth. Each style has it’s own preferences and strengths. Heck, she has been manifesting your singleness all these years and KNOWS how to get what she wants. Convince her to work with you instead of against you and some real magic will happen.

You have a strong inner concept of life as a single….it is all you have known for years. What if your very self sabotage habits could lead to True Love? Just click the link at the bottom of this post and you will have instant mp3 download in your hands.

Curious? This teleseminar will teach you about the Four Saboteur Styles, how you can recognize which you might be and how to convince your Saboteur that you really don’t want to be single anymore.

It happened for me and I am sharing the tools I discovered on my way so you can attract True Love once and for all.

“How to Get The Perfect Man Into Your Bed: 5 Love Breakthrough Secrets From a Happily Married Wife
with Catherine Behan
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How To Get The Perfect Man Into Your Bed

Catherine — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 22:18:57 +0000

Isn’t it about time you went from Single Supplement to Double Occupancy?

For most of my life, I attracted the worst from the men in my life. Whether it was rudeness, lewdness, cruelty or sarcasm, each and every man hurt me in some way. At least that is what I always thought. That is until I found something that changed everything for me.

At 57 and remarried to my second soul mate, I love sharing the exact tools I used to dramatically upgrade my own Love Vibration and attract a man who adores me. I am sharing these simple secrets to building an irresistible Core Love Vibration that WILL attract the right man into your bed.

If you struggle with shyness, withdrawing in social situations or over talking when you are anxious, you will LOVE this special one-time complimentary teleseminar recording. By the end of 75 minutes, you will understand how self sabotage is holding True Love away from you and you will feel more confident than you have in a long time.

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“How to Get The Perfect Man Into Your Bed: 5 Love Breakthrough Secrets From a Happily Married Wife

with Catherine Behan

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On this complimentary 75-minute teleseminar audio recording you’ll learn…

* The single most powerful Love Repelling Energy and how to avoid it

* How to jazz up your love vibe and keep it humming (even and especially when you are still single!)

* Ways to identify self sabotage in your past relationships and how to avoid it in the future. Meet the four Saboteurs, Snow White, Rapunzel, Sleeping Beauty and Scarlett O’hara, and tune in to their unique style of sabotage.

* 5 Secrets to thinking like a spouse. Seriously, there are many thoughts that married people NEVER think. Get a jump on the competition and think like a spouse BEFORE you become one

* Exciting details on my BRAND NEW “BE a Soul Mate Virtual Summit,” which will lay out for you, step-by-step, how to do identify and negotiate with your own Saboteur gently and effectively. Once you know your Saboteur Style, you can take quick action to get your Love Life back on track. (I’m so excited to debut this, I’m ready to pop!)

No matter whether it has been a week or 10 years since you were in a significant relationship, you can use my simple, proven steps to magnetize yourself to LOVE.

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Love is getting closer by the minute!

Guest Blogger: Three Simple Ways To Win His Heart

Catherine — Sun, 27 Jun 2010 16:49:51 +0000

Today’s post is by Gillian Reynolds:

How to Make Him Fall in Love with You Fast! 3 Quick Tips to Win His Heart

You want to know how to make him fall in love with you fast. You met an amazing man and you can feel yourself falling head over heels for him. Ideally, he’ll feel the same way about you. Unfortunately, men tend to fall in love at a slower pace than we do. However, there are a few things any woman can do to subtly speed that process along. Being in love is a feeling unlike any other, so why not do everything in your power to ensure you get the man you want to love you too?

Learning how to make him fall in love with you fast includes these three quick tips:

Be a little mysterious. Men love it when a woman is a wee bit mysterious. If your life is not an open book, he’s going to feel more drawn to you. Don’t put all your cards on the table too soon in the relationship. Let him learn new and interesting things about you each day. He’ll love it. To him it’s like unwrapping a new gift on a daily basis. If you slowly allow him to learn more and more about you, he’ll always be hungry for more.

Have a fun and fulfilling life. Whenever a man meets an interesting woman and her schedule is always wide open to see him, he’s disappointed. Men are drawn to women who are dynamic and remarkable. If he discovers that you have nothing going on in your life other than your burgeoning relationship with him, that’s going to be a let down. He’d much rather see someone who has a career she loves, friends she adores and who has a laundry list of interests that swallow up her time. Let him see that your life is very fulfilling with or without a man and he’ll actually want you more. He’ll want to prove to you that you need him and that will make him work harder to get you to love him too.

Be extraordinary. The one common complaint that single men have is that all the women they meet are cookie cutter versions of each other. Many women make the mistake of thinking they have to present themselves in a very specific way to get a man’s attention. You just have to be yourself. An extraordinary woman is one who is honest, sincere and kind. He wants you to show him the real you. If you have an opinion, share it with him. Don’t believe that you always have to agree with is point of view in order to get him to love you. The opposite is actually true. He wants someone who knows her own mind and speaks it.

