I am taking some time off to explore the experience of losing my mom.  While I am away, I thought I’d share with you my top posts of all time. Whether you have read this particular post or not, I think you will find the content practical and helpful. I am excited to share it with you again!  Thanks for sending love and light to me and my seven brothers during this pivotal time.

I know this will come as a real shock to you…..but….some men think they are always right!!

I don’t know what it is…but there is something deep in the hearts of many men that will not let them admit that they don’t know everything.

Now we sweet female types…..we do see right through it…..and that makes your man work even harder to be right!

One of my clients was trying to tell her husband that he said NO to her for every thing she asked. Of course, he said ‘No, he didn’t’! She decided to put it to a test…and here is how it went….

She: Do you want to see a movie?
He: No

She: Do you want to go for a walk?
He: No

She: Can we talk for a few minutes?
He: No

She: Could you help me carry this box?
He: No

Finally….in total frustration she said to him…..

Do you want to have sex?

He said NO before he even thought about what she said!!

Needless to say….she finally got his attention. This couple got a big laugh out of this and that broke the tension…..but they still had work to do.

So….what can you do if your man insists that he is right about everything?

There is an AMAZING AND POWERFUL TOOL THAT RARELY FAILS….it is so powerful, not everyone can handle it…..

ARE YOU UP FOR THE CHALLENGE? I hope so because it could just change your relationship forever! Are you ready……..

AGREE WITH HIM…….you read correctly…..AGREE WITH HIM…..WHENEVER YOU CAN.

You may be in a pattern where you argue about big things and little things with the same passion. This is the perfect time to try this technique. There are so many things you don’t really need to be “right” about.

Look in the mirror and practice saying…..”You’re right about that.” It doesn’t hurt that bad…..I promise!!!

Telling him he is right about something will surprise him and while he is getting over the shock…..you say what you have to say.

For example…..

He says….”Your friend Darcy is always calling you during dinner.”
You say….”You’re right about that but she needs a friend.”

He says…..”But we need you too and I want to eat together as a family.”
You say….”You’re right, I can tell her I will call her back after dinner.”

If you can stop disagreeing about the small things……it won’t be long before you will be talking calmly about important things.

Dr. Wayne Dyer says “When you have a choice to be right or to be kind….always choose to be kind.”

It takes a strong person to live up to this…..and one strong person is often enough to start building a better relationship.

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I know that you have been searching for awhile now and that people around you are getting married this summer like never before. Sucks doesn’t it.

When I meet people who complain that the Law of Attraction doesn’t work for them, I always point them to Arielle Ford.

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Arielle is a determined, strong and independent whirl wind. She is not comfortable if she doesn’t have three projects spinning in her world.

Formerly a world class publicist, she poured so much passion in to her work, there was no sign of love to be seen.

Through an odd set of circumstances, Arielle was led on a specific journey in finding her Soulmate, Brian, at the age of 43. The experience of love she received in their relationship changed her life forever.

Ever since then she’s made it her mission in life to help other people manifest their own Soulmate…and she’s gone on to impact hundreds of thousands of people from all corners of the globe!

When she contacted me a couple of years ago to see if I wanted to offer EFT on her site, I jumped at the chance. I love working with her and meeting people from all over the globe who are looking for love.

Arielle can’t possibly speak to each person who writes to her personally and the more her book gets out there, the more people contact her for help in finding their own True Love.

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Hi Everyone,

I received this email today and I wanted to share it with you:

When the student is ready, the teacher appears.

 She unexpectedly came in the form of Catherine in the summer of ’09. I was yet in middle of being involved with emotionally unavailable people, again and again, feeling completely fed up with the same old tired scenario.

I had been immersing myself in the world of self-improvement and life coaching, as well as the Law of Attraction. I had previously never heard of love coaching (let alone a soulmate mastermind group!), so when I saw a random banner to Cat’s site, I was immediately intrigued.

