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18
Nov

Love knows no boundaries.In 1969 John Rendall and Ace Berg saw a Lion cub for sale in Harrods. Cramped and lonely in a small cage, the decided to bring him home.

Christian soon outgrew their home and John and Ace decided to reintroduce him to Africa. This is the story of their reunion.

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9
Feb

“Why can’t I just let go?”

“A part of me cannot see why I need to.  I want it to work out between us even though I bigstock Sadness 168999 300x225 I Cant Believe He is Gone.  (Listen in, Rapunzel....)know he isn’t the one.”

I heard the sound of quiet weeping on the other end of the phone.

“Is there anything in you that whispers that he might truly change and that you would feel valued, respected and loved?” I asked gently.

“No.” Sighed Sarah. “I think I am afraid that no one else will come.”

I could sense her throat tightening up and feel her tear as it began to touch her cheek. I am able to feel my clients feelings. At first, I feel them when they feel nothing.

I know that is a little weird, but it is true. By the end of our work together, Sarah was able to feel the feelings too. We could resonate together and feel the pulse of life in a cool way.

This Rapunzel like the others before her have been deeply hurt by betrayal and lies. Fear and anger were like the mortar holding her tower of protection into place.

She sabotages by isolating herself, even when she is with someone.  The problem is that the tower is single occupancy and there will never be room for a soul mate to move in.

Once Sarah could let go of her lost dreams and hopes, she began to build a new tower for herself. A Tower with bricks of self acceptance and self compassion with a mortar of love and peace.  Now she is engaged.  Good for you, Sarah!

When you learn to feel what being loved and accepted feels like, really feels like, you won’t be able to settle anymore. You already have experiences within your tapestry of memories of exquisite moments.

Moments like being acknowledged publicly at work or school, cheered on at a toddler ballet recital, wept over by your emotional mom while you played a viola piece you loved or the first powerful and oh so innocent crush on that first guy.

The problem is that those great memories are hidden in the dark complication of the remorse, regrets and rejection in the years between then and now. The flow of these three invisible energetic forces, Regret, Remorse and Rejection is a raging river separating you from your own core.

You are separated from the center of your own heart. You on one side of that river, your heart on the other. Without your heart, you cannot attract your true love.

Even though you have your vision board and are saying affirmations and you are claiming that you are ready for love, you are radiating loneliness, disappointment and emptiness on an energetic level.  And girl, you have to do something about that.

This raging river of ill will toward men in general and romance in particular, rushing through your emotions, is dominating your choices, your language, your mood and your reactions to life circumstances. It controls your love life by attracting men who have raging rivers of their own.

These relationships are certain to fall apart when the pain each person feels is blamed, consciously or unconsciously on the other. Then you get into a vicious cycle and the river rages stronger and stronger.

EFT is the best tool I know to neutralize that river….calm it down and transform it into Peace, Detachment and Acceptance. Once the forces within you are operating in calmness and ease, and the inner river is flowing easily with no stress, memories from the past that hold real creative juice will come forward.

You already have every thing you need to feel the deep magnetism that assures you that you are loved. The power of past love and disappointment is the block needing your attention.

Knowing you are ok and everything is progressing along at its perfect rate is hard, Rapunzel, I know you are tired of waiting. Your expectations can easily get inflated setting yourself up for disappointment.

Tell yourself things like this: “My life is unfolding at the exact right pace.” “I am learning to see good things that are coming my way…even if they are tiny.” “I want to feel happy”. “Being happy feels really good.” Even if it doesn’t feel like it is doing any good. It is. Your ears need to hear your voice carrying this positivity to your brain.

Once you radiate your authentic self, free of any fears of criticism or ridicule, you’re there. There is someone out there who is looking for exactly that….your real and true adorable self.

He is out there, Sweet Rapunzel, don’t compromise what is most precious to you to stay with a man. Be a soul mate to your own Soul first, then you are ready to be open to Your True Love, you will feel it clearly.

Can you relate?  Wonder if you might be a Rapunzel?  Take the Love Sabotage Assessment and check it out for free:  http://EndLoveSabotage.com

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5
Jan

I am a Facebook Fan.

And while I meet the best people, clients and friends, from all over the world, none is more fascinating than Catherine Behan. That’s right…Catherine Behan. The other Catherine Behan lives across the country, three time zones away and yet she is a relative of my husband.

A Behan by birth, Catherine is media relations manager for the Mercatus Center at George Mason University and is a media relations professional with more than twenty years experience as a daily newspaper reporter and media representative for political campaigns and in higher-education.

