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Yes, thankfully Pastor Kevin Z created this VIP day in 1986. Let this vid inspire you and then go here to read your 7 Step National Hugging Day Action Plan:

Tomorrow is EFT Cupid Training day and I will be practicing with club members from 9:30 to 10:30 tomorrow morning January 14th, California time. (11:30 am cst/12:30 pm est)

I host EFT Practice live and in person on the Second Saturday of every month.  I no longer take one on one clients so this is your only chance to tap with me personally.

The EFTCupid Tapping Club is finally ready to show off.  While we are still getting ready for the Grand Opening, you can still join right now.  The free classes and materials are all listed and organized for you and the chat room is ready to go.

It is simple to use and you can have private chats with me, Heidi Lee–our Master Toad Kisser– or other members practicing their love magnetizing skills.

Here is the link that explains everything:

http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/success/

Can’t wait to introduce our new astrologer expert.  She is coming for the next Full Moon …watch for details!

PS  Heidi Lee, our resident Online Dating Expert is just about to release her newest ebook:  How to Toad Proof Your Dating Profile.  She is looking for test readers and has posted her latest draft on the membership site for your review, and remember, membership is under ten bucks a month.

What would you do for it?

What have you done for it?

Me? I think that sex is everything the romance novels say that it is: important – intoxicating – fabulous – wonderful stuff.

Hearts have been broken and lives forever changed by fleeting and exquisite moments.  Moments with people not meant to last.

Toe curling physical experiences shape and turn you on your way, but is it true?

Is sex any more important than anything else? 

Someone opening the olive jar for you?  A companion in your daily life?  Someone to travel with?  Is sex great? Of course.  Is it a deal breaker?

So Katy Perry is Single Again…

Did anyone think this was a great match?  Reminds me of one of Britney Spears earlier marriages.  Wild and crazy kids playing house for a few months.  Do you think either is heart broken?  Do you wonder about the pre-nup?  Do you think Russell or Katy ended it first?

Breakups are hard, even the silliest of them.  The public outcry over Kim Kardashian and Chris Humphries disappears as another celebrity couple run to divorce court.  Do you think either marriage was legit?  Was it for publicity?

Are celebrities doomed to failure when it comes to love?

Still looking?  http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com

There’s a BREAKUP Month?

Believe it or not, there is. There are more breakups in December than any other month of the year. Why? Who knows, maybe it is just that when people think of buying another gift for someone they don’t know as well as they thought they did, they choose to breakup instead.

Or maybe now that it is winter, there isn’t enough snuggling going on. Or maybe the cold weather enforced indoor time is shining a big fat light on the truth…no one is really happy and someone is tired of pretending.

For whatever reason, there are a lot of people looking forward to a lonely Christmas again this year. Are you one of them? If the Breakup Blues are drowning out the holiday music in your life, here are a few things you can do to rise above and get through the next few weeks gracefully.

1. Even though breakups are unavoidable, torturing yourself with dramatic over-reacting is not necessary. Trust a friend to be honest with you. Ask for a reality check. The fact is it was over. At some level you knew. Chances are your friends are dying to tell you to let go and move on.

2. Schedule a massage. Or at the very least, go to the area nail salon and get a pedicure while sitting in a full body massage chair. As you are being massaged, repeat this phrase to yourself: “Thank you, I love you, I’m sorry, Please forgive me.” Based on the Hawaiian healing tradition of ho’ono p’ono, these are the four things you LONG to hear from your former mate. Say them to yourself.

3. Find someone who needs you. Somewhere in your city is a charity you can support whole heartedly. Especially at times like this, it helps to find people who are struggling too. Even though your life sucks right now, the fact is, someone else has it worse. My husband and I love to volunteer at the cat shelter socializing the cats. Helping out with fund raising is another way to support animals.

4. Take a class. Motivate yourself or get a buddy to keep you honest and take a creative class through your area YMCA or Community College. Watercolor, ceramics, memoir writing…read through the catalogs and pick one. Any creative outlet will help you process the emotional energy spinning around inside you right now.

5. Burn Baby Burn. Get a pack of popsicle sticks from your area dollar store. Write out your feelings with a pen. One event per stick. Write until you have nothing more to say. Then, plan on a fire ceremony. Create a fire, in a safe place of course…I have a special pan just for burning, then burn the sticks.

Breakups are inevitable. There is no escape. When your breakup comes, don’t let it be any worse than it has to be. Take good care of you. Trust a friend to be real with you. Purpose to move on. You are worth it.

For more info: The Breakup Cleanse 28 Day Mind~Body Heartbreak Recovery System

Could there be a breakup in your past that is blocking your way to love?

  No, you say?

  Are you sure?

  Do people read you as prickly, sharp or intolerant?

  Does that shock you because you are not like that at all?

Do you practice being agreeable in groups but still feel inexplicably annoyed at certain people?

Does incompetence make you insane?