Remember to always be yourself when you want to capture a man’s heart. Once he sees the amazing woman you are inside he won’t be able to resist your charms a moment longer.

“Why Don’t Men Want Me?”

Catherine — Sun, 06 Jun 2010 23:33:08 +0000

Diana hates her birthday. Now that she is 39 for the last time and 45 is around the corner, she is tired of being a good sport. “I never thought I would still be single,” she wailed to no one in particular. Living alone had become a nightmare and the reality that children were not likely stabbed through her like a knife.

“Why did I ruin it?” she sobbed. “He wasn’t that bad. I thought he was The One at first. He was really into me. But the minute I started to talk about marriage, everything completely changed.” She began to cry uncontrollably. “He was my last chance, I just know it.”

This birthday was really painful. Last year she had taken Todd home and introduced him to her family. He didn’t want to be called a ‘boyfriend’ but she chose to ignore that. SHE knew that he was, even if he didn’t say so. She had waited almost 6 months before approaching the Commitment Talk. He pulled away faster than the D.C. metro. And now…she was alone….again.

Diana glanced at her voice mail….10 messages. She couldn’t bring herself to listen to all the birthday greetings. She hated her birthday and every year, as she kissed her dreams good by, it got worse plus time kept getting faster and faster.

Is it too late for Diana? Unless she does something to change her attitude, yes. Harsh? Maybe. Honest? Yes. Diana has put so much pressure on herself to manifest a husband and family that she broadcasts a desperate vibe that is turning every prospect away. She thinks she can put on a happy face and ‘act as if’ she is fine but she is not fooling anybody.

What would I tell her if she asked me? I would remind her of the meaning of insanity….doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result each time. I would ask her a few important questions like these:

1. Did you have a boyfriend that broke your heart in high school?

2. Has anyone ever cheated on you?

3. Was your dad cruel or manipulative or absent?

4. Did a male teacher belittle you or humiliate you in public?

5. Have you been raped or beaten?

If Diana answered yes to any of these questions I would tell her this: Those past experiences left an imprint on you that is here right now as strong as it ever was. Memories with painful emotions attached to them are controlling your every move when it comes to choosing the men you allow to get close to you. Find someone to help you release these painful imprints. Whether it is a pastor, a counselor, a coach or other mentor, don’t try to do this alone.

If your microwave is on the blink, you don’t take a screwdriver to it, take it apart, rebuild it and put it back together, do you? Why do you think you can find your own problem, take yourself apart and then rebuild your heart by yourself? If you are REALLY serious about finding a soul mate and building a family, there is one thing you absolutely must do.

You must do something, no make that everything, differently than you have so far. If marriage has eluded you, face the music and change course. Don’t let the painful memories from the past stop you from finding True Love. Once you set a new course, get the marching orders from someone able to help you and then move forward….you will find what you are looking for. I promise.

Do you ever wonder if it is too late for you? Did you answer “yes” to any of those questions? If so, I would love to speak to you. Go to http://ResetYourLoveSetPoint.com and tell me your story. Once upon a time, you believed that True Love was possible, let’s restore that dream.

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Why Can’t I Find My Soul Mate?

Catherine — Tue, 01 Jun 2010 15:55:54 +0000

The Answer May Surprise You.

The disappointment I hear in the voices of the women who are lonely and looking for romance in their lives is haunting.

“Why do I keep attracting the jerks and losers?”

“All of the men in my age group are married or satisfied with being single.”

“What if I never meet the love of my life?”

Ouch.

There is a hidden key to finding the man of your dreams and believe it or not, it has nothing to do with your past lovers or the emotionally distant relationship you might have with your dad.

The key to finding a man who gets you and loves you is to fully recover from the hurts from the women in your past.

What you say?

“How can my relationships with girlfriends have anything to do with finding my soul mate?”

Let me tell you a story.

When Janna went to college, she felt really lucky. She hadn’t fit in with the cool kids in high school and was a loner. College was different though. She met people she could relate to and began to find friends.

Naïve and open, she began to trust these girls and let herself be known more and more deeply. It was fun to come home to the dorm and always find someone up, no matter what time it was, to share about dates, guys and guys.

These were really great friendship times and Janna flourished.

Then, out of the blue, Janna met a guy of her own. It was an instant crush. Every cell in her body vibrated when she thought about him. Body, mind and soul all completely captured by this wonderful man.

She fell hard and, lucky for her, so did he. Janna and Dan began hanging out together as often as they could. They didn’t really date, they just hung out. It was comfortable and fun and felt very right.

