Sucks doesn’t it.

And don’t just limit yourself to love.  Trusting the wrong person can happen in business, friendships and even in our health care choices.

The worst part…the easiest person to blame for the mess is YOURSELF. Now you may think you are blaming that awful other person.  You certainly complain about them enough….to any one that will listen.

But..truth be told, at the core of it, aren’t you furious at yourself for being naive and trusting the rat in the first place.  There, the big secret is out.  It is YOU that is to blame, no one else.

And what exactly did you do wrong?  Listen….can you hear it?  It is that little voice inside harassing you once again:

“How could you be so stupid?”

“Didn’t you see that coming?”

“You should have seen what a schmuck he was?”

“See, I told you it wouldn’t work out”

“What did you expect from on line dating?”

And the worst news of all….you are going to have to trust yourself again sometime soon to make another important decision.  Good Luck.

Sometimes doesn’t it seem like you reel through life off balance?  Like a ball in a pin ball machine, you are pinged from one problem to the next, bumped and bruised along the way.

Why do you trust the wrong person…again and again and AGAIN?? There IS something wrong, but it is not YOU!

Tell that little voice to be quiet for a minute and listen. Your life circumstances have silenced the very best friend you have…your intuition. That little knowing inside that is ready to help you make your best choice is being drowned out.  You are the only person who can turn up the volume.

How do you do that?  The ONLY way to build trust in yourself is to raise your SELF LOVE VIBE.  Sure you messed up and have gotten yourself in jam after jam.  Who hasn’t?

You are a PRECIOUS being worthy of as much love as you can handle. If you are reading this right now, it is proof that somewhere in you is a deep hunger to find the answer.

Are you ready to move forward at last and make a real difference for yourself?  Waiting around for someone to make you complete isn’t working so good, is it?

Your self esteem is in your own hands.  If it is a little rusty and in need of repair, you are the only person on the planet that can get that done.

The journey to SELF LOVE is a short one…..about 18 inches. Can you learn to travel from your head to your heart?  I bet you are thinking….it can’t be that easy.  Yes it is.

Being a soul mate is easy once you allow yourself to trust again.  There is only one question.  How much longer are you going to wait?

Tune in Tuesday Night at 6 pm pacific and find out how to change your self esteem and attract the love you are looking for. It really is up to you!
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If the Law of Attraction really works, then why in the world would you keep attracting men who are no good for you?

I’ll tell you why.

LOW SELF ESTEEM is ridiculously attractive. Like a powerful inner magnet, your low opinion of yourself sends invisible waves of energy that broadcast to the world like a “Kick Me” sign taped to your back.

There is some good news here, though.  Low self esteem is just a habit. You heard me right…a habit.  It is a habit of THOUGHT.  A belief is created by thinking a thought over and over and over again.  Pretty soon you don’t even know you are thinking the thought.  Before you know it, you truly believe you are NOT GOOD ENOUGH.

When you BELIEVE you are NOT GOOD ENOUGH, you do the stupidest stuff imaginable to make other people like you.  How is that working for you?

You are the ONLY PERSON who can change your SELF ESTEEM.  It is possible.  The key is to take action and change your thoughts.

“I can’t change my thoughts….they keep running through my brain and I can’t control them!”  I hear you and I have one thing to say.  BULS–T!  To change your thoughts you only need to do ONE SIMPLE thing.  Make a decision.

Make a decision to CHANGE your LIFE.  You want LOVE?  Prove it! You are an amazing human being.  You have made it through a lot of really tough times and you are still here.  Maybe your family misunderstands you and maybe you have had a few hard breakups.  But you are still here and you ARE amazing. If you don’t believe that, you can change it.

And now, here is a word from Abraham:

We don’t want you to ask for the security that comes from physical promises from physical humans.

We want your security to come to you from your knowing. We want your awareness of security to be that you know the laws of the universe work, you know how to focus, you know that this positive focus that you offer will always bring you good things.