She also has a Facebook Soul Mate Reunion story that you will love.

Listen in as Catherine shares her Happily-Ever-After!

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/attractyoursoulmatenow/2011/01/05/a-facebook-love-story-finding-true-love-after-50

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27
Dec

Hello Seekers of Love!

I am sitting in chilly (22 degrees) Tennessee with a silly smile on my face this morning. My family164147 10150102626351869 643166868 7470157 3629965 n 225x300 When Love Comes in Itty Bitty Packages got a Christmas surprise….a new baby grand daughter! Imagine my daughter in laws delight and relief. No her bag wasn’t packed, but now her belly isn’t either and she is very happy about that!

Little Oaklee Elizabeth is settling in with her 2 year old brother Brody and we had a wonderful Christmas. I was able to find an inexpensive flight on Christmas Eve and surprised my son. It is a happy time.

I wanted to check in with you to let you know that I am celebrating YOU this Christmas season. Here are the top ten reasons I am happy that you are in my life:

10. You are resilient and forever hopeful that True Love exists.

9. You have survived countless disappointments and keep on keeping on.

8. You have built a life for yourself that works in spite of your challenges.

7. You read my articles and support me by trying the ideas out for yourself.

6. You have a tender heart that you protect with all your might.

5. You hold your dream for True Love even though it has been so hard for you.

4. You are anxious about certain parts of life but press on.

3. You are willing to look at your beliefs and sort through them to pick the ones that work.

2. You are tech savvy and search for answers on line (try http://InnerGoogle.us)

1. You never, never, never give up!!

I am looking forward to helping more and more people find their way to True Love in 2011! Here is a special gift for you from my friend Jeannette Maw at the Good Vibe University. I especially like page 15. This E-book is so well written and explains energy better than I could myself. I am tickled to share it with you:

http://www.intuitopia.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Light-in-the-Darkest-Hour.pdf

It is going to be an amazing year!

I love you!

Catherine

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6
Dec

Isn’t it time you DID give a damn?

Ladies, it is my pleasure to introduce you to True Love Saboteur Scarlett O’Hara:

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28
Sep

Is your goal to find a man who will cherish you, shower you with love andcouple in love 300x281  Are Your Deal Breakers Cutting You Off From Love? affection, be proud of you and show you off to his friends and family?

Or is it to be with a man exactly 4 1/2 inches taller than you?

For most of my life, baldness in a man was a complete deal breaker.
I even had occasional panic attacks when encountering bald men.

Because I was hurt by a bald man in my past, I had automatically DISQUALIFIED all bald men. How did I do that?  My BODY freaked out with flash backs and gut wrenching tightness and pain in my belly.

CRITICALLY IMPORTANT: DON’T MISS THIS…..

Why do I tell you this?  Because much to my total shock and amazement….that deal breaker was not a TRUE deal breaker.

Once I got clear on what experiences in my past had manufactured that deal breaker, I could move on and guess what happened????

The Universe delivered a Soul Mate to me….and he is, you guessed it…..Bald!! So how about you?  Could you have a deal breaker that is holding your own dreams for True Love out of reach?

If you are not 100% sure that your deal breakers are True and Necessary….you can change your mind. Wondering if this could be you?  Are you single and have height, hair or fitness deal breakers? We need to talk.

The first step is to take the http://EndLoveSabotage.com Assessment so you can find out how strong your love sabotage habits are.  Then you can make an action plan and change your vibration for good

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10
Jun

Are you out of sight, out of touch and out of reach from the man of your dreams?  You might be a “Rapunzel”.

Rapunzels are the lovelies I work with who are not even aware that they are locked away and unavailable to True Love.  The interior of their tower is full of vision boards and lists of the perfect match, but when it comes right down to it, there is no way for a man to get in.

One small window at the top of the tower let’s her look out at the sea of possibility right outside, but heartbreak and disappointment from the past keeps her separate and out of the game.
Like the Rapunzel in the fairy tale who had to let the poor guy climb up her hair (ouch!!) our modern day Rapunzel is afraid that the emotional pain and risk of letting a man get close is just not worth it.

She stares longingly out the window at the handsome guys passing her by and daydreams about a future life she has no idea how to get.  As years go by, the tower gets taller and more severe, making it harder and harder to see the men who could bring her the love she so desperately wants.