What happened next with her girlfriends blindsided her completely. Janna’s roommate, Kate, was going through a messy breakup with her longterm boyfriend at the time. Somehow, they saw Janna’s time spent with Dan as an abandonment of Kate.

As they made their stance more and more clear, Janna was faced with a difficult choice. Her girlfriends or…..her soul mate.

Of course she chose Dan. He was her whole world.

What a time it was. The chemistry was strong and steady. They got each other. It was so easy to be together and they couldn’t get enough of each other.

It was completely natural for them to spend more and more time together. And so they did.

Kate was going through a devastating time, there is no quarrel with that. But try as she might, Janna could not read the situation. Her love for Dan was all she wanted. She only knew one thing for sure and that was that she did not ever intend to hurt anyone.

The price was high though. In the not fully informed decision making of a teenage crowd, Janna was excised from the group.

At the time, it didn’t seem to matter. The hurt and disappointment was completely hidden by the overwhelming chemistry between Janna and Dan.

The loss of the friendships, the support, the smiles, the involvement the fun of girlfriendness was never addressed at the time.

When Janna and Dan broke up after a passionate, complicated and significant length of time, Janna was left not only without her soul mate and her girlfriends, she also had taken a huge hit in the area of trust. After all, she had picked those girls and her soul mate and those choices were filled with drama and trauma.

Unaware of the unexpressed disappointment still deep in her memory, Janna never trusted women again. Holding her heart closed from other girls, she could comfort herself knowing she couldn’t get hurt like that again.

Fast forward ten, twenty years or so. Janna now has had many women friends over the years but few that have sustained themselves.

She is lonely and, truth be told, desperate to meet a man to be with. She wants what she had with Dan. She wants to feel that excitement again. The wanting of it is steady and intense. “Where is he?” She cries into her pillow at night. “Why can’t I meet him?”

Freeze Frame:

The betrayal of women, by women, is the single most injurious of emotional wounding. Self protective postures and behaviors keep women at arms length from each other.

Ask yourself, how many women do I trust completely?

Unless you are very different than most, you come up with a very low number.

What in the world does all this have to do with your invisible soul mate?

Everything.

When you are drawn into a relationship with an unconscious (which by its nature is naïve and open, bless its heart) desire to fulfill both a girlfriend’s and a boyfriend’s roles, the result is always devastating. Whether it ends sooner or later, the results are the same. The relationship is lopsided and, without help, pretty doomed.

Not many men are going to be attracted (in the invisible but oh so real world of energetic signals.)to you with this signal. Men run from neediness every time. They can’t be everything to you and you wouldn’t want a man who thought that he could. Trust me.

They read it with their Man Radar.

Yuck, you say, I don’t want to radiate that!

Are you ready to start doing things differently?

How serious are you about finding your soul mate?

Take an inventory and see how many of your past female friendships ended badly. Check in with your heart to see if past betrayal still hurts. You are holding yourself back in your search for your soul mate because the pain of a broken heart seems worse than being alone.

Learning to open your heart again toward women will put you on the fast track to receiving the man the Universe has been trying to bring to you.

Before you say that you don’t have any issues with those mean girls, ask yourself this question:

Why am I still single?

How about you? Do you wonder what your chances are for Soul Mate Success? http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com and find out right now!

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Is Feeling Cherished at the Top of Your Wish List?

Catherine — Thu, 29 Apr 2010 20:03:19 +0000

Don’t give up on that dream!

Here are three powerful free tools you can use right now to reawaken the joy of belonging to that special someone.

I had a wonderful experience this week sharing an interview with the always brilliant Arielle Ford, author of The Soul Mate Secret on Co-Creator Radio. If you are serious about manifesting a Soul Mate sooner rather than later, click this link and download the recording right away! http://cat3733.audioacrobat.com/download/CatherineandArielle.mp3

Secondly, are you sure you are ready to open your heart again to love? Take The Soul Mate Quiz and find out if you are sending off a strong enough signal for your soul mate to find you. Just click right here: http://AttractYourSoulMateNow.com

Third, with your quiz results you will also receive the 5 day e-coaching program, The Soul Mate Shift. You will be amazed that you can release the pain of an old relationship in just minutes a day.

You can believe in Love again and these three tools will make it possible!

I believe in you!

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“If The Law Of Attraction is Not Bringing Love….Isn’t it My Fault?”

Catherine — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 17:28:49 +0000

Janet’s voice dropped to a whisper as she asked this painful question.“I am doing everything I can. I have my vision board. I read my affirmations every morning. If He isn’t here yet….it must mean I am doing something wrong, doesn’t it?”

