Can you relate? Have you worked and worked on your on-line profile and still attract people you would never pick for yourself? What’s wrong with the system?
Personally, I have worked with many people who have had excellent results with on-line dating. Some, though still single, really enjoy the people they have met through these dating resources. So what’s the deal? Why aren’t more people lucky in on-line love?
If you aren’t finding a good match, could it be that YOU are not a good match? Is it possible that you aren’t projecting the whole picture? If you are attracting people that are not even close to your ideals, you just might need to focus on a little ME-Harmony before you go to E-Harmony.
Long time singles like yourself have a Lost Love Legacy that holds your future captive. Each person you have encountered along the way…BFFs included, have left a sort of footprint in your mind and heart. Some past relationships have been good and the breakups mutual. But, the fact is, all past relationships have disappointments and heartbreak that lodge themselves in your heart.
No one is perfect. People hurt each other in relationship when misunderstandings happen, no matter how hard you try not to. When you attract the exact opposite of who it is you want to be with, it is a sure sign that you are coming across with a confusing vibration. The Law of Attraction is relentless and always brings exactly what you are vibrating…not what you are hoping for.
One part of you craves to be loved and adored. Another fears opening deeply to let love in. One part of you wants to co-create a marriage that works. Another part is intimidated by the negotiating it takes to walk it out.
One part of you wants a partner who is open and vulnerable. Another part of you is terrified of being open and vulnerable. See what I mean?
When you focus on ME-Harmony, you learn you can accept your doubts and fears and still move forward. Making peace with the ghosts of relationships past is the fastest way to get there. Each heart break in your past holds the power to make you an amazing partner. You did the best you could with what you knew at the time. Finding self compassion and letting go of your hurts and disappointments will bring you to a place of shining self confidence.
When you have ME-Harmony, you may not even return to on-line dating. There is nothing more irresistible than a happy, confident person. Your luck in love will surely change when you choose that as your primary goal!
Curious about how to bring that harmony to yourself? Take the Soul Mate Quiz right here: http://AttractYourSoulMateNow.com
I will review “How To Be Loved Exquisitely:
5 Simple Secrets that Helped Me Stop Waking Up Alone,
Have the Relationship of My Dreams and Bring Me All
the Love and Intimacy I Want.”
And then will answer questions from participants!
It will be great to meet you!
Here is the registration page:
See you tomorrow!!
PS I also have a 6th secret that I will be revealing during
the call tomorrow…it is HUGE and without this piece,
True Love is too slick to hold on to!
Only read this if you want a soul mate more than anything else.
You see, it is that singular focus….in other words, you have to want it bad. Job, family, health, career, friends….everything else has to take a back seat to your white hot burning desire to be with a man. You need to tap in to the deep longing in your heart and let it lead you.
Some of you think you are already there. Guess what? You’re not. How do I know?
Are you still single?
So before you get annoyed with me, check this list and see if you can relate to these things that beautiful, successful women have told me are great about being single:
1. Independence. SPW (Single Professional Women) love being in charge of their own lives and schedules. The idea of checking in with someone to “ok” their schedule makes them cringe.
2. No Shopping Police It is fabulous to have their hands on their own money and have no one to criticize or judge that new pair of shoes or designer bag.
3. No Inlaws or Partner Work Outings They love not going to anybody else’s obligatory social events but their own.
4. Shaving “Seriously, no one but me cares what I shave or how often I shave it.” Thanks for this one from http://stefanie-says.blogspot.com
5. Laundry The smelly socks are always their own.
Seriously though, is there a part of you longing to belong to someone? Do you wish you knew how to open your heart again? Is there a part of you who would do anything to be cherished?
You can get what you want. Law of Attraction will serve you faithfully when you are ready. To manifest a change for yourself….there is only one thing you need to do. Listen in to this preview call and learn:
You’ll be really glad you did!
Law of Attraction And Soul Mates San Diego Meetup: ~~A Hundred Sixty Strong and Growing! Http://LOAinLove.com
Sucks doesn’t it.
And don’t just limit yourself to love. Trusting the wrong person can happen in business, friendships and even in our health care choices.
The worst part…the easiest person to blame for the mess is YOURSELF. Now you may think you are blaming that awful other person. You certainly complain about them enough….to any one that will listen.
But..truth be told, at the core of it, aren’t you furious at yourself for being naive and trusting the rat in the first place. There, the big secret is out. It is YOU that is to blame, no one else.
And what exactly did you do wrong? Listen….can you hear it? It is that little voice inside harassing you once again:
“How could you be so stupid?” continue
Angelique closed her sketch pad and stretched lazily. Her cat, stood up and arched her back in a stretch of her own. She walked to the kitchen to make a pot of coffee and paused, like always, gazing at the faded photo framed in the hallway.
It had been 20 years and still she ached. She lived that day again and again.
She had gotten up a little earlier than normal and took her routine run on the beach. Tony had been in London for a month working on an IT project and she couldn’t wait to have him home. He had proposed a week before he left and they were getting ready to move in together. continue
Ever wonder how some people seem to attract the perfect person at the exact right time?
Whether it is a new friend, a hot new business prospect or a new crush, there are some of us who seem naturally attractive to strong relationships across the board.
Don’t you wish that was you? It can be.
My experience with countless people desiring deep connection that disappears time and again is that their Love Set Point is set too low.
Somehow many of us have gotten to a place in our lives where all we attract are incomplete and unfulfilling love relationships. When we move from person to person, the bottom line stays the same. The love we thought was there is not.
What if your Love Set Point IS set too low and you aren’t aware of it?
Here are five signs of a low Love Set Point
1. You have a difficult time sustaining long term same sex friendships. People continually disappoint you and let you down. It seems no one is in it for the long haul and you drift from friendship to friendship.
2. You procrastinate. Think of procrastination as passive aggressive behavior toward yourself. If you tag on a little perfectionism you have the ultimate in torture…being a procrastinating perfectionist is the pits!
3. You are working in a job where you are not respected or appreciated. Like a penny under a bowling ball, you hate where you are but feel paralyzed and unable to look for new career options.
4. You find it impossible to say no. You feel guilty or afraid of displeasing people so you say yes way to often.
5. Road Rage. You know who you are, you ragers you!
What if you could reset your Love Set Point and finally attract the kind of people and experiences that make you feel loved, appreciated and connected? When you are annoyed or frustrated, think about what that wave of emotion reminds you of. Chances are there is a betrayal or disappointment in the past that carries some of the same energy as that recent annoyance.
Looking back at a past situation with your now mature eyes may be enough to shake yourself out of your mood. If not, use one of your tools or processes to express what the experience feels like to you. Whether you journal, run, dance, paint, tap or pet your cat; choose something to focus on that will bring you some relief. Your love set point will naturally recover as you move forward and release old situations and relationships.