Don’t try to see so far down the road. Just see what is, and look for the good things, don’tdemand that promises be made that give you security. This is the thing that makes the difference between someone who can stand where they are, in an attitude of belief and trust, some call it faith, but some don’t like the word faith, because faith feels like be happy even though you have no evidence of being happy.

We want to acknowledge to yourself that you have much evidence that supports the power of positive thought. So just chill out.

Don’t try to figure it all out at once. The mantra we want you to offer over the next few days is:

“I’ll figure it out as I go”…

“Look how well I’m doing”…

“The Universe adores me”…

“The Universe is yielding to me”…

“There is not a reason for me to worry”…
“When I worry its patterns of old thought”…

“That has nothing to do with my current reality”…

You’re doing extremely well!

~ Abraham-Hicks / San Diego 1-12-2008

I just love Abraham!  As Louise Hay says, a belief is just a thought you keep thinking over and over and over again and a THOUGHT CAN ALWAYS BE CHANGED!

Wonder what your chances are to find True Love?  http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com and Get your Soul Mate Success Score right now!

I am inspired and celebrating an extra special birthday today!

Two years ago, I was recovering from cancer surgery and couldn’t walk across the living room.  Today I am running and playing with my grandson!  Life is exquisitely sweet to me and I stand profoundly grateful.

There is no question that my SELF CONFIDENCE grew by leaps and bounds as I watched my body recover (amazing in itself).  I also grew as a woman and found my divine life purpose through all of the coaching that I received through my adventure.

It is knowing my true worth that has changed my life.  That is why I am offering YOU a special gift to celebrate my birthday this year.

Do you wish YOUR self esteem was higher?  What would radiant self confidence do for your life right about now?

The Worth Your Weight In Gold BREAKTHROUGH 5 Part Teleseminar Series is just what you are looking for and starting today, I am giving a full $100 off of the enrollment fee.

I want to give you every opportunity to raise your self love vibe and help you move forward toward your dreams!  The series will be recordedso you won’t need to worry about missing any of the classes!  We start on 11/11!  Love that date!

Read what Felicite wrote about her experience in the last series of classes:

“In fact what happened is i met this director who wished to work with me and offered me the first feminine part in his movie (in fact the hero’s wife) and also didn’t ask for a casting. it just came out of the blue, and my agent was so thrilled, ‘I was too !).

The thing for me was about self appreciation. And after doing my exercises with you. When i had the call, I knew who I was in the good way. And I came to him very confident. I knew he would appreciate me because I did appreciate me . It was a wonderful day! My agent told me I looked beautiful. I felt radiant this day. Even the “garçon” gaves me compliments.

And I knew it was only a response to the shifting of vibrations you helped me to make. And I’m very grateful for it, it means that for me I’m going to attract (in fact,I AM attracting he he!) the perfect mate for me by loving me the way I am. TY dear Catherine and Thanks to the Universe too!”

Follow this link and check out the details.  Just type the word BIRTHDAY in the coupon window and just like magic, your fee is reduced by $100!

http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/worth-your-weight-in-gold-breakthrough-series/
Happy Birthday to Me!!  I LOVE to give gifts on my birthday!!

Love and Magic!
Catherine

To All Aspiring Soul Mates:

There really IS nothing like being desired. When my husband chooses to be with me, whether in the bedroom or  at the beach I love it. I feel genuinely ATTRACTIVE, magnetizing his attention and desire to be with me. What is the magic?

According to Dr. Marta Meana PhD., professor of Psychology at UNLV, being desired is “practically orgasmic” for some women. Knowing a man is desiring you is a powerful and arousing experience.  In other words, Dr. Meana says, “A man overcome with desire is so sexy!”

Seeing proof of my stronger LOVE VIBE is hugely important in keeping our soul mate fires burning. The key to attracting more of a man’s attention is to be more magnetic and draw his desire toward you.

You will DOUBLE and even TRIPLE your magnetism when you change your attitude about yourself. When you stop criticizing yourself and begin to appreciate all of your many aspects, you will be a LOVE MAGNET.