If you can relate to these questions, I bet you have a heartbreak in your ancient history  that  is draining you and straining  your  relationships.

The more past heartbreak in your life   the harder it is to cope with the  annoying people coming at you from  every direction.  A vicious cycle,  right?

Bottom line?  You have to find a way  to track down which ghosts of  boyfriends past are holding you back.  Life has not unfolded the way you once hoped.  Along the way, you have been hurt and betrayed.

Think back for a sec, is there a baby breakup from when you were 14 or 15 that still holds a bit of emotion?  Who broke your heart for the first time?

As we approach the end of the year I want to challenge you. Haven’t you waited long enough to stop hurting from lost love? My colleague and friend Arielle Ford has recommended a resource to my readers that will help you in a completely different way.

Licensed psychotherapist and national bestselling author of Calling in “The One,” Katherine Woodward Thomas is presenting Art of Conscious Completion in This No Cost Online Seminar

Read what Katherine says:

“Rather than only focus on the pain and problem, this empowering online teleseminar will teach you the step by step process of how you can accelerate your healing by using the pain you are in to catalyze a whole new life.

Until we learn how to heal from these breakup mistakes and learn how to conscious complete our relationships in an entirely new way, we run the risk of remaining in pain and living lesser lives … making things worse for ourselves and our children or loved ones.

You are not alone. We all know what it’s like to hurt and suffer from a breakup. And I want to help you get out of any pain like that quickly!”

Katherine is teaching a powerful, proven step by step process to help you avoid the hellacious damage so often associated with breaking up… as well as show you how to heal any damage you may have suffered in the past.

You owe it to yourself to check it out.

Even if you’re not in a breakup right now, this information is vital to any of us who has ever suffered the painful ending of a relationship. Plus it doesn’t cost a thing to attend.

Make sure you sign up even if you can’t attend live–she’ll send you the recording.

P.S.  If you’re heart is healed and whole, hit the share on Facebook button and share with your friends!

PPSS:  I am such a believer in the Katherine’s work that I am honored to advertise Unconscious Coupling.  I receive a share of any sale that comes from sharing this no cost event with you.  Supporting women in business is the secret to my success and I hope you will join me!

Do you sometimes worry that true love has passed you by?  That you’re too late, too old, too heartbroken to try to find love again, and you’ll end up alone in life?

Everyone deserves to have a partner, a beloved–a true soul mate–with whom to share their life. If you’re like most singles, you dream of loving someone who adores you, understands you, but is also your best friend and knows and accepts you for who you are.

Perhaps you’ve nearly given up on that dream. Maybe you suspect that all the good ones have been taken, and you’re tired of getting your hopes up once again…only to meet the wrong person. That’s why I’m thrilled to introduce you to someone with an incredible personal story to share with you, along with her simple, proven techniques for manifesting true love in your life.

Her name is Arielle Ford, and she’s the author of the best-selling book, “The Soulmate Secret.” Arielle is a respected and highly successful publicist who helped launch the careers of such luminaries as the New York Times best-selling authors and spiritual teachers Deepak Chopra, Debbie Ford, and “Conversations With God” author Neale Donald Walsch.

How did Arielle find true love in the midst of her successful career?

Now you can find out how and learn how you can too, because Arielle is offering a FREE preview of her acclaimed online course,The Soulmate Secret: a 5-Week Course to Manifest the Love of Your Life.

 In this special audio webcast, she’ll reveal the 3 KEYS to manifesting true love, using her unique proven processes -techniques that have not only helped Arielle manifest her own  soul mate, but have helped thousands of men and women find  the love of their lives.

You can learn more about it and register for free

In this course preview with Arielle, you’ll learn:

• How to attract the kind of person who will actually be the RIGHT partner for you.

• How to clear out the obstacles, such as the memory of past lovers and heartache, that are energetically keeping away any possibility of a soul mate.

• How to experience the love and connection you crave even BEFORE you meet your soul mate, which will attract that right person to you almost magically.

• How to forgive yourself for mistakes you’ve made in the past, and open your heart to the kind of relationship you really need and will make you happy for the long-term.

• Why your past relationships are the key to creating unimaginable, legendary love.

And if you’re not able to attend the live event, no worries – with your registration, following the event you’ll receive access to the audio recording of the webcast so you can listen to it anytime.

Register now for this special free online gathering with Arielle and learn how to manifest true love and magnetize your soul mate into your life!

P.S. Don’t give up on love.  You owe it to yourself to find happiness! I love Arielle’s no-nonsense approach.  She will teach you how to get it done.  Register now for the event.

Love knows no boundaries.In 1969 John Rendall and Ace Berg saw a Lion cub for sale in Harrods. Cramped and lonely in a small cage, the decided to bring him home.

Christian soon outgrew their home and John and Ace decided to reintroduce him to Africa. This is the story of their reunion.

Watch Christian the Lion

If you like this video clip, I encourage you to Share it with the world and join me on my mission to empower and inspire millions of people around the globe.

