I know a bit of magic.

Once upon a time, many moons ago, a man broke my heart.  He disappeared without a word after a brief and passionate affair.  I had been numbingly attracted to him and the sex was amazing.  In fact, it was after we had the best sex ever, he started to pull away.

I was hurt and obsessing.  I felt trapped by my feelings. As badly as he treated me at the end, I still really cared for him.  I opened my heart to him, something that was huge as I hadn’t trusted anyone like that for a very long time.  And he disappeared.  I was devastated.

After weeks of checking my cell phone countless times a day and texting him with no reply, I knew I had to do something to detach myself. I tried everything I could think of but he was lodged firmly in my mind and wouldn’t go.

Then, after a few months, the phone rings.  He wanted to see me.  Of course, against everything in me, I agreed.  My heart pounded as I anticipated the door bell ringing.  When he got there, the chemistry was as strong as ever.  Part of me was screaming: NO…..NO.  But he was irresistible.

It was, of course, a booty call. The rat.  I wanted to.  I knew it would feel amazing.  But I did the bravest thing I had done to that point.  I told him no.  He was respectful, gave me a hug and left.  Boy did I ache inside.  So unfair…how can someone so bad for you be so darn attractive.

I went in to a tail spin again and my self esteem crashed and burned. It was during this time I found the answer.  I learned about a technique that completely changed my life.  I was able to FINALLY let him go.  Really let him go.  It is my secret weapon and I teach it to everyone who comes my way looking for a way to move on.

The secret elixir is EFT. EFT saved me.  I was able to release my feelings easily and permanently with a simple pattern of tapping, yes tapping.  I learned how to tap on acupuncture points around my upper body.  The results were astounding.

Not only did EFT help me let go of this man, my self confidence went through the roof.  I now use EFT all the time to change my mood and improve my disposition.  I love it.  It is easy to learn and anyone can do it!!

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“People don’t care about EFT.”

I sat on the other end of the phone, stunned and flabbergasted.  What????

Kevin Nations and Catherine Behan

Silence.

I didn’t know what to say.  I LOVED my work as an EFT practitioner.  I was able to help any and every one who came my way and I knew with every fiber of my being that EFT was the magic elixir that helped my clients in their transitions.  I considered myself an EFT crusader.

BUT and this is a BIG BUT, I was starving as a heart based business owner. continue

“Side of the hand: Even though I don’t love and accept myself I deeply and completely love and accept myself.”

I had enjoyed my EFT sessions before but this time, when the warm and comforting voice had me repeat this particular statement I loved Brad all the more.
The first time I heard Brad Yates he was talking about Success Beyond Belief with Internet Guru Joe Vitale.  I had never heard of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT)  before and they were talking about using EFT to attract a new car.  I was fascinated. continue

I have a beautiful wind chime hanging outside my studio. We have a breeze every afternoon and the sound is heavenly. This particular chime contains the notes of Beethoven’s Ode to Joy and every now and then you can hear that melody within the cluster of notes.

. It is tuned to the notes of Beethoven's Ode To Joy and every now and then you can hear that melody within the cluster of notes.

This morning, instead of hearing the usual harmony, I heard something like this. Ding. Ding. Ding. Clank. I know this gets lost in translation but bear with me. I haven’t gone out to inspect it yet, but I have a feeling one of the pipes is wrapped around one of it’s sisters strings.

Even though most of the pipes are hanging and ringing properly, it is amazing how that single ‘clank’ makes my hair stand up on end. The harmony of the whole completely altered by one piece out of tune.

I know just how that wind chime feels. My life can be going really well in many areas. Smooth sailing, soul satisfying events and contentedness are definitely a part of my daily life. But, then there are those annoying out of tune parts. No matter how hard I try to hide them from the breezes of life, they insist of clanging away creating disharmony. Plus, if the truth were told, most of my out of sorts moments come because I am tangled up in someone else’s drama.

Let me give you an example. At the moment, my health is great, my career is developing nicely, my romantic life is rich and entertaining, my weight is good, my finances are balancing after a challenging time and all of that feels really good. But still I struggle with worry about my adult kids, bless them.

If I allow my mind to dwell on their circumstances, I am pulled surely and tangibly out of balance. I tell myself, out loud so I can hear it, “That is their drama and they can handle it.”

Learning to choose what I am going to spend my time thinking about has been life altering, to say nothing of the lovelier melody I am when I am completely in tune.

How do you know you have a clanking chime? Just like the fingernails down the chalkboard kind of feeling you get hearing a flat note, your body will give you clues about being out of tune. Some feel a general all over edgy feeling, some get pain in their shoulder or lower back, some get digestion upset and others just feel heavy and sluggish.

Once you recognize that you are just out of tune, you can do something about that right away. Go outside and take a couple of deep breaths, take a brisk walk and shake it off….literally. This will automatically energize you. You will add dimension if you talk to a like minded friend, someone who will focus the conversation on positive aspects of your situation.

What does any of this have to do with making your man perfect? Everything! If your man does not have to take responsibility for your mood, if you can recognize and attend to your own emotional balance, he will feel his own share of relief. Most guys are ill equipped naturally to ‘tune’ us, you know, to say just the right thing to change our perspective.

When you are caring for your own inner harmony, you make yourself that much more irresistible to him. There is nothing more appealing than a calm, confident and joyful woman.

What tune are you playing these days?

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