It doesn’t rain very often in San Diego.

Winter is also not quite what I grew up with in the midwest.  That’s what makes rainy morning snuggling so exquisite.  Now I know that the special magic of those first few kisses and the electricity of those first expressions of intimacy are breath taking and intoxicating.

But I am here to tell you, when I scootch over and glue myself to my sleeping husband…the spooner to his spoonee, there is nothing better.

This morning I am extra grateful for my sweet heart and it is not just because he turned over and wrapped his arms around me for a precious 15 minutes before we got up.

Lar and I have been through our share of challenges in our short marriage. Both of us have had some health and personal challenges.  We, like many baby boomers, are readjusting our vision and our dreams due to the new economy.

Yes, the first few weeks of our relationship were filled with stolen kisses and passionate embraces and other x-rated fun. But when all is said and done, once our biology calmed itself and we settled into the delicious rhythm of our daily routine, the gentle unfolding of our relationship has brought deep satisfaction.

Don’t get me wrong, the strolls on the Italian Riviera, beach walks in Hawaii and cocktails on the fantail of a cruise ship are beyond fabulous. I am deeply grateful for our good fortune and travel experiences.  However, the best part of my life with Lar is the day to day companionship.

I love how free I am to be myself. I love how I feel when I am with him.  I love planning our days together.  I love how involved he is in his own interests.  I love when I am home alone and he is out and about.  I love when we are on the couch, fire lit, he with his paper, me writing this post.

I love rainy morning snuggling.

“Everyone who turns up in your life–from the people you call friends and lovers, to the people you call enemies and strangers–comes in response to your Vibration. You not only invite the person, but you also invite the personality traits of the person.

Many people have a difficult time accepting this as they think that many of the unwanted characteristics of the people in their lives and they argue that they would never have asked for something so unwanted to come into their experience…..We know that many of the relationships and experiences that you have attracted, you would not have deliberately attracted if you had been doing it on purpose, but much of your attraction is not done by deliberate intent, but rather by default.

It is important to understand that you get what you think about, whether you want it or not.  And chronic thoughts about unwanted things invite or ask for matching experiences, every time.  The Law of Attraction makes it so.”

Abraham Hicks, The Vortex, page 21

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This message was sent to my http://Meetup.com group The Law Of Attraction and Soul Mates. We meet in San Diego and have a meeting this Saturday. For more info check out http://LOAinLove.com

Enjoy:

“My firm belief is that when a MAN meets a WOMAN that HE really, *really* likes, then HE will move heaven and earth to be with HER.

A quick phone call to say “hi” will not be a task HE has to try to find time to fit into HIS incredibly busy day of working and sitting through meetings HE doesn’t even want to attend, but an exciting, joy-filled moment purposefully snatched to bring sanity and reason to why HE is putting up with all the other BS.

Spending some time together will be something that becomes a priority simply because it brings HIM great happiness. No other reason needed. HIS need and willingness to shower HER with love, affection, and attention (or just be in HER space), to make HER feel special and cared for (liked, loved, whatever), will be in the forefront of HIS mind throughout HIS day, because seeing HER smile and hearing the happiness and excitement in HER voice is a measure of success HE lives by.

HE will be HER greatest cheerleader in life, certain SHE can walk on water with beauty, grace, and ease and HE will forever stand by HER side reminding HER how talented, brilliant, and accomplished SHE is and always will be.

And simply looking in HER eyes will remind HIM how special HE is to HER.

And, without a doubt, for ALL OF THE ABOVE, SHE will be all of that and more to HIM.”

Beautifully written, Thanks Tom!

Sucks doesn’t it.

And don’t just limit yourself to love.  Trusting the wrong person can happen in business, friendships and even in our health care choices.

The worst part…the easiest person to blame for the mess is YOURSELF. Now you may think you are blaming that awful other person.  You certainly complain about them enough….to any one that will listen.

But..truth be told, at the core of it, aren’t you furious at yourself for being naive and trusting the rat in the first place.  There, the big secret is out.  It is YOU that is to blame, no one else.

And what exactly did you do wrong?  Listen….can you hear it?  It is that little voice inside harassing you once again:

“How could you be so stupid?”

“Didn’t you see that coming?”

“You should have seen what a schmuck he was?”

“See, I told you it wouldn’t work out”

“What did you expect from on line dating?”

And the worst news of all….you are going to have to trust yourself again sometime soon to make another important decision.  Good Luck.

Sometimes doesn’t it seem like you reel through life off balance?  Like a ball in a pin ball machine, you are pinged from one problem to the next, bumped and bruised along the way.

Why do you trust the wrong person…again and again and AGAIN?? There IS something wrong, but it is not YOU!

Tell that little voice to be quiet for a minute and listen. Your life circumstances have silenced the very best friend you have…your intuition. That little knowing inside that is ready to help you make your best choice is being drowned out.  You are the only person who can turn up the volume.

How do you do that?  The ONLY way to build trust in yourself is to raise your SELF LOVE VIBE.  Sure you messed up and have gotten yourself in jam after jam.  Who hasn’t?

You are a PRECIOUS being worthy of as much love as you can handle. If you are reading this right now, it is proof that somewhere in you is a deep hunger to find the answer.

Are you ready to move forward at last and make a real difference for yourself?  Waiting around for someone to make you complete isn’t working so good, is it?

Your self esteem is in your own hands.  If it is a little rusty and in need of repair, you are the only person on the planet that can get that done.