At the end of this video you’ll see simple instructions on how you can help.

Together we can spread words of Encouragement, Inspiration & Empowerment one video at a time… and wouldn’t you agree our world could use a little more “Positivity” these days!

Together we can make a difference…

Brave.

That’s what you are.  You many not feel so brave, strong single that you are, but you are.  You have watched friend after friend find their true love.

You have been to countless showers, wrapped dozens of gifts in white and silver paper and bows.  And you keep moving forward.

So why do I stay STOP?  

Simple…as Dr. Phil says, “How’s it working for you?”  If you are still single, you have to stop and see what is NOT working.   Face the answer to this question:

How long has it been since you have been in a significant relationship?

I bet it is a bit longer than you are consciously aware of.  Time flies, doesn’t it?  So what’s a savvy single to do?  Here’s a thought:

How about manifesting a red hot, juicy life BEFORE you find your man?  Impossible?  Not on your life…

If the Universe has you in the waiting room, you might as well enjoy the time you are there.  Here’s an exercise from the EFT Cupid Tapping Club that you may find helpful:

1.  Write a list of all the things you are missing out on because you are single.  For example: fine dining, concerts, travel, sex or snuggling by the fire place.

2.  Next to each item, write the name of the emotion you would feel if you had each experience regularly.

3.  Google Thesaurus.  Look up each emotion word you thought of and pick another that ‘feels’ right.  The goal is to pick a word outside your typical vocabulary.  I love http://VisualThesaurus.com

4.  On a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you crave each of these feelings in your life with your partner.

5.  Now answer this question:  True or False?  The ONLY way in the entire Universe that you can have that feeling is when you are in a couple.

6. This is the most important step:  Write a list of things you have access to right now, in your current experience, that gives you the same feeling.

7.  The FEELING of being loved, accepted, adored, appreciated…happy and fulfilled is right there for you…BEFORE you find your partner….if

IF you look for it.

Remember, what you focus on expands.  LOOK for good feelings right now. Treasure them.  The happier you feel, the higher your vibe and a happy people are irresistible.  Trust me!

If you are sure you cannot be happy without your partner, check out your Love Attraction Profile for clues.  You CAN change your vibe, in fact, you are the only one who can!

“When we are out in public, he ignores me, but when we are home, he is perfect.”

“He acts like a boyfriend but won’t let me call him my “boyfriend.”

“I really like him but I don’t trust him.”

What is wrong with these sentences?  Why are these thoughts holding this woman back from finding True Love?

Let me give you a clue.  Each of these statements are all about HIM, right?  As long as you are focused on HIM first and yourself second, you will never find a man who will be a great match for you.

Look how these thoughts change simply by rearranging the words putting YOU into the place of power:

“When we are out together, I spend a lot of time alone, but when we are home together, I feel more connected.”

“I feel disconnected from him because I don’t call him “boyfriend” when I wish I could.”

“I am not sure I can go forward with someone I don’t trust.”

Remember, you have a wild streak of insecurity that was born when you were about 13 or so.  A part of you decided that the only way to feel ok about boys was to pretend you were someone else.

Shy Snow Whites craved the social easiness and flirtiness of Scarlett.   Rapunzels seethe under the surface because their men have a wondering eye and blame the naturally flirty Scarletts who seem to steal them away.  Scarletts struggle with female friendships and prefer male companionship.  This natural ease makes Snow White crazy…and on it goes.

Now that you are still single and time is going faster and faster, do you have to settle?  Do you have to accept something you really don’t want in a man to have a husband?

The simple answer is NO, of course not.  But don’t be fooled, in order to find the perfect guy, you have to be dead honest about your TRUE deal breakers.  If you are with a guy who is a naturally flirty character, and haven’t we all known one, you have to be completely honest with yourself.

Say this:  “I am 100% comfortable with a flirty man.”  On a scale of 1 to 10, how does that feel to you.  If you get a rock solid 10…then you have your answer.

If you have a bad feeling in the pit of your stomach when you say this statement, you also have your answer.  You will make yourself crazy if you try to MAKE your flirty guy stop flirting.

What to do?  Try this:

1.  Admit that you hate his flirtiness.  On a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you hate is?

2.  Open a word doc on your computer and write a letter to the Universe.  Write how unfair it is that you fell in love with this type of man.  Let yourself get mad.  Feel the unfairness.

3.  Repeat this statement: “I don’t know how to fix this situation, but I am sure that I want a man who only has eyes for me.”

4.  Write about HOW you will recognize an “unflirty” man.  Recall the behavior of flirty men in your past and write a list of how you PREFER to be treated.

5.  EXTRA CREDIT:  To turbo charge your results, write a THANK YOU letter to the flirty men in your past.  This letter is not for you to send.  It is a chance to finalize your decision to let go of these men and to meet men who only have eyes for you.

The men are not BAD MEN, they are immature and unaware of how to treat women….or at least how to treat you.  Only you can change your expectations, your dreams and your results.