I didn’t really quite understand the concept of soulmates. My life pretty much dictated that I’d most likely die a spinster—or so I believed at the time. If I could write a guidebook called How To Be Romantically Hopeless In 90 Days Flat (And Stay That Way FOR LIFE!) For Dummies, it would be an instant bestseller!

Backed by my extensive experience in unrequited crushes, abandonment, rejection, non-mutual attraction (and oh, not to mention people who only wanted that particular one thing from me and nothing else!), I became a seasoned pro at love sabotage.

It all gradually changed as soon as I began working with Cat. I attracted and aligned with more people and resources that directed me closer to the prize—my true love. Frankly, it was a quite hellaciously bumpy road, but even when I felt like I was at the end of my rope, I kept on affirming that the person had already been born, alive, breathing, and walking the earth, looking for me—wherever he was, whoever he was.

It still looked like nothing was happening at all, at least in the physical realm. Just when I was dealt yet another huge blow, the universe gave me a pretty nice and swift smack on the cheek to get me to pay attention. I then realized that the person I had been looking for DID indeed exist! He had been right under my nose (albeit halfway across the country) the whole time!

It turned out to be a good friend I had known for 2 1/2 years. He had been searching long and hard for someone like me all along! I somehow failed (or refused?) to recognize him as “the one” because he didn’t look the part, at least in form, but he is 150% of the essence of what I’ve always desired in a relationship!

I went from being nearly dateless to having a soulmate, life companion, and best friend who desires all of me—body, mind, and spirit! Quite a quantum leap, eh? (For the record, we both intend to get married one day. At the moment, we are working on allowing the right resources and circumstances to manifest.)

I feel so inspired to share the love now that I actually fancy myself following in your career footsteps someday, sooner or later. Many more thanks and blessings to you for being part of the journey, Cat. It’s been quite a ride, to say the least!   Love, Nancee (Snow White)

I love to get emails like this.  If you want to be transformed from the inside out and attract true love for yourself, click right here for a chat to see if Love Coaching is for you:  https://my.timedriver.com/LNZXG

Do you ever wake up in the middle of the night unable to fall back to sleep because your mind is running itself into hyperdrive?

Does your mind start streaming self critical and hopeless thoughts like this:

What’s wrong with me.  I will never find anyone.  I am such a loser.  Why did I break up with that guy.  I liked him ok.  Now I am here alone again.  I hate on line dating.  How will I ever meet anyone.  I hate bars.  I am so over the cocktail scene.  Maybe I could join the gym. No, I hate the gym.  I hate being alone.  I hate my life.  What’s wrong with me.  I will never find anyone.  I am such a loser….blah, blah and blah…..

Get my drift?  In the middle of the night, it can be brutal to turn that stream off.  It can start running stronger and stronger.  When you read in the Law of Attraction books that your thoughts create your reality…doesn’t that frustrate you?  I don’t blame you.

But what is a lonely girl to do?  A couple of years ago, I learned the most amazing tool for turning off my own mind.  I was recovering from cancer and believe me, fear ran my mind night and day.  Many nights, my eyes would pop open and on would go my mind…and not in a happy direction.

During this time, I stumbled upon an ancient Hawaiian healing practice called Hoʻoponopono (ho-o-pono-pono).  I read a book called The Urban Shaman by Serge Kahili King that inspired me in many ways.  I love Hawaii, always have, and this kahuna (healer) taught me something that really helped.

Ho’oponopono (Or just Hono Pono as I say it) has a lot of ritual and is described in detail on Wikipedia should you all want more info, but for turning off the mind, I simplified it to a simple routine that has WORKED EVERY TIME.  Yes, you read right.

This tool works EVERY time to turn my mind from the flood of negative thinking that can drag me into a blue mood.  So this is what I do:

There are FOUR phrases that every human being would love to hear from someone they love.  Four phrases that turn and soften the human heart but four phrases that some people never, ever hear from their loved ones.

