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Secretly, she never did like those dwarves.
Over the years, she even secretly named them. Whiney, Negative, Complacent, Unmotivated, Stubborn, Naive and Annoying. Resentment was a constant battle. She was such a sweet thing and didn’t get angry very often and she really enjoyed helping them….part of the time. But, she never felt appreciated at the deepest level. When they hi-hoed-hi-hoed and off to work they went….she took care of that whole household….with no electric appliances. The end of the day came and her to do list was never done. The next day all she had was the same routine…..again.
How do you tell if you are a Snow White? Maybe you are a Scarlett O’Hara, Rapunzel or Sleeping Beauty. Everyone has a Self Sabotage Style, I call them True Love Saboteurs and I find four types. Snow Whites are lovely women. They are kind, generous to a fault, reliable and faithful as apple pie. They crave financial security and yet are chronic under-earners. They strongly believe that their service to others will give them the connection they are hungry for. Most have no idea what True Love really feels like so their love magnetism is scattered and confusing.
Because The True Love Saboteur’s only task is to make sure your beliefs are supported and stay true, this is a powerful energy source with in you. She is truly a master. It is tangible proof of the power of focus. You believe Love is hard and that it is impossible to find a good match….your Saboteur makes sure that happens.
How do I know? You are still single. No matter how desperately you want a partner, it is not happening. Your Saboteur is working overtime, underneath the radar, supporting the belief that trusting a man again will be too devastating to handle. For many Snow Whites, the stomach clenching fear about what will happen if the next man is not the one, is enough to unconsciously opt for singleness.
In fact, most Snow White’s have taken steps to move on from the past and recognize what they have been doing is not working. Many of them are out of touch, perhaps numb, to the inner turmoil. Like ashes after a forest fire, there is emotional residue cluttering up the Inner Landscape. A part of you is terrified that you will not find someone. Your Saboteur is doing everything it can to make sure you don’t feel how afraid you are.
What’s the solution? The first step is to check in to see if Snow White’s Saboteur Style fits:
How To Recognize Snow White:
The second step is easy. If you feel you might have a True Love Saboteur underneath your relationship radar, just click the link below and we can set up a complimentary consultation. I can show you if your Saboteur is activated and how much control she has over your love life.
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Learning to open your heart again toward women will put you on the fast track to receiving the man the Universe has been trying to bring to you.
Angelique closed her sketch pad and stretched lazily. Her cat, stood up and arched her back in a stretch of her own. She walked to the kitchen to make a pot of coffee and paused, like always, gazing at the faded photo framed in the hallway.
It had been 20 years and still she ached. She lived that day again and again.
She had gotten up a little earlier than normal and took her routine run on the beach. Tony had been in London for a month working on an IT project and she couldn’t wait to have him home. He had proposed a week before he left and they were getting ready to move in together. continue
I love to flirt on the golf course.
It feels really good, extra good for some reason, to have a man’s attention and appreciation on the golf course. Even though I am married to my golfer and ADORE my time on the golf course with him, (I am still flirtier with him on the course than anywhere else!) I still enjoy the attention of men who notice my presence on the course.
Yes, I have a good swing and a fairly good game but even though I haven’t played much lately and my skills are a bit rusty, my higher scores have not impacted the male attention I get at all. In fact, there is satisfaction in golf on many levels and score is only one. (A quick comic recovery from an embarrassing shot is one of my secret flirting weapons.)
Now there are some WRONG WAYS to flirt. If your attempts to attract a guy’s attention on the course fall flat as the proverbial pancake, read on. Men are hyper sensitive to the“I Must Meet Him Now” mindset and any flirting coming from that direction is doomed to failure.
If that is you, try on a new perspective in your search for a soul mate on the golf course. Yes, he might be out there today, playing three holes ahead of you, destined to hold the door open for you when you finish your round. But there is an equally intriguing possibility that someone there has a cousin or brother that you need to meet. Law of Attraction will faithfully draw people to you for reasons you don’t see til you look backwards!
Golf is a uniquely powerful gateway to personal confidence and a woman who is confident in herself is undeniably attractive. Getting a flirty attention feels exquisite and there are so few women out there, you might want to consider any previous ideas about yourself and golf and explore the possibilities.
In golf there is the keenly excruciating opportunity for public embarrassment. Anyone who has left three shots in the bunker, launched a tee shot into the pond or missed a putt from less than a foot knows exactly what I am talking about. BUT, I just got home from the range and there were easily FIFTY men practicing for FIVE women. Ladies, we have to get over ourselves!
If your golf confidence barely has a pulse, you will only attract the smart ass good old boys who LOVE to lampoon lady golfers. If you complain that there are no genuine guys out there, stop and ask yourself, why is this jerk bothering me. Chances are his attitude reminds you of someone in your past who disregarded or discounted you. No wonder you don’t like to hang out there. I don’t blame you.
If these maddening mishaps keep you away from the game, I recommend you re-evaluate your experience with golf. Look at it this way: three out of four golfers are men. There are great looking, professional, active and passionate single men congregating in large groups on a regular basis….possibly within five miles of your home.
Feeling inspired? Ready to take action? Here’s your How To Flirt On The Golf Course Game Plan:
1. Get a putting lesson. One on one instruction is terrific, but you will find that group lessons are great ways to meet people to practice and play with. Lots of driving ranges offer short game clinics right in your area.
2. Take action to increase your self confidence on the golf course. Read Golf is Not A Game Of Perfect by Dr. Bob Rotella or Zen Golf by Joseph Parent. Want faster results? Find a life coach who you enjoy and set your intention to double or triple your self confidence this summer.
3. Get Out There And Flirt: Once you get some new skills to practice, it costs nothing to show up at your neighborhood golf course on the weekends with your putter and spend an hour on the putting green. Believe me, you will be noticed and flirting opportunities abound! Let it flow and enjoy the attention! You deserve it!