Before I could answer, she melted into tears, “I guess I am afraid there really isn’t anyone out there for me. How can I know for sure? If I knew he wasn’t coming, then I could move on in peace. It is the not knowing that is just killing me.”

The phone went silent for a moment as she composed herself.

“I just can’t give up,” She sighed. “Something in me won’t let go of the dream.”

From that point, we went on to clear a powerful past break up with EFT and released some of the very real heart break from nearly 20 years ago.

So, is it your fault that the LOA is not delivering as you expect? After all, according to the Law of Attraction, you are living out what you are vibrating so if you are failing in your Soul Mate Search, aren’t you ultimately responsible?

Yes and no. Your Dreams and Aspirations are powerful tools guiding you to truly enjoy your life. If your man or woman hasn’t shown up for you, it is almost always a matter of Timing. The very fact that you are reading this post is evidence that you are attracting the tools you need to make your dreams a reality.

Your past relationships have been filled with misperceptions and misunderstandings and you have to deal with that. There are no short cuts. This part IS your responsibility. Be sincere when you look inside at your heart. Are you really ready to open your heart again?

If you are not so sure, then you can take inspired action to clear away the emotional residue that is cluttering your mind. You can prepare your heart to love again and when you make THAT your primary goal, Law of Attraction will pour resources and support to manifest your strong and healed heart!

LOA is always strongest when you pick an Inner Goal rather than an Outer Goal. What I recommended to Janet was that she change her intention from: “I want to attract a Soul Mate.” to “I want to prepare my heart to BE a fantastic Soul Mate.”

I could almost feel her smile through the phone. “I feel so relieved!” She said. “I can DO that!”

Are you ready for True Love? http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com and find out today.

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Does The Thought Of New Love Terrify You?

Catherine — Thu, 25 Mar 2010 16:08:17 +0000

“I want a relationship more than anything,” the good looking fifty- something man sighed, “I am just terrified of getting hurt.”

“I feel exactly the same way!” An attractive woman added from across the room. “I am terrified.”

Terrified is a very strong word, isn’t it?

My heart goes out to these beautiful people who attended the Law of Attraction and Soul Mates Meetup last weekend.

I remember My days of terror. In my first marriage, Terror ruled the day. I lived in constant terror…mindless terror that made me into a chameleon. I constantly adjusted myself to my ex, my in-laws and my own family. I

was completely lost in trying to make everyone else happy with me. Like I said, I can relate to what these fantastic people described as “terrified.”

There is a solution to that terror and the good news is, it is easier than you think.

Here are three easy steps you can take right now. Remember that New Love is always a bit scary and you will feel a little anxious, that’s normal, but you can put terror behind you for good!

1. Acknowledge the Terror. Just admitting that you are terrified is more powerful than you think. Your rational mind can assist you here. Is terror a reasonable reaction? Probably not.

2. Tell Yourself the Truth.

I love the words, “Even though….” to walk myself into better feeling thoughts. You are in charge of your

own mind. CHOOSE your thoughts. “Even though a part of me is terrified of Love, there is another part of me

that knows I will be ok, no matter what.” “Even though I have been disappointed in Love…more than once, I am determined to welcome New Love with a Clear Heart.” “Even though I don’t know where my Love is right now, I choose to send him Love and Good Will.

3. State What You Want. There are three other words that empower me Every Time. “Up Until Now…” When you catch yourself in “terror mode,” practice saying what you DO want (which probably is Not terror, right?) “Up until now I have been terrified of New Love, but today I choose a different way.” “Up until now, I have suffered in my Loving relationships, but today I choose to believe in the goodness and gentleness of Love.” “Up until now, I have been hurt in Love, but I made it through and learned a lot about myself.”

There is a part of you that is terrified. You know that is true. Remember that you are the only one who can step up and bring comfort and peace.

Sometimes a Meetup or some personal mentoring can give you just the boost you need to step out of the terror and into the normal jitters everyone has when dating someone new!

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FREE Video Webinar: Get Your Burning Question About Attracting True Love Answered

Catherine — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 18:06:43 +0000

Want to get an answer to YOUR personal questions about why Love is hiding from you?

You can chat with me LIVE tomorrow morning, Saturday February 20 at 9 am pacific and I would
LOVE to have you there!

I will review “How To Be Loved Exquisitely:
5 Simple Secrets that Helped Me Stop Waking Up Alone,
Have the Relationship of My Dreams and Bring Me All
the Love and Intimacy I Want.”

And then will answer questions from participants!

It will be great to meet you!

Here is the registration page:

http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/five-secrets-to-exquisite-love-preview-call/

See you tomorrow!!
Catherine

PS I also have a 6th secret that I will be revealing during
the call tomorrow…it is HUGE and without this piece,
True Love is too slick to hold on to!

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