Could you be a Rapunzel?  Check these symptoms and see if you recognize yourself:

1.  Hasn’t had a long term relationship in over 5 years.

2.  Enjoys being home alone.

3.  Has a closer relationship with her pet than she does with a man.

4.  Turns down invitations.

5.  Has a traumatizing breakup in the past that still stings.

6.  Acutely lonely.

7.  Is secretly terrified of change.

Is this you?  Well, Rapunzel, how long are you going to stay up there in that tower?  Who holds the key to your future?  Unlike the fairy tale, there is no wicked witch who has locked you in there.  And, you don’t need to let anyone climb up your hair to set you free.

Just acknowledging that you have checked out and been out of commission for awhile will start to shift things for you automatically. Start by looking at your life from a new vantage point.  Face how long it has been since you have been out in circulation and take an action step to change that.

Check out meetup.com and find a group to join.  There are groups for every interest imaginable…from photography to wine drinking to hiking.  Volunteer at your area animal shelter and love on those lonely pups and kittens.  Just do one thing out of your ordinary routine.  Find a coach or mentor who can equip you to re-enter the dating scene.  Above all, choose to commit to changing your vantage point.  True Love is not a distant dream….it is closer than you think.

Do you wonder what your chances are for Soul Mate Success?  http://EndLoveSabotage.com and get your Soul Mate Success Score right now!

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6
Jun

Diana hates her birthday.

Now that she is 39 for the last time and 45 is around the corner, she is tired of being a bigstock Heart In Pain 13191051 300x281 Why Dont Men Want Me?good sport. “I never thought I would still be single,” she wailed to no one in particular. Living alone had become a nightmare and the reality that children were not likely stabbed through her like a knife.

“Why did I ruin it?” she sobbed, “He wasn’t that bad. I thought he was The One at first. He was really into me. But the minute I started to talk about marriage, everything completely changed.” She began to cry uncontrollably. “He was my last chance, I just know it.”

This birthday was really painful. Last year she had taken Todd home and introduced him to her family. He didn’t want to be called a ‘boyfriend’ but she chose to ignore that. SHE knew that he was, even if he didn’t say so. She had waited almost 6 months before approaching the Commitment Talk. He pulled away faster than the D.C. metro. And now…she was alone….again.

Diana glanced at her voice mail….10 messages. She couldn’t bring herself to listen to all the birthday greetings. She hated her birthday and every year, as she kissed her dreams good by, it got worse plus time kept getting faster and faster.

Is it too late for Diana?

Unless she does something to change her attitude, yes. Harsh? Maybe. Honest? Yes. Diana has put so much pressure on herself to manifest a husband and family that she broadcasts a desperate vibe that is turning every prospect away. She thinks she can put on a happy face and ‘act as if’ she is fine but she is not fooling anybody.

What would I tell her if she asked me? I would remind her of the meaning of insanity….doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result each time. I would ask her a few important questions like these:

1. Did you have a boyfriend that broke your heart in high school?

2. Has anyone ever cheated on you?

3. Was your dad cruel or manipulative or absent?

4. Did a male teacher belittle you or humiliate you in public?

5. Have you been raped or beaten?

If Diana answered yes to any of these questions I would tell her this: Those past experiences left an imprint on you that is here right now as strong as it ever was. Memories with painful emotions attached to them are controlling your every move when it comes to choosing the men you allow to get close to you.

Find someone to help you release these painful imprints. Whether it is a pastor, a counselor, a coach or other mentor, don’t try to do this alone.

If your microwave is on the blink, you don’t take a screwdriver to it, take it apart, rebuild it and put it back together, do you?

Why do you think you can find your own problem, take yourself apart and then rebuild your heart by yourself? If you are REALLY serious about finding a soul mate and building a family, there is one thing you absolutely must do.

You must do something, no make that everything, differently than you have so far. If marriage has eluded you, face the music and change course. Don’t let the painful memories from the past stop you from finding True Love.

Once you set a new course, get the marching orders from someone able to help you and then move forward….you will find what you are looking for. I promise.

Do you ever wonder if it is too late for you? Did you answer “yes” to any of those questions? If so, I would love to support you. Go to http://EndLoveSabotage.com and take the survey.  Once upon a time, you believed that True Love was possible, let’s restore that dream.

 

 

 

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5
Jun

90% of singles quit on-line dating services for the wrong reason. What if your soul mate is out there on line and you never meet him?

There is nothing more magical and true proof of the Law of Attraction than Internet Dating.

If you have only attracted creeps and losers on-line, there is a perfectly logical reason for that and it doesn’t have anything to do with the creeps and losers.
No matter how beautifully you write your profile, the energy underneath the words is what prospects are responding to.  Wait… read what my star client Maria writes about her new Love Vibe.