Don’t you want to BE IRRESISTIBLE? I do. I love feeling irresistible and feeling my husband’s eyes on me as I walk across the room. Yum.

Join me on 9/09, Wednesday night and listen in as I share 5 Easy Ways to Jump Start Your Self Esteem Instantly

Here’s what you need to know:

Day: 9.09.09
Time: 9 pm eastern/8 pm central/6 pm pacific
Cost: Nada…nil…zip
Phone number and Code:
http://www.soulmatesavvy.com/self-esteem-is-irresistible-preview-call/

You will be amazed at how differently people will treat you when you do these five simple things for one week.

Isn’t it about time you were as kind to yourself as you are to everyone else?

See you on the call!

http://www.soulmatesavvy.com/self-esteem-is-irresistible-preview-call/

Appreciation is the secret to life.  Abraham Hicks

I could just stop there and post my all time shortest entry, but I will reflect a bit.  If appreciation is so powerful and so accessible, then why are so many people whining about their circumstances?  Why don’t people work at strengthening their appreciation muscles?

No matter what is happening, there is some one else who has it a little bit worse than you.  You know that is true.  If you are like me, though, sometimes appreciation is the hardest thing to find.  I hate going through crud.  You know CRUD:  Challenges-Reversals-Uprootings-Downsizings.  CRUD always sucks.

Unexpected bills, car problems, root canals, lay offs, dog pooping in the house, Days of Our Lives pre-empted by a sports event.  CRUD can sneak up on a person at any time and if you are not careful, DEpreciation is waiting to grab you. Depreciation means loss of value.  If you are in the center of your circumstances and you are not appreciating, no wonder your self esteem suffers.

Wouldn’t it be nice if there was an app for the I Phone for appreciation.  Whenever you are feeling pressured or overwhelmed, there’s an app for that.  Just click the button and choose something to appreciate from the options that pop on the screen.  Here are some examples:

1.  Take a breath. If you work with me at all, you know I am always asking my clients to take a breath.  The air we breathe is an instant and constant reminder of the abundance that surrounds us.  There is always enough air to breathe.

2. What part of your body feels good today? I wish I would have known to appreciate my sweatless body before hot flashes started a few years ago.  All those nights I slept without waking up in a pool of sweat….ah the good old days!  While you may have a health challenge right now, there is at least one part of your body that is thriving, even if it is the hair that refuses to stop growing out of your chin.

3. What can you imagine for yourself today? Your imagination is truly the gift that keeps on giving.  I adore my various guided meditation cds.  I have a grand collection including work by Kelly Howell, Wendi Friesen, Orin and Daben, Jose Silva and Paul Scheele, among others.  Your imagination is always available to you and you can see your life through a completely different lens if you practice.

4. Who needs encouraging today? As you go through your day, watch people’s faces.  See if you can pick up sadness or overwhelm in a passer by.  Send them love and appreciation.  Imagine you have a laser pointer and you are shining a beam of love into their heart.  It feels great to lift someone’s spirits this way.  Take it one step further and you will be surprised how many people will accept a hug if you offer.

5. Redefine your separateness from your family. I know lonliness is a big problem when you are practicing appreciation.  Hard to be thankful for an empty apartment.  BUT!  It is true that the very people you are lonely for can be a royal pain in the patootie!  There is a blessing in distance and the quiet of your home can be a sweet respite for you.  Get some fresh flowers and throw open your windows.  Celebrate your space and your distance and the fact that you can fill you environment with the things you love!

Abraham Hicks promises over and again that Appreciation fuels the juice of life. I agree!  Appreciation puts me into a calm mindset because I can’t think of a problem at the same time I am appreciating.  One time when I was in the midst of a major challenge, I can remember thanking my big toe for being an integral part of my life.  Makes me smile again just thinking about it!

Next time you are overwhelmed, remember, there is an app(reciation) for that!

Ready to change your self esteem habits?  Check out the Self Esteem is Irresistible Preview Call on September 9