Archive for September, 2010

I had a great time in Hawaii last week and I am even more inspired than ever to share what I have learned about feeling loved…deeply and completely….with and especially BEFORE your partner arrives.

I know that many of you have had more than your share of disappointments.  Several of you have been wondering what your Saboteur style is.  Most everyone wants to find love but only a few have the resources to opt in for one on one mentoring.

That is why I am so excited about relaunching The Soul Mate Success Circle.  This ongoing group coaching system is ideal for those of you who want to raise your Love Vibration and move forward toward your Heart's Desire.

I am determined to help you find love. It is possible to change your personal magnetism and raise your vibration to find True Love.  You just need the skills to let go of past love and tune into your future self….the highest and best version of you.  Now THAT is irresistible!

This Thursday at 10 am pacific/noon central/1 pm eastern, you are invited to The Soul Mate Success Circle Relaunch Party.  I have streamlined the on line site and can't wait to meet with you monthly on group coaching calls designed to break through your barriers and get you the love you are looking for.

Each month I am teaching members practical tools to raise their love magnetism and keep it there.  I will also be giving spotlight coaching to members on the calls.  I will be conducting live instant message chat sessions weekly where you can come to me with any and all questions about your search for love.

Last but not least, there will be a contest for all of you on the live call.  I am giving away 30 minute mini-mentoring sessions to two lucky party guests.  I love contests and there will be winners on every monthly call!

I would LOVE for you to come check out The Soul Mate Success Circle and see if it is a
fit for you.  At only $47 a month, you will be shocked at how quickly your Love Vibe will sky rocket when you use these techniques!  Of course, you are my guest for this month's meeting, and I hope to see you there!

Here's Your Registration Link:  http://forms.aweber.com/form/66/1896929366.htm

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The 'dreaded' holidays will be here before you know it.  Is it ok that you are still waiting?

Or, are you really happy with the pace of your search for a partner?

If you want fast results, there is nothing faster than addressing self sabotage.  And I have some really good news.

As you know, The Saboteur Seduction Summit starts tomorrow, September 7,  and I have been contacted by four Saboteurs who have heard about the class and are secretly switching sides, anonymously of course, to talk about how each works to keep you stuck and more importantly….

When you are feeling your personal magnetism again, it's delicious! Life begins to draw you forward and you will attract a wonderful variety of experiences on your way to Love.

The 5 Part Saboteur Summit begins tomorrow, September 7 at 1 pm pacific/4 pm eastern.  The Summit is being recorded and each recording will be emailed to you before the end of the class day.  I will be interviewing Madame X (She likes that name)  for about 10 minutes at the start of the call.  She is a Scarlett O'Hara and to no one's surprise has a lot to say.  I will then teach the strategy that will bring the info into focus for all of you to practice with before the next class.

I hope you will join us.  You can get all the details right here:  http://budurl.com/AttractLove

Take Life From Drab to Fab, This Stuff Really Works!

PS Here are signs of self sabotage in case you are still wondering if you are sabotaging yourself in any way:

• Still Feeling Undeserving even though you have been through so much personal development work
• Feeling Not Good Enough, no matter how hard you try
• Resenting women who have fallen in love
• Comparing yourself to women who you feel are successful in Love
• Playing too small, settling for a fraction of what you deserve.
• Ignoring your intuition
• Unwilling to do what it takes to move your life forward, feeling frozen in apathy
• Afraid to invest in help, the value of supporting yourself is hard to see
• Indecision
• Worry about what other people will say.

The good news is you can figure out what your style of sabotage is and make a plan to deconstruct it.  It is way easier than you think!  Check it out:  Http://budurl.com/AttractLove

PPSS There is a preview call for this Summit, you can find it here:  Http://burdurl.com/LoveAgain

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When you put these secrets into practice you will immediately begin tuning in to your Core Love Vibration.  When your Core Love Vibe is activated, you radiate intense personal magnetism that changes who notices you.