Before we started to work together, the ratio of 7 women to 1 man on her beautiful island of Victoria, British Columbia just killed her dating life.
She teased that all the men were either “Newly Wed or Nearly Dead” and the only men who responded to her profile were the “Nearly Dead”.  She was totally creeped out.  Look what she says now:

Hi Catherine

I wanted to send you a quick note regarding our sessions. Before I started working with you I was very discouraged about finding love. I have been single for 15 years only dating every now and then.

Since we started our sessions I am having a complete attitude change, I believe it is possible to find my soul mate! I feel so much better not only about finding HIM but I also feel amazing about ME too.

Catherine you put my world into perspective and that in itself is priceless. I believe there is a wonderful future out there waiting for the right moment to find me. Now I feel I’m ready to go after it.

I have this inner excitement inside of me that I had lost for so many years. It’s nice to have ME back again, I really missed her! Ha ha!

Catherine you are a doll and you make a world of difference in people’s lives, don’t ever stop doing what you are doing.

You even got me back onto Internet dating, which before I met you I wouldn’t consider trying ever again. This time with my new vibrations it is a lot different. It’s exciting and new and it really does work!!!

Hugs to you, I cannot wait till the day I meet you in person.

Love ya,
Maria

Maria’s first step was The Soul Mate Quiz.  Once she felt her Love Vibe and realized how muffled it was by the heartbreaks from her past, she understood why she was attracting the wrong men.  The Law of Attraction led her to my website and the rest is history.  Even though she hasn’t met “The One” yet, I know she is getting more and more irresistible to men who are perfect prospects for her.  She is attracting single guys in her age group and having more fun than she thought possible….with on line dating!

How about you?  If you are single and not dating and fearful of on line relationships…it just might be because your Love Magnet is too weak to attract True Love.  Take the first step and get your Soul Mate Success Score.  http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com and find out right now!

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3
Jun
The DTR

The DTR (“Define the Relationship”): that necessary but nervous-sweat-inducing conversation that every couple must have (besides perhaps an arranged marriage). How many dates must pass before the talk? What’s the best way to do it? What if they’re not feeling the same way and the DTR causes a premature end to your (or their) live-in-the-now happiness?

When to DTR: This varies from relationship to relationship, so instead of following some arbitrary timeline, do it when it feels right. The DTR should happen when you start feeling ready to take things to the next level. If you’re feeling excited about them and want to see what happens in an exclusive setting, bring it up.

The other situation in which to DTR is if you’re getting the impression that they’re way more into you than you are into them (and/or feel like maybe they’re thinking exclusivity when you’re not). Put yourself in their shoes and treat them well, even if you think their assumptions about your relationship are out of line. Being honest about where you stand and getting everyone on the same page is huge, especially when feelings get involved.

How to DTR: Couching the DTR as a serious talk may be mistaken for the break-up speech, so avoid talking about having the DTR before you actually do. If the person you’re with hears “I want to talk about something with you”, they’ll be on the defensive to protect themselves in case what you have to say isn’t good — no one loves getting dumped. Instead, bring it up the next time you’re both happy and comfortable and in a low-key but positive way: “Hey — I like you. I want to see where this will go. How are you feeling about us?” Then, have a conversation and figure out where you both stand. If you’re in the same place, brilliant. If not, talk about it.

When you want to go from many to one: If you’re currently dating multiple people and would like to be dating just one, hen you mention you’d like to be exclusive with them that one person will pick up on the fact that they were not (up until the DTR) the sole member of your happy-time club. If they subscribe to the popular belief that until the DTR, everything is fair game, they’ll be fine with this. If they don’t, listen and talk it through. Hopefully they’ll see your side.

A successful DTR requires both grace and tact, and an understanding of the position of the person you’re DTRing. Honesty, respect and communication are golden. No one likes to feel like they’ve been played, or to be in a position where they’re getting hurt or are hurting someone else. Don’t fall prey to wussiness or a douchebaggery: talk about where you stand when you get to the point of moving forward or out.

Yours in happy DTRing, S

Originally published on the PickV.com blog (a new dating site that matches people based on music, movies and book likes and dislikes), where Samantha Scholfield is the weekly love/relationships contributor. Samantha is the author of the book “Screw Cupid: The Sassy Girl’s Guide to Picking Up Hot Guys” Available everywhere books are sold www.screwcupidthebook.com

How about you?  Do you wonder what your chances are for Soul Mate Success?  http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com and get your Soul Mate Success Score right now.

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