The phrases are:

Thank You
I Love You
I’m Sorry
Please Forgive Me

Think about it, isn’t there someone in your life, someone you really care for…love with all your heart who has misunderstood you and hurt your feelings?  Wouldn’t you give just about anything to hear these words?  I know I do.

What I discovered that changed my life was that I could say these words to myself.  I discovered that when I said these words, some real magic happened.  My ears hearing my own voice saying these four phrases brought a lot of peace and yes, in the middle of the night, put me back to sleep.

At first, I resisted it.  I hate to admit it but, I didn’t want to admit that I could provide this comfort for myself.  You see, a part of me still wanted, in fact, insisted on hearing these things from the person who hurt me.  A part of me believed that I wouldn’t FEEL as loved if I said this for myself instead of hearing it from my loved one.

But, guess what?  I am the boss of me.  I am the chairman of my own mind.  I am the only one who can stop the runaway train of my negative thinking.  I know it was because of the cancer that I changed my tight thinking.  I wanted to live more than I wanted to hear those things from people who had hurt me.

So.  I began what has become an easy daily habit.  I began to repeat the magic words over and over.  Muttering under my breath so I wouldn’t wake my husband, I said. “Thank you.  I love you. I’m Sorry. Please Forgive me.  Thank You. I love you. I’m Sorry.  Please Forgive me.”

When I fell asleep the first time, I was sold.  I didn’t know how it worked, I just know that it did.  These magic words turned off my fear.  Simple as that.

What happened for me in the years since is that I really do love to hear those words.  When my ears hear my mouth speaking these phrases, it feels good. My heart loves these words, no matter who says them. Would I like to hear them from Madame X or Mister Z?  Yes, of course.

But I have learned that even if I never hear those words from the person I long to hear them from, I can access all the magic in them for myself. 

And that is a powerful manifesting tool indeed.

Want to know how to super turbo charge your Hono P’ononono and make it attract love like magic?  Try it with EFT!  This coming Monday, I am starting a special EFT class for FREE for my membership.  I am teaching Arielle Ford’s book The Soul Mate Secret and it is going to be red-hot!!!

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“I am tired of the Law of Attraction.”

“I do everything Abraham says and I am still single.”

“I am SO tired of being alone.”

Sound familiar? It can be searingly difficult to keep the faith with you are working with the Universal Laws. The books, audios and coaching programs all promise great results, so what’s up? Why can’t finding love be easier?

I hear you. Law of Attraction SOUNDS good when you hear it, doesn’t it? If you can learn how to magnetize yourself to love, your perfect match will ‘magically’ appear and your happily ever after is yours at last. Are you rolling your eyes? Great…keep reading!

There is a missing piece to the puzzle and if you are rolling your eyes….you are closer to the missing piece than you think! The one ingredient to manifesting success that flies under the radar and stays out of your view is…..

Are you ready for this? The very frustration you are feeling is the missing link! As you get more and more clear about what kind of relationship you want, you are actually stirring the pot of your past disappointments. This is natural and normal!!

Your brain has been conditioned to create thoughts contrary to loving connection. You read right. Your own brain chemistry is working against you and the only clue you have is your frustration. Why is that a problem?

Simple…Law of Attraction gurus teach you night and day that you must keep our vibration up at all costs, that you must place yourself in the mindset and mood of a happily married soul mate before you can be magnetic enough to have him show up. There is only one problem with that.

In order to create the feeling of mission accomplished before the mission is accomplished is to allow the negative thoughts have a voice. Depression, despair, anger, frustration, sadness, grief and loneliness are all real energies produced by our brains in response to life drama and trauma.

If you don’t recondition your brain to see these events differently….you are stuck in the waiting room forever!!!

Should you just give up? NO!! Your negative feelings are controlling your lackluster love life and there is a safe way to express them. Worrying that you will attract more negative results if you allow yourself to be negative is a trap! You must find away to change your thoughts about the painful past and retraining your brain is the fastest way to get that job done.

So what can you do?