Just register right here and the recording will be on its way to you:

http://forms.aweber.com/form/67/818546867.htm

Seats are filling for the Saboteur Seduction Summit.  I can't wait to teach these tricks and tips for overcoming self sabotage once and for all.  You can get all the details, including a great payment plan, right here:

You will find that finding True Love is not impossible, especially if you find someone to show you the way. Enjoy your recording and let me know if you have any questions about the summit.

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Have you been disappointed in love so many times that you feel like the Poster Child for Hooked on Losers Anonymous?

Stop!  This train is going nowhere fast.

We all sabotage ourselves when it comes to Love.  Even I do, and I KNOW what tricks my Saboteur uses. Even though I know that I know that I can attract Larry’s highest and best self like magic when I want to, I still choose to close myself off to him when I feel hurt.

My personal challenge is to keep a foot in the door of my heart so that I never go back to the isolation that was comfortable for me for so many years.  I continue to be my own Best Client and use my own tools to keep my Love Vibe high and humming!

How do you know if your Saboteur is wreaking havoc in your Soul Mate Attraction Plan? Here are 5 sure signs that self-sabotage is flying under the radar of your Love Life:

1.  Super High Achievement and Success in Business, Career and Philanthropy: Highly successful women are goal focused go getters.  If anything, the lack of love has fed their highly charged passion for success.  These women have zero time to focus on love and their careers fill in the gaps.  Time has slipped by for these women and many are dismayed to find themselves still single in their 40s.

2.  Passionate Relationships With Animals What, you say?  How could my love for my horse, dog, parakeet or cat be in the way of Love?  Animals are one of the sweet treasures of life and my own Personal Comfort Animals (Thank You Boston Legal for this great term) Jade and Bunny are a blessing to me, BUT, and this is a big but…if you aren’t careful, you can build a soul mate relationship with your four legged friend that steals your time from finding True Love.

3.  Thinking You Need To Change Something Before You Find Love.  Do you think you need to lose weight, get out of debt, move to a new city or find a new job before the “timing is right” for manifesting your Soul Mate?  This is an old Saboteur trick and works like a charm.  You see, there will always be some hurdle to overcome before you ‘qualify’ in your own eyes to prioritize a Soul Mate Attraction Plan.

4.  Setting Frivolous Deal Breakers In Your Soul Mate Search. Now, violence of any kind, alcoholism, drug addiction….all are deal breakers we can all agree on, but, and this is almost as big of a but as the last one….I hear the most self defeating list of deal breakers from my clients that you can imagine.  There are some great men out there…kind, gentle, giving men who are aching to pour their Love into a woman’s heart. Many lonely women are not even looking in their direction because of self defeating deal-breakers they have set their hearts on.  Some include, height (vertically challenged), hair (follicly challenged) and athleticism.  Believe it or not, even vegetarianism, smoking, drinking and sleep patterns can all dictate a deal breaker mentality that may not be serving you.  Something to think about….

5. Constant Inner Chatter that it could be Too Late and/or that there is No Body Out There For You.  The mind is certainly the Saboteur’s Playground.  You may have a regret or two, you may wish that you could reconnect to a lost love…welcome to the club.  There were good things in even the rockiest of relationships and these sparkling spots can blind you to the fact that there was a very good reason that relationship ended.  If you are passionate and committed to find a partner and you will not stop until you find him, you can overcome any obstacle.   Learning to control your thoughts and build confidence in your adorable self instead of constantly thinking about your singleness or your past is the goal.

So, has Self-Sabotage been showing up in your life? Are you ready to take a stand for Love and put your Law of Attraction skills on the fast track?  Fab!   I am going to share Three Bonus Love Breakthrough Secrets Critical Decisions you must make if Love is going to find your Heart in a gift recording just for reading this post!

I will also be introducing you to the Four Saboteurs and giving hints on how to recognize which style is yours and how you can enlist her help so she is working For you instead of against you.

You can register right here for your free audio:  http://forms.aweber.com/form/67/818546867.htm

PS  One last form of self sabotage that is common among all of the four saboteur styles? It is called the “I Already Know All That Syndrome.”  If you feel yourself saying these words, here is a thought for you…
“What would I have to get from this call to make it worth an hour of my time.”  Your Saboteur will LOVE this question.

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