“What makes you think you are sabotaging?”  I asked.

“I keep attracting the opposite of what I want.”  The quiet voice said on the other end of the phone.  “Ever since my ex cheated with my best friend, I have been stuck in one dead end relationship after another.”

“Nice men are not attractive to me…they seem boring.”

Sound familiar?  You might be a Sleeping Beauty stuck in a nightmare of lost love and disappointment.  Check it out:

The Sleeping Beauty Saboteur Stage

Sleeping Beauty, if you recall, was a princess sleeping in a thorn wrapped castle waiting for the Prince to kiss her and wake her up. Each of my Saboteur types, Snow White, Rapunzel and Scarlett O’Hara all go through Sleeping Beauty stages as they learn how to let Love find them.

You see, if True Love Sabotage is activated within you, you are actually INVISIBLE to the men who would enchant your heart.

Sleeping Beauty does not see her beauty, her promise, her power or her magic.  Here are some signs that you may be a Sleeping Beauty:

• Compulsive behaviour of any kind:  drinking, smoking, internet, shopping

• No dates in over 5 years

• Blaming your ex for the damage both suffered in relationship

• Attracting the exact opposite of the kinds of men you really want to date

• Rigid standards for yourself in business and in daily life, you may feel trapped in the perfectionism you have created

• Attracting unavailable men, married or living in a different country

• Rampant self hatred and an inner dialog of harsh criticism

• Stalking an ex

• Accepting Bootie Calls

• Frustratingly slow results with the Law of Attraction

• A deep feeling of hopelessness and self pity

• A knowing that no matter how hard you try to hide it, you know you are desperate for love, family and connection

The True Beauty of Your Slumbering Self is that your determination and resolve to find Love won’t let you give up. You are taking action to identify what your obstacles are to finding love. Your intuition is weak when it comes to reading people and once you strengthen it, your confidence will fly. Your Saboteur is anxious and it is hard for her to trust.

Sleeping Beauties are fabulous Soul Mates in the Making. While they sparkle with appeal and may attract men without difficulty, they are not able to send strong roots down and anchor themselves in a relationship. These Beauties are waiting for an Inner Nudge, an inner alarm that will wake them to the woman they have yet to become.

Once you awaken the hidden gifts in your true Saboteur Style (Scarlett, Rapunzel or Snow White), latent talents and intuitive abilities, you will be irresistible to True Love. What’s Next?

Recognizing your Sabotage Style will change your Love Life forever. You CAN find true love but your journey starts with YOU.  Build self confidence and learn to embrace your True Love Saboteur….she is aching for your love and attention.  Only you can write a new ending to your story.

Ready to wake up?  Take The Soul Mate Assessment:  http://EndLoveSabotage.com

Ok guys, it is your turn. Have you been feeling left out with all the Snow White and Rapunzel stuff? Well, thanks for being patient. I am happy to introduce you to your saboteurs.

Any man who is looking into self sabotage is one special man. If you are willing to look at yourself and how you can adjust your thinking about love, you can find a great partner. In many ways, you guys are like my ladies. You have been hurt by past love, stalked by women who couldn’t let go, dumped by the woman of your dreams and find yourself single in spite of all.

If you read my material, you know that self-sabotage is my specialty. The women I have talked to fall into three distinct saboteur styles, Rapunzel, Scarlett O’Hara and Snow White. There is also a Sleeping Beauty stage in each soul mate’s journey…the time when she is not aware of her magic or her power to attract true love.

Finally, you guys have your own saboteur styles. I have defined the male saboteur styles as Prince Charming, Knight in Shining Armor and Romeo. Plus, there is a Rip Van Winkle stage when men are asleep to their strength and magnetism when it comes to attracting the right women.

Let me summarize the three male True Love Saboteurs:

continue

“Nice.” Marisol swerved to miss the annoying car on the freeway. “What a jerk. Learn how to drive!” Flashing her middle finger as she zoomed by in her BMW convertible.

A love of fashion is finally paying off as she has enough money to dress in the latest styles. Marisol looks like a complete success, but…..

A control freak? Yes, and so ironic because Marisol, a true Scarlett, feels like the biggest fraud in the world. Sure she has a great wardrobe, she also has a ton of credit card debt.

continue

Shhhhh.   This is one of your True Love Saboteur’s secret weapons…she knows that without these two words, your soul mate search can’t get any traction. Don’t tell her I spilled the beans, ok?

There are two words that pretty much guarantee your success in finding a mate.

Two little words that can make all the difference in the world.  Without these two words in your vocabulary, you are doomed to repeat the crummy old pattern and your single life gets slowly but surely cemented in place.  What are they?

continue

Who me?  Self Sabotage?

Still single?  Yes….self sabotage. Can you accept that a part of you is terrified of being disappointed….again.

Somehow, your Saboteur has gotten the idea that you are safest living alone. She is convinced that you would rather be alone than happy.  Ouch.  Doubtful?  How do YOU explain how you have manifested singleness over all these years….and done it so completely?

The True Love Saboteurs each have a sabotage style unique to their personalities. Whether you are a Rapunzel, Snow White or Scarlett O’Hara, you will change your luck in love once you know your own sabotage style.  There is really good news here.  Your Saboteur is the most powerful manifester you are likely to meet. Think about it, you have manifested singleness in spite of all your efforts to be find your True Love.

Once you seduce your Saboteur and get her to work on your side, what might be possible for you?

Ladies, it is my pleasure to introduce you to True Love Saboteur Snow White:

continue