Here are 5 Steps to Keeping Your Faith in The Law of Attraction While You Are Waiting for Love:

1. Don’t Deny Your Feelings: Seems simple, but is so important. When you are feeling blue or find yourself in a funk, don’t be too quick to run from those feelings. You are frustrated and I don’t blame you.

Let your feelings about your singleness have a voice. Now, you don’t want to go venting all over the place and speak all about it, but writing a list of the people who have disappointed you in love is a great step!

2. Evaluate which past relationship is the most painful: Think about a past breakup. Remember the time it happened and see if there is any regret, remorse or rejection still there. On a scale of 1 to 10, how strong are your feelings?

3. Lean into your feelings: One of my favorite techniques is a really simple one. After I have figured out the person whose betrayal is stirring me up at the moment, I get a pencil and paper and begin to write his or her first name.

I like using a pencil for this because when I am feeling a lot of intensity about the person, my handwriting shows the intensity. I write the name over and over. Amazing how feelings come up! You will feel yourself getting calmer until the exercise comes to a natural end. I usually start to misspell the name. That is my signal I am done.

4. Allow yourself to accept that person: Should they have broken your heart? No, of course not! But, most of those pesky early heartbreaks were not malicious, even though it may have felt that way at the time. Early relationships are hardwired for drama and trauma.

Can you think of a teenager who isn’t? See that person as someone who did not get you. He didn’t have the skills to let you down easy and he blew it. Seriously…would you want to still be with him? Your brain was trained to withdraw from love because of him and now you can let it go. Believe it or not, that name writing exercise is brain training!

5. You are the one who is the center of your own love universe: When you have control over your own reaction to past emotional hurt, you will shine with confidence! Relationships hurt. That is the way it is.

When you are scared of being hurt again, it is like putting someone else at the center of your love universe. Don’t let another minute go by allowing a long lost love control your future! Admit, allow and adopt your thinking about love and you will be MUCH happier with the LOA and all it offers!

xoxo

I get emails every week from people who say this to me: “I don’t want to be alone when I am old.” There is so much passion and desire and love that is longing to be poured out on another person.

Believe me, there are thousands of men out there looking for the someone exactly like you!! If you go back and read the first letter of my 5 steps, you will see the secret to success. Once you accept this secret as the Universe’s way to prepare you for love, you will see concrete evidence of Love coming into your life….I promise!

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“How long has it been since you broke up?”

“Three years since he broke our engagement”  The somber woman reported.

“Three years?” I repeated.  “Have you dated at all since then?”

“I’ve tried but I keep meeting married guys or players.”

“Sounds like you are pretty discouraged.”

“I am.  But I am so ready to move on. I don’t want to waste another minute being mad at him anymore.  It’s just killing me!”  She said with an ironic laugh.  “I thought he was the one, I was wrong and I deserve another chance!”

“You bet you do!” I smiled. “Let’s talk about getting over Lost Love…..let me tell you about Monica.  She is a Scarlett too and  well….seeing is believing, take a look:”

How to Stop Sabotaging Your Love Life Once and For All

The time is right to let go of a few of the ghosts of boyfriends past.

Don’t think you have any?  Here is how to check it out:

Think of a past breakup. Remember one particularly difficult day, perhaps a time when he said or did something especially hurtful. How bad was it at the time?  On a scale of 1 to 10, how intense was it?  Does it still have a sting today?  How strong is it on a scale of 1 to 10?

If you still feel sad, hurt or angry, guess what. You are still plugged into that very day energetically. It is like a part of yourself is living it over and over and over again.  This “ghost” from the past needs to go or Love will never find you.

Believe it or not, there is one simple idea that will change everything for you.

As simple as it sounds, the insight that will transform your love life forever is this:

The real barrier to attracting love is not outside you, but inside you in the hands of your Saboteur.

Even though you long for love, a part of you is sure it is impossible to have a truly great relationship. As a result, you actually push love away, repelling the wonderful men who are perfect matches—without even realizing it.

Once you can identify these inner obstacles to love and release yourself from the painful past, you’ll finally become magnetic to the love of your life.

