“What makes you think you are sabotaging?” I asked.
“I keep attracting the opposite of what I want.” The quiet voice said on the other end of the phone. “Ever since my ex cheated with my best friend, I have been stuck in one dead end relationship after another.”
“Nice men are not attractive to me…they seem boring.”
Sound familiar? You might be a Sleeping Beauty stuck in a nightmare of lost love and disappointment. Check it out:
The Sleeping Beauty Saboteur Stage
Sleeping Beauty, if you recall, was a princess sleeping in a thorn wrapped castle waiting for the Prince to kiss her and wake her up. Each of my Saboteur types, Snow White, Rapunzel and Scarlett O’Hara all go through Sleeping Beauty stages as they learn how to let Love find them.
You see, if True Love Sabotage is activated within you, you are actually INVISIBLE to the men who would enchant your heart.
Sleeping Beauty does not see her beauty, her promise, her power or her magic. Here are some signs that you may be a Sleeping Beauty:
Compulsive behaviour of any kind: drinking, smoking, internet, shopping
No dates in over 5 years
Blaming your ex for the damage both suffered in relationship
Attracting the exact opposite of the kinds of men you really want to date
Rigid standards for yourself in business and in daily life, you may feel trapped in the perfectionism you have created
Attracting unavailable men, married or living in a different country
Rampant self hatred and an inner dialog of harsh criticism
Stalking an ex
Accepting Bootie Calls
Frustratingly slow results with the Law of Attraction
A deep feeling of hopelessness and self pity
A knowing that no matter how hard you try to hide it, you know you are desperate for love, family and connection
The True Beauty of Your Slumbering Self is that your determination and resolve to find Love won’t let you give up. You are taking action to identify what your obstacles are to finding love. Your intuition is weak when it comes to reading people and once you strengthen it, your confidence will fly. Your Saboteur is anxious and it is hard for her to trust.
Sleeping Beauties are fabulous Soul Mates in the Making. While they sparkle with appeal and may attract men without difficulty, they are not able to send strong roots down and anchor themselves in a relationship. These Beauties are waiting for an Inner Nudge, an inner alarm that will wake them to the woman they have yet to become.
Once you awaken the hidden gifts in your true Saboteur Style (Scarlett, Rapunzel or Snow White), latent talents and intuitive abilities, you will be irresistible to True Love. What’s Next?
Recognizing your Sabotage Style will change your Love Life forever. You CAN find true love but your journey starts with YOU. Build self confidence and learn to embrace your True Love Saboteur….she is aching for your love and attention. Only you can write a new ending to your story.