Apr
“I know what you mean,” moaned Lisa. “I want a guy over 6 feet and the last three matches were all under 5′ 8!”
Can you relate? Have you worked and worked on your on-line profile and still attract people you would never pick for yourself? What’s wrong with the system?
Personally, I have worked with many people who have had excellent results with on-line dating. Some, though still single, really enjoy the people they have met through these dating resources. So what’s the deal? Why aren’t more people lucky in on-line love?
If you aren’t finding a good match, could it be that YOU are not a good match? Is it possible that you aren’t projecting the whole picture? If you are attracting people that are not even close to your ideals, you just might need to focus on a little ME-Harmony before you go to E-Harmony.
Long time singles like yourself have a Lost Love Legacy that holds your future captive. Each person you have encountered along the way…BFFs included, have left a sort of footprint in your mind and heart. Some past relationships have been good and the breakups mutual. But, the fact is, all past relationships have disappointments and heartbreak that lodge themselves in your heart.
No one is perfect. People hurt each other in relationship when misunderstandings happen, no matter how hard you try not to. When you attract the exact opposite of who it is you want to be with, it is a sure sign that you are coming across with a confusing vibration. The Law of Attraction is relentless and always brings exactly what you are vibrating…not what you are hoping for.
One part of you craves to be loved and adored. Another fears opening deeply to let love in. One part of you wants to co-create a marriage that works. Another part is intimidated by the negotiating it takes to walk it out.
One part of you wants a partner who is open and vulnerable. Another part of you is terrified of being open and vulnerable. See what I mean?
When you focus on ME-Harmony, you learn you can accept your doubts and fears and still move forward. Making peace with the ghosts of relationships past is the fastest way to get there. Each heart break in your past holds the power to make you an amazing partner. You did the best you could with what you knew at the time. Finding self compassion and letting go of your hurts and disappointments will bring you to a place of shining self confidence.
When you have ME-Harmony, you may not even return to on-line dating. There is nothing more irresistible than a happy, confident person. Your luck in love will surely change when you choose that as your primary goal!
Curious about how to bring that harmony to yourself? Take the Soul Mate Quiz right here: http://AttractYourSoulMateNow.com
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Before I could answer, she melted into tears, “I guess I am afraid there really isn’t anyone out there for me. How can I know for sure? If I knew he wasn’t coming, then I could move on in peace. It is the not knowing that is just killing me.”
The phone went silent for a moment as she composed herself.
“I just can’t give up,” She sighed. “Something in me won’t let go of the dream.”
From that point, we went on to clear a powerful past break up with EFT and released some of the very real heart break from nearly 20 years ago.
So, is it your fault that the LOA is not delivering as you expect? After all, according to the Law of Attraction, you are living out what you are vibrating so if you are failing in your Soul Mate Search, aren’t you ultimately responsible?
Yes and no. Your Dreams and Aspirations are powerful tools guiding you to truly enjoy your life. If your man or woman hasn’t shown up for you, it is almost always a matter of Timing. The very fact that you are reading this post is evidence that you are attracting the tools you need to make your dreams a reality.
Your past relationships have been filled with misperceptions and misunderstandings and you have to deal with that. There are no short cuts. This part IS your responsibility. Be sincere when you look inside at your heart. Are you really ready to open your heart again?
If you are not so sure, then you can take inspired action to clear away the emotional residue that is cluttering your mind. You can prepare your heart to love again and when you make THAT your primary goal, Law of Attraction will pour resources and support to manifest your strong and healed heart!
LOA is always strongest when you pick an Inner Goal rather than an Outer Goal. What I recommended to Janet was that she change her intention from: “I want to attract a Soul Mate.” to “I want to prepare my heart to BE a fantastic Soul Mate.”
I could almost feel her smile through the phone. “I feel so relieved!” She said. “I can DO that!”
Are you ready for True Love? http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com and find out today.
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Mar
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Mar
Want To Get Lucky?
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Mar
Hi Soul Mates,
I am testing my new Video Classroom and I really need your help! We have had an issue with the service and I want to test it out before I launch to people outside of my inner circle.
I am holding a F*R*E*E Law of Attraction and Soul Mates Q and A on Saturday March 6 and want to have as many people as possible on the call to see how the system works!