Don’t spend one more minute just wishing for love!

Your deepest heart’s desire is possible.  You can learn to change your luck in love.  You just need the tools to retrain your brain so you trust yourself to fall in love once again!

When you learn how to End Love Sabotage, you will meet a whole different caliber of men. Once you prove to yourself that you are ready, the rest is easy.

Find out:

* Why you keep going back to the men who have broken up with you

* How to know if the man you are with is the One or if you should move on

* Where to look for your Soul Mate

* How to instantly change your mood whenever you need to

* How to find the real culprits…the grand daddy beliefs that are keeping love out of your life and releasing them once and for all!

* How to speak Sabotese:  The Language of Attraction that Your Saboteur Will Trust and Embrace

* How to set an intention for love that works

* The biggest mistake you’re making when it comes to men and how to stop making it

* How to activate your personal magnetism to draw your new love toward you instead of sending him to the arms of another

* Why Affirmations don’t work and tools you need to create powerful Magnetic Statements that get real results

* How to awaken and engage your intuition and imagination so you work With Universal Laws, not against them.

*Now that your love vibe is changing what to do differently to meet Mr. Right

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“What makes you think you are sabotaging?”  I asked.

“I keep attracting the opposite of what I want.”  The quiet voice said on the other end of the phone.  “Ever since my ex cheated with my best friend, I have been stuck in one dead end relationship after another.”

“Nice men are not attractive to me…they seem boring.”

Sound familiar?  You might be a Sleeping Beauty stuck in a nightmare of lost love and disappointment.  Check it out:

The Sleeping Beauty Saboteur Stage

Sleeping Beauty, if you recall, was a princess sleeping in a thorn wrapped castle waiting for the Prince to kiss her and wake her up. Each of my Saboteur types, Snow White, Rapunzel and Scarlett O’Hara all go through Sleeping Beauty stages as they learn how to let Love find them.

You see, if True Love Sabotage is activated within you, you are actually INVISIBLE to the men who would enchant your heart.

Sleeping Beauty does not see her beauty, her promise, her power or her magic.  Here are some signs that you may be a Sleeping Beauty:

• Compulsive behaviour of any kind:  drinking, smoking, internet, shopping

• No dates in over 5 years

• Blaming your ex for the damage both suffered in relationship

• Attracting the exact opposite of the kinds of men you really want to date

• Rigid standards for yourself in business and in daily life, you may feel trapped in the perfectionism you have created

• Attracting unavailable men, married or living in a different country

• Rampant self hatred and an inner dialog of harsh criticism

• Stalking an ex

• Accepting Bootie Calls

• Frustratingly slow results with the Law of Attraction

• A deep feeling of hopelessness and self pity

• A knowing that no matter how hard you try to hide it, you know you are desperate for love, family and connection

The True Beauty of Your Slumbering Self is that your determination and resolve to find Love won’t let you give up. You are taking action to identify what your obstacles are to finding love. Your intuition is weak when it comes to reading people and once you strengthen it, your confidence will fly. Your Saboteur is anxious and it is hard for her to trust.

Sleeping Beauties are fabulous Soul Mates in the Making. While they sparkle with appeal and may attract men without difficulty, they are not able to send strong roots down and anchor themselves in a relationship. These Beauties are waiting for an Inner Nudge, an inner alarm that will wake them to the woman they have yet to become.

Once you awaken the hidden gifts in your true Saboteur Style (Scarlett, Rapunzel or Snow White), latent talents and intuitive abilities, you will be irresistible to True Love. What’s Next?

Recognizing your Sabotage Style will change your Love Life forever. You CAN find true love but your journey starts with YOU.  Build self confidence and learn to embrace your True Love Saboteur….she is aching for your love and attention.  Only you can write a new ending to your story.

Ready to wake up?  Take The Soul Mate Assessment:  http://EndLoveSabotage.com

Does your score card for Valentine’s Day have more losses than wins?

