Keeping your Love Vibration higher than your It-Will-Never-Happen-For- Me Vibe is crucial to attracting love.

While you are building your vision board, setting the breakfast table as if he will be there, emptying your medicine chest or closet to make room for him, the stark aloneness of your life can scream to you… SEE….I told you nothing would change.

What do you do when all the attraction magic you are using just doesn’t bring the result you are hoping for? How do you handle the walking through wet concrete feeling of continuing to be stuck in singleness?

In my experience, there are certain words that actually vibrate higher than others and when you are telling the story of your current relationship status, it is critically important that you use powerful words that will radiate lovingness and availability to the men you encounter.

You may think that you will save your best self for that one special man and that you can be dismissive or sarcastic about men in general.

Tactical Error. If you have hidden hostility toward men (who would blame you….you have had your share of heartbreaks!), that hostility can be FELT within your words.

I started collecting certain phrases when I was searching for Love. Lovely Louise Hay, author and publisher changed my life years ago when she said, “Stop terrifying yourself! You are telling the painful story over and over and your are paralyzing yourself in fear.”

Slowly my outer world began to match the language I taught myself to use. Join me tomorrow when I reveal one of my favorite phrases, the Three Magic Words that brought Love into my life.

Out of all I have learned since I met Larry and found out how to feel loved, there is one major breakthrough that changed everything for me.  Using the high vibrating words I had learned, I found even more secrets to feeling deeply loved and cared for.

This Secret to Feeling Loved was buried deep in my painful past and getting to it wasn’t easy, but once I discovered it…. Love began unfolding in my life in unmistakable ways.

In this free Love Magnetizing 101 recording, I reveal that very Secret…the one that completely changed my Love Life forever, and you are invited to listen in.

Just register right here and I will send you the recording.

I can tell you this for sure. Love doesn’t feel anything like what I thought it would and I was 50 before I discovered the Secret. It was worth the wait for me…luckily you don’t have to wait any longer to find out for yourself.  LOL

Attention: Snow Whites, Rapunzels, Sleeping Beauties and Scarlett O’Haras,

When Monica wrote to tell me she was pregnant, I was shocked and thrilled for her. At 42, She had broken 7 engagements before meeting her soul mate on a blind date nearly 18 months after her Saboteur was transformed. Today she has a two month old princess of her own and her dreams are coming true. A Scarlett through and through, amazing magic happened when she used these tools!

Could your dreams be the next to come true? It is true that your Inner Saboteur has manifested singleness for you with amazing ease and power. Think about it, even though you have been craving True Love for all of these years….your Inner Saboteur has kept you single. What would be possible for you if your Saboteur was working with you to FIND your partner instead of PUSHING HIM AWAY. It worked for Monica and it worked for me too.

Knowing your True Love Saboteur Style may just be the ticket!

To find out which Saboteur is yours, just click here and you can take a free Saboteur Survey! Once you understand your sabotage style, you can reach the soul mate summit….Finding Your True Love, Once and For All!

http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/true-love-saboteur-assessment/

She slipped off her shoes and tossed the keys into the dish.  Her cat rubbed itself in between her ankles forcing her to stop in her tracks. “Misty!” she grumbled, “Stay out of the way!”  The cat ran off with a short meow.  Gathering the mail and magazines, she poured herself a glass of wine and thought how glad she was that her husband wasn’t going to be home for a couple of hours.

Absentmindedly, she paged through Oprah magazine, sipping her chardonnay.  Her forgiving cat jumped up on her lap and nudged her hand with its head, begging for a scratch.  Once again, she pushed her pet aside, closed the magazine and sank into her thoughts.

“Why is it so hard?” a tear formed in her eye and made its way down her cheek.  “What happened to the us we used to be?”  Remembering the ease of their early days, the romance and passion that overflowed everywhere causing their friends and family to drool with jealousy made the tears fall faster.

She had been sure this time.  Sure that he was different.  Sure that she was ready. Sure that this was happily ever after. And now, she was alone on the couch, drinking her chardonnay, kicking the cat….WTF!

Seeing your relationship begin to show signs of wear and tear can be frightening.  When you and your man are not in sync it could mean that it is over, but chances are it is just a bump in your relationship road.

The answer to this bump in the road? The answer is simple but not easy. Simple because you have more confrol than you ever imagined.  Not easy  because you have to look to your own presence in your relationship.  If your man is no longer attracted to you….Don’t panic!!  Choose to be IRRESISTIBLE once again.

Abraham Hicks teaches  that what your man keeps showing you is the part of himself that is most active in YOUR vibration.  What does this mean?  It is simple.  If you have a personal VIBE that is mostly disappointed and disillusioned, your man will show you the parts of himself that will PROVE that YOU are radiating that vibe.

If you are disappointed, your man will be attracted to that part of you and recreate that disappointment in you through his attitude and choices. OUCH!

What can you do about it?  EVERYTHING!

It is up to you to change your point of attraction.  You CAN be IRRESISTIBLE TO HIM AGAIN. And it is much easier to change your own vibe than to insist that he change his!  Tune in tonight at 9 pm eastern and get a jump start.  I am going to reveal FIVE QUICK AND EASY WAYS TO BE IRRESISTIBLE TO YOUR MAN.