This is where you come in. If you can show up for the call, even for a few minutes, it will really help me out. I even have a special REWARD for everyone who helps out. I am creating a powerful Love Magnetizing audio just for the Soul Mates who register for this f*r*e*e event!
Here is the registration info, come ask me anything you want to ask about using the Law of Attraction to attract your own True Love!
http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/free-loa-and-love-video-q-and-a-register-here/
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your help! I can’t wait to meet with you all in my new Video Classroom!
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Feb
But I was moved by his vulnerability and the level of shame and embarrassment. I was sad for him. Sad for his mom. Sad for Elin and his kids. Whether or not he and Elin can recover from this, once again, Tiger steps up as a leader and takes it on the chin.
He takes responsibility for himself and I wish him all the best in his search for peace and reconciliation. Thanks for that Tiger.
What moves me the most is that each of us has something. Everyone of us has something we have done or are doing that could embarrass us if we were in the public eye. We may not have been unfaithful in such a flagrant way, but we sure have made some HUGE blunders in our private lives.
I hope that Elin and Tiger can find answers to all that has happened. Whether they are married or not, they are parents of itty bitty kids who need them to recover and restore balance. True Love can be romantic love and often is. But True Love is something else.
True Love loves in spite of error. True Love honors growth and change. True Love teaches that mistakes are not fatal. True Love sustains during horrible circumstances.
I wish Tiger all the luck in the world. I was so disappointed in him at first. Today I am compassionate and send him love and support. Having to do all of this in the public eye makes a tough situation even worse and I appreciate his words today. I am still a fan.
Have you been betrayed by someone who you thought was your True Love? Tune in tomorrow, February 20 for a FREE Live Video Webinar at 9 am pacific. I am doing a Q and A call and you can ask me anything you want about Attracting True Love. Click here to register:
http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/five-secrets-to-exquisite-love-preview-call/
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Feb
Only read this if you want a soul mate more than anything else.
You see, it is that singular focus….in other words, you have to want it bad. Job, family, health, career, friends….everything else has to take a back seat to your white hot burning desire to be with a man. You need to tap in to the deep longing in your heart and let it lead you.
Some of you think you are already there. Guess what? You’re not. How do I know?
Are you still single?
So before you get annoyed with me, check this list and see if you can relate to these things that beautiful, successful women have told me are great about being single:
1. Independence. SPW (Single Professional Women) love being in charge of their own lives and schedules. The idea of checking in with someone to “ok” their schedule makes them cringe.
2. No Shopping Police It is fabulous to have their hands on their own money and have no one to criticize or judge that new pair of shoes or designer bag.
3. No Inlaws or Partner Work Outings They love not going to anybody else’s obligatory social events but their own.
4. Shaving “Seriously, no one but me cares what I shave or how often I shave it.” Thanks for this one from http://stefanie-says.blogspot.com
5. Laundry The smelly socks are always their own.
Seriously though, is there a part of you longing to belong to someone? Do you wish you knew how to open your heart again? Is there a part of you who would do anything to be cherished?
You can get what you want. Law of Attraction will serve you faithfully when you are ready. To manifest a change for yourself….there is only one thing you need to do. Listen in to this preview call and learn:
“How To Be Loved Exquisitely: 5 Simple Secrets
To Help You Stop Waking Up Alone, Have the
Relationship of Your Dreams and Bring You
All the Love and Intimacy You Want.”
http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/five-secrets-to-exquisite-love-preview-call/
You’ll be really glad you did!
Law of Attraction And Soul Mates San Diego Meetup: ~~A Hundred Sixty Strong and Growing! Http://LOAinLove.com
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Jan
Try this. Stand in front of the mirror and say “I trust you completely” while looking into your own eyes.
You will learn something about yourself.
I have had some issues in the trust department. Seems some of people I chose to open up to ended up being temporary people in my life. People who just passed through on their way to somewhere else.
My biggest hurts have come from the decisions I made to judge these abbreviated relationships as wrong. They weren’t wrong as much as they were just different than what I expected and hoped for.
I have longed for closeness and connection for most of my life and yet I have also struggled to be open and vulnerable. I remember being shocked to learn that if I wanted a man who was open, vulnerable and emotionally available, there was one big obstacle I had to get around first. I needed to be willing to be open, vulnerable and emotionally available myself. Yikes.