Did it start back in grade school when you didn’t get as many cards as the other kids?

Have you ever been dumped right before the big day?

Did you know that more breakups happen in January than any other month?

This time of year can be pretty tough and I have a feeling that you have seen more than your share of drama and trauma.  If cynicism, disappointment or remorse is creeping into your Valentine’s Day Mindset, it doesn’t feel very good does it.

If you feel snarky and lonely and annoyed at just about everything, these days, you might have S.A.D. (Seasonal Alignment Disorder). Here are a few symptoms:

* You gag at a kiss belongs to Kaye Jewelry commercials.

* You hate the greeting card companies for conspiring with the florists to feed the egos of the sappy girls who don’t even know how to appreciate the men they have.

* You remember the boyfriend who cheated and betrayed you and make snarky comments about his new girl.

* You rent a sappy romance and watch it with a box of kleenex, a pound of chocolate and a bottle of red wine and have a pity party.

* You say you don’t care this year because you need to lose 10 pounds like someone would want to be with you now anyway.

* You think what year it is and you wonder…”Is it too late for me?” and “Why is it fair that girl gets to have her man?” or “Can I still have a family?”

Sound familiar? Don’t give up. You can put the S.A.D. monster into its place. All you need is to find something to distract your self.  When you get control of your thinking you can remind yourself that you are doing really very well, (you are you know).

Keeping yourself magnetized for love when you are feeling blue or when your chips are down is possible. You just need to know how to break through your self sabotage habits so you can finally open your heart again.

As Abraham Hicks repeats tirelessly, once you get your self back into alignment, you will always feel so much better! In English?  Don’t let yourself wallow in the dreaded victim vibe.  Find your True Love Saboteur and seduce her into cooperating with you.

I want to help you feel better about love so I have a special no cost resource for you! I recorded  a special Valentine’s Day 911 call, actually two of them, and they are my gift to anyone who wants to Feel Loved on Valentine’s Day.

Whether you are a Snow White, Rapunzel, Sleeping Beauty or Scarlett O’Hara, you will profit from this recording. Each type learns a bit differently and all can learn from each other. A little laughter, a little teaching and a virtual hug keeps your love magnet vibing strong.

I answered lots of your questions about attracting love and the Law of Attraction.  Watch for future calls, I would love to meet you too!

Just register right here and you will get instant access to the two recordings from Valentine’s 911 in 2011.

♥  ♥  ♥

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“I never cry.”  The young woman sitting across from me was clearly uncomfortable. Sharing the story of her dad’s recent death, she struggled to hold herself together.

“Why do you think you block your tears?” I asked. “I hate being weak,” she responded quickly and a bit defensively.

“I have been on my own since I was a kid and there is no time for falling apart.”  Instantly back in control, she changed the subject as the waiter brought our coffee.

Did you know that women cry an average of 5.3 times a month? For years I didn’t cry for months at a time.  I, like the young woman from above, was actually proud of the fact that I didn’t cry.

Years of anger, frustrated dreams and broken relationships had sealed my tears within.  When I felt the familiar lump in my throat, I never allowed the tears that were calling to be shed to flow.  I was too strong for that.

Little did I know that men actually do cry….only 1.4 times a month, but that tears flow for them too. Somehow I had decided that crying was something I could do without.  Hmmm. Amazing how you can believe something that is so untrue. Do you believe that crying is weak?  Does crying make you uncomfortable?  Do you have a good cry at least once a month?

If not, you are missing out on an important “Love Potion” that your own amazing body is designed to provide.

Abraham Hicks teaches that the ultimate goal for your mindset is “Well-Being.”  They have been teaching this simple truth for years.  Now I LOVE Abraham, as you know, and I also teach the positivity message.  Well today I have news for you.

TEARS ARE NOT NEGATIVE!

What? Isn’t sadness a low vibrating emotion?  Aren’t you supposed to pivot and change your mindset ASAP so you can be in high vibrating well being?  Yes and no….

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