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Can you relate? Have you worked and worked on your on-line profile and still attract people you would never pick for yourself? What’s wrong with the system?
Personally, I have worked with many people who have had excellent results with on-line dating. Some, though still single, really enjoy the people they have met through these dating resources. So what’s the deal? Why aren’t more people lucky in on-line love?
If you aren’t finding a good match, could it be that YOU are not a good match? Is it possible that you aren’t projecting the whole picture? If you are attracting people that are not even close to your ideals, you just might need to focus on a little ME-Harmony before you go to E-Harmony.
Long time singles like yourself have a Lost Love Legacy that holds your future captive. Each person you have encountered along the way…BFFs included, have left a sort of footprint in your mind and heart. Some past relationships have been good and the breakups mutual. But, the fact is, all past relationships have disappointments and heartbreak that lodge themselves in your heart.
No one is perfect. People hurt each other in relationship when misunderstandings happen, no matter how hard you try not to. When you attract the exact opposite of who it is you want to be with, it is a sure sign that you are coming across with a confusing vibration. The Law of Attraction is relentless and always brings exactly what you are vibrating…not what you are hoping for.
One part of you craves to be loved and adored. Another fears opening deeply to let love in. One part of you wants to co-create a marriage that works. Another part is intimidated by the negotiating it takes to walk it out.
One part of you wants a partner who is open and vulnerable. Another part of you is terrified of being open and vulnerable. See what I mean?
When you focus on ME-Harmony, you learn you can accept your doubts and fears and still move forward. Making peace with the ghosts of relationships past is the fastest way to get there. Each heart break in your past holds the power to make you an amazing partner. You did the best you could with what you knew at the time. Finding self compassion and letting go of your hurts and disappointments will bring you to a place of shining self confidence.
When you have ME-Harmony, you may not even return to on-line dating. There is nothing more irresistible than a happy, confident person. Your luck in love will surely change when you choose that as your primary goal!
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It never fails me.
When I need to raise my vibration and put myself into a state of delicious well-being, I have a sure fire tool. Right now I am watching a Tivoed Oprah show and, just like magic, the waves of goose bumps are hitting me.
Not so many years ago, I didn’t think goose bumps were anything special. When is was cold, I figured it was just a response to the temperature. I got goose bumps lots of other times, but dismissed them. Boy was I missing out on a spectacular Law of Attraction tool!!
Now I know for sure that goose bumps are a language of vibration. Abraham Hicks has taught me that keeping my vibration high is the key to attracting what I desire into my life. I used to think that vibration was controlled by my thoughts alone and that my attraction vibe was a mind experience.
Whoa! Was I missing the boat! Now I know that there is a lot of power in the goose bumps and shivers that happen when something thrills me. Vibrating emotion rolling through my upper body has become my personal attraction meter. The stronger the vibe, the more in tune with my Inner Being I am.
Like I said, I never knew that these experiences had so much to offer. I would sit in theatre productions, sports events and concerts totally clueless. I took the goose bumps and shivers completely for granted. Now I know that I can recall these times and use them to ramp up my vibe whenever I want.
Plus, now that Tivo is in my life (if you don’t have it….get it!) I can create my own high vibe tool kit with the push of a button. So what is my number one Soul Mate Attraction Tool?
Makeovers. On my Tivo right now is a “Oprah, Make Over My Man Please!” (taping date November 19, 2009) Tim Gunn and Carson Kressley are making over boyfriends and husbands while the women sit stunned in the audience. Seeing the before and after pictures always sends chills up my spine.
What really gets to me though, every time, is the looks on the faces of the family when they see their loved one madeover. Truth be told, for me any makeover show will do. From What Not To Wear to Extreme Makeover: Home Edition, the thrills and chills put me in the frame of mind and good feeling place that is an exact match to how I will feel when my manifestation appears. I have been known to keep favorite episodes on my DVR for MONTHS!!
Pay attention to those goose bumps….when your soul mate arrives, you will be glad you did!
A Message From Jerry and Esther Hicks:
Putting together a deck of Abraham’s Well Being cards is always an exhilarating experience because the handling of these powerful words in any form is life-giving to us. But when Hay House coupled their talented artists with these meaningful Abraham quotes, and presented them in such beautiful colors and pictures—these cards took on a whole new “feeling” for us.
At a recent seminar, Abraham encouraged us to do 100% of our affirming Well-Being from inside the Vortex. “Get in there and practice the Vibration of being in there by speaking of things wanted; by appreciating, or by focusing on things that match the Vibration of the Vortex.”
Later that day they suggested gently looking through a deck of affirmation cards as a way to practice that inside the Vortex Vibration. They told us that the longer we are able to deliberately hold ourselves inside the Vortex, the easier it is to return to, and the more often we will be in the state of allowing our alignment with who we really are.
And so, we had a deck of them framed to hang in the hallway of our California home, as well as keeping a deck near us with selected ones in our pocket or purse. I even thought about getting a name badge holder and wearing it around my neck with a daily card tucked inside. But then…
Some friends in attendance at our recent Asheville seminars showed us the Money and the Law of Attraction Card Deck App that they had downloaded to their iphone. Such a fabulous idea!! And then today we received word from Reid Tracy (our publisher) that our Money, and the Law of Attraction Card Deck app has been selected by Apple as a featured app for their “What’s Hot” section on iTunes.
It will be prominently listed on the front page of the App Store for the next week. Now, several times a day, we can practice the Vibration of the Vortex by easily scrolling through these beautiful cards on the iPhone. If you don’t have an iPhone, you can still get these beautiful cards through Hay House.
And more good news… Amazon has chosen Abraham’s newest book, The Vortex, (released Sept 1, 2009) to be in the list of their top 100 books (of all books released in 2009) as favorites of Amazon customers. Now THAT is thrilling. It is getting easier and easier for people to find, and use, the teachings of Abraham.
Aren’t you immediately curious about what in the world those yeses are all about?
Amazing how powerful that little word is. Especially when you say it to yourself. What?
How many times do you decline inner nudges to act in ways that would SURELY RAISE YOUR VIBRATION to a more blissful state? While searching for love, your path will be lined with lovely signs that you are on the right track. Will you notice them or not?
There is evidence every single day that you are getting closer to love and when your vibration is uplifted regularly, you will see that evidence. Love appears like magic. When love appears more regularly, finding a soul mate connection will be a natural unfolding.
What are some of the inner nudges you need to answer with an emphatic YES?
Here are some that my Inner Being sends me, maybe you can relate:
How about a walk?
Ready for a glass of water?
Why not call that friend you haven’t seen for a couple of months.
Go outside for a breath of fresh air.
Turn off the computer for awhile.
Take yourself out to lunch in a new neighborhood.
Take a yoga class.
There are countless things that will raise your vibration and when you are humming along in well-being, the Law of Attraction has lots of energy to work with, you will most assuredly run into more loving people and opportunities than you an imagine!
So let’s here it from everyone: YES! YES! YES!