My relationships are like a house of mirrors. Some of what I see still scares me and I feel I am careening like a ball in a pin ball machine. I am also beginning to see humor in other relationships and I am laughing more at the sheer silliness of some of the daily drama.
To think….it is only reflections of me distorted by imperfections in the glass. I am seeing myself differently when I review my steps to see what got me here. I am attracting more and more of Larry’s gentlest and kindest self and it is delicious.
If you are one who answered no to my question and you don’t trust anyone yet. And you know this is true even though you wish it wasn’t. I have a bit of cheer leading for you. You will be amazed at how easy it can be to take baby steps in opening yourself up to the right person.
As you move forward using the principles of the Law of Attraction and tuning in with clarity and passion, you are going to attract the highest and best of the people who cross your path.
There will be a person who shows up to help you practice your skills. You will know this person because of how wonderful you feel when you spend time together. I know you have been hurt before when you trusted someone but you are different now.
You are stronger and you always land on your feet. Go ahead and move toward a friendship. Take it slow and enjoy getting to know the other person. Everyone has a story, take time to listen to this new person’s story. Ask a lot of questions.
If everything feels smooth, lean in to the connection a little and test the waters. You will be surprised how easy it is to attract the highest and best in people. Practicing kindness and curiosity is the quickest and easiest way to form mutually beneficial connections.
Building trust is the very best investment you can make.
“And before you know it, you’ll mostly be in appreciation. And that’s such a nice place to live.” And So It Definitely Is! Abraham Hicks
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Dec
Wouldn’t it be nice if you could start a relationship with a 
healthy dose of hindsight leading the way?
Now that I am in my second marriage with a second soul mate, I have often thought how lucky I am to be getting a second chance to do things differently.
In my first marriage, I was so ill equipped. My negotiating skills were non-existent and I lived in a constant state of anxiety trying to keep peace at any cost.
I mistakenly believed that if I could keep my husband from being mad, that I would live happily ever after. Sounds so weak and wimpy now, I cringe at the thought.
But in my 21 year old wisdom (bless me!) all I wanted to do was to live in a home where there was no fighting. What resulted?
Two people who never talked about what mattered. Never talked about our dreams. Never talked about our challenges. Never talked. I signed on for this. I chose to be this way.
The Law of Attraction brought me the exact right partner. I take full responsibility. When we divorced it broke my heart. It was then, after my cushion of time to restore my confidence in myself after we broke up that I thought, “Wouldn’t it be nice if you could marry your second husband first.”
It sure would save a lot of time and complication.
Imagine if you knew the pitfalls to avoid. What if you had the confidence to stand in your own power and create a partnership that could withstand the tests of time? What if you could beat the odds of the 50% divorce rate and create an ideal relationship? I believe that is possible. Not only possible, but probable.
Are you still waiting for that True Love to walk into your life? Do you wish to enter a marriage with a game plan for lasting devotion? If you are still reading this post, I know there is a part of you who is ready. Ready to learn how to be a great second wife the first time around.
Take the time to prepave your next year. Decide to create a list of deal makers and deal breakers. Find a community of people who can support and believe with you. The Law of Attraction will faithfully serve you as you come into alignment with your authentic self.
Curious about Love Sabotage? Take the Love Sabotage Survey and get educated! http://EndLoveSabotage.com
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Dec
Abraham Hicks Relationship Tip #5
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“Everyone who turns up in your life–from the people you call friends and lovers, to the people you call enemies and strangers–comes in response to your Vibration. You not only invite the person, but you also invite the personality traits of the person.
Many people have a difficult time accepting this as they think that many of the unwanted characteristics of the people in their lives and they argue that they would never have asked for something so unwanted to come into their experience…..We know that many of the relationships and experiences that you have attracted, you would not have deliberately attracted if you had been doing it on purpose, but much of your attraction is not done by deliberate intent, but rather by default.
It is important to understand that you get what you think about, whether you want it or not. And chronic thoughts about unwanted things invite or ask for matching experiences, every time. The Law of Attraction makes it so.”
Abraham Hicks, The Vortex, page 21
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