The journey to SELF LOVE is a short one…..about 18 inches. Can you learn to travel from your head to your heart?  I bet you are thinking….it can’t be that easy.  Yes it is.

Being a soul mate is easy once you allow yourself to trust again.  There is only one question.  How much longer are you going to wait?

Tune in Tuesday Night at 6 pm pacific and find out how to change your self esteem and attract the love you are looking for. It really is up to you!
http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/three-keys-to-soul-mate-success-preview-call/

If the Law of Attraction really works, then why in the world would you keep attracting men who are no good for you?

I’ll tell you why.

LOW SELF ESTEEM is ridiculously attractive. Like a powerful inner magnet, your low opinion of yourself sends invisible waves of energy that broadcast to the world like a “Kick Me” sign taped to your back.

There is some good news here, though.  Low self esteem is just a habit. You heard me right…a habit.  It is a habit of THOUGHT.  A belief is created by thinking a thought over and over and over again.  Pretty soon you don’t even know you are thinking the thought.  Before you know it, you truly believe you are NOT GOOD ENOUGH.

When you BELIEVE you are NOT GOOD ENOUGH, you do the stupidest stuff imaginable to make other people like you.  How is that working for you?

You are the ONLY PERSON who can change your SELF ESTEEM.  It is possible.  The key is to take action and change your thoughts.

“I can’t change my thoughts….they keep running through my brain and I can’t control them!”  I hear you and I have one thing to say.  BULS–T!  To change your thoughts you only need to do ONE SIMPLE thing.  Make a decision.

Make a decision to CHANGE your LIFE.  You want LOVE?  Prove it! You are an amazing human being.  You have made it through a lot of really tough times and you are still here.  Maybe your family misunderstands you and maybe you have had a few hard breakups.  But you are still here and you ARE amazing. If you don’t believe that, you can change it.

Do you need help?  How much do you want to change your SELF LOVE VIBE? There are countless books on the market to help you.  Abraham Hicks is my favorite author and I am going to end this with one of their quotes.  But, if you are serious about attracting love and you don’t want to wait another second, check this out: http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/worth-your-weight-in-gold-breakthrough-series/

And now, here is a word from Abraham:

We don’t want you to ask for the security that comes from physical promises from physical humans.

We want your security to come to you from your knowing. We want your awareness of security to be that you know the laws of the universe work, you know how to focus, you know that this positive focus that you offer will always bring you good things.

Don’t try to see so far down the road. Just see what is, and look for the good things, don’tdemand that promises be made that give you security. This is the thing that makes the difference between someone who can stand where they are, in an attitude of belief and trust, some call it faith, but some don’t like the word faith, because faith feels like be happy even though you have no evidence of being happy.

We want to acknowledge to yourself that you have much evidence that supports the power of positive thought. So just chill out.

Don’t try to figure it all out at once. The mantra we want you to offer over the next few days is:

“I’ll figure it out as I go”…

“Look how well I’m doing”…

“The Universe adores me”…

“The Universe is yielding to me”…

“There is not a reason for me to worry”…
“When I worry its patterns of old thought”…

“That has nothing to do with my current reality”…

You’re doing extremely well!

~ Abraham-Hicks / San Diego 1-12-2008

I just love Abraham!  As Louise Hay says, a belief is just a thought you keep thinking over and over and over again and a THOUGHT CAN ALWAYS BE CHANGED!

I am inspired and celebrating an extra special birthday today!

Two years ago, I was recovering from cancer surgery and couldn’t walk across the living room.  Today I am running and playing with my grandson!  Life is exquisitely sweet to me and I stand profoundly grateful.

There is no question that my SELF CONFIDENCE grew by leaps and bounds as I watched my body recover (amazing in itself).  I also grew as a woman and found my divine life purpose through all of the coaching that I received through my adventure.

It is knowing my true worth that has changed my life.  That is why I am offering YOU a special gift to celebrate my birthday this year.

Do you wish YOUR self esteem was higher?  What would radiant self confidence do for your life right about now?

The Worth Your Weight In Gold BREAKTHROUGH 5 Part Teleseminar Series is just what you are looking for and starting today, I am giving a full $100 off of the enrollment fee.

I want to give you every opportunity to raise your self love vibe and help you move forward toward your dreams!  The series will be recordedso you won’t need to worry about missing any of the classes!  We start on 11/11!  Love that date!

Read what Felicite wrote about her experience in the last series of classes:

“In fact what happened is i met this director who wished to work with me and offered me the first feminine part in his movie (in fact the hero’s wife) and also didn’t ask for a casting. it just came out of the blue, and my agent was so thrilled, ‘I was too !).

The thing for me was about self appreciation. And after doing my exercises with you. When i had the call, I knew who I was in the good way. And I came to him very confident. I knew he would appreciate me because I did appreciate me . It was a wonderful day! My agent told me I looked beautiful. I felt radiant this day. Even the “garçon” gaves me compliments.

And I knew it was only a response to the shifting of vibrations you helped me to make. And I’m very grateful for it, it means that for me I’m going to attract (in fact,I AM attracting he he!) the perfect mate for me by loving me the way I am. TY dear Catherine and Thanks to the Universe too!”

Follow this link and check out the details.  Just type the word BIRTHDAY in the coupon window and just like magic, your fee is reduced by $100!

http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/worth-your-weight-in-gold-breakthrough-series/
Happy Birthday to Me!!  I LOVE to give gifts on my birthday!!

Love and Magic!
Catherine