To All Aspiring Soul Mates:

There really IS nothing like being desired. When my husband chooses to be with me, whether in the bedroom or  at the beach I love it. I feel genuinely ATTRACTIVE, magnetizing his attention and desire to be with me. What is the magic?

According to Dr. Marta Meana PhD., professor of Psychology at UNLV, being desired is “practically orgasmic” for some women. Knowing a man is desiring you is a powerful and arousing experience.  In other words, Dr. Meana says, “A man overcome with desire is so sexy!”

Seeing proof of my stronger LOVE VIBE is hugely important in keeping our soul mate fires burning. The key to attracting more of a man’s attention is to be more magnetic and draw his desire toward you.

You will DOUBLE and even TRIPLE your magnetism when you change your attitude about yourself. When you stop criticizing yourself and begin to appreciate all of your many aspects, you will be a LOVE MAGNET.

Don’t you want to BE IRRESISTIBLE? I do. I love feeling irresistible and feeling my husband’s eyes on me as I walk across the room. Yum.

Join me on 9/09, Wednesday night and listen in as I share 5 Easy Ways to Jump Start Your Self Esteem Instantly

Here’s what you need to know:

Day: 9.09.09
Time: 9 pm eastern/8 pm central/6 pm pacific
Cost: Nada…nil…zip
Phone number and Code:
http://www.soulmatesavvy.com/self-esteem-is-irresistible-preview-call/

You will be amazed at how differently people will treat you when you do these five simple things for one week.

Isn’t it about time you were as kind to yourself as you are to everyone else?

See you on the call!

http://www.soulmatesavvy.com/self-esteem-is-irresistible-preview-call/

Are You Worth Your Weight in Gold?  You Bet Your Bootylicious Butt You Are!       $21 for 21 Days

I don’t know about you, but I am tired of hearing story after story of people struggling to overcome UNWORTHINESS. Seems like every coaching program or self improvement seminar ends up dealing with this pesky critter.  When you are in the Law of Attraction world and all you produce is contrast after contrast after contrast, it can be impossible to keep your vibration where you want it to be.

Well, I say ENOUGH!! Let’s take unworthiness out of the church and religious arenas, do some bodacious bonding and grab some worthiness for ourselves. Let’s take 21 days and focus on WORTH, our worth. We are told over and over that what we focus on expands so I want to put it to an ACID TEST.

I am gathering a group of DETERMINED and FOCUSED people to see what happens when we turn our attention away from unworthiness and put it on WORTH for 21 consecutive days.

What you focus on expands….every time.  What will 21 days of focus do to YOUR self esteem?  Me personally, I can’t wait!! Once again, the power of the Master Mind will work with us and TOGETHER we will create self worth and surge forward to manifesting LOVE.

Why WORTH YOUR WEIGHT IN GOLD?  Most of us have been told time and again that we are “priceless” and that we are perfect and lovable.  How has that been working for you? Have you started believing in it yet?   Still feel the anchor of unworthiness tugging at you? Yeah, me too!  I am determined to focus on my worth on this planet in a brand new way.

I figured I would start by calculating just how valuable I would be if I was worth my weight in gold and use that as my starting point.  According to http://goldprice.org/ the price of gold has fallen ten dollars this morning, so it is only $943 per ounce and that is $15,008 per pound.  Taking my 135 pounds that figures to be $2,036,088.  Wow.

Imagine gold being worth that much cash money and all it needs to do is to sit there and look pretty. Imagine that!  Gold never hugged a broken hearted friend.  Gold never went out at midnight to get a pregnant wife a dish of ice cream.  Gold never gently washed a skinned knee or lent a strapped friend $100.  Gold never coaches a client to believe in themselves.  Gold never does anything.  It just is.

Imagine if you were that valuable….just sitting there and looking pretty. How would your life look different if you knew your worth?  Let me let you in on a little secret.  You ARE that valuable to at least one human being on the planet right now. You have reached your hand to a person at just the right time.  You have changed a life because you were in the right place at the right time.  Your biggest issue is that YOU don’t see yourself as others see you.  Are you ready to do something about it?

Yay!  Here is the challenge.  Can you invest 15 minutes a day for 21 days in a row.  Just 15 minutes a day and let’s blow the glass ceiling into the next galaxy!

How Do You Know If You Are Right For The Program? Do you:

• Self sabotage every time you are about to have a major breakthrough?
• Help everyone else in North America first before you do something for yourself?
• Have a hard time remembering when your last date was?
• Struggle to say “NO”?
• Find it hard to receive compliments and gifts?
• Have road rage? (You know who you are!!)
• Feel disrespected and unsupported at work?

If you can say yes to even one of these signs, you have to admit, it would feel wonderful to ease up on yourself a little bit, wouldn’t it?

Worth Your Weight In Gold Self Esteem Intensive Program Details:

• Daily Calls begin on September 14 and continue through October 4
• Each call 15 minutes laser focused attention on WORTH (What we focus on expands….YAY)
• Daily intention setting and practical tools to stay on target
• All calls recorded and mp3 files emailed to you instantly for your review, listening again in the evening will turbo charge your results
• You will receive one free month in the Soul Mate Mastermind Silver Level where you can listen in on a coaching call, chat with the Soul Mate Community and have access to the treasury of Mastermind Recordings and materials. (Membership starts immediately so you gain full access right away)

All of This for Only $21 To Register Click on This Link:  I AM worth my weight in GOLD.