Archive for February, 2010

25
Feb
12 COMMITMENTS TO RAISE YOUR LOVE VIBRATION

by Jafree Ozwald

1. I am only doing inspired actions in my life (meaning I’m only going to do that which inspires me!)

2. I always replace worry with wonder.

3. I immediately cancel & replace thoughts that arise like I…."should", "could", "would", "have to", "must", "need to" and "I've got to"…. and replace them with "I want to", "I get to", "I'd like to", "I'd love to" "I can" “I will” “I am!”.

4. I accept myself, approve and appreciate myself exactly as I am no matter what the situation or experience I’m going through.

5. I explore each experience in life (especially those I have trouble with) with a gentle, compassionate, conscious childlike curiosity.

6. I am independent of the good & bad opinions of others.

7. I remain centered & at peace with myself the world, even when others are not.

8. I think & speak only positive empowering things about others & about myself in a way they can easily feel & understand.

9. I exercise, meditate, eat healthy, and get enough sleep at least 6 days a week.

10. I create only long term fulfilling loving relationships, keeping my heart open to fully experience every person & situation that comes my way.

11. I have healthy boundaries with the demands of others and can simply & effortlessly say NO when I feel taken advantage of or dis-empowered in any way

12. I am 100% committed to these amazing life transformational commitments for the next 90 days!

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21
Feb
Did a lover disappear without a word?

Have you watched yourself sabotage your relationship with a really great guy?

Are you tired of e-harmony, yahoo personals and blind dates?

Is there a part of you that is so lonely it hurts?

You may have a Love Magnet that is so weak that it's signal barely registers.  Wouldn't it be nice to power it up and get some real magic going on for yourself?  You are a manifester.  You have seen the Law of Attraction work over and over and over.


If Love is out of reach, your Love Magnet can't be radiating at full force.
  There is a Soul Mate out there for you, someone who will gently open your heart and cherish you.  Take control of your future and turn that Love Magnet on full throttle.  You really can attract the Love of Your Life and with these 5 Secrets you can get started right away:

http://CatherineBehan.com/5secrets

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19
Feb
Want to get an answer to YOUR personal questions about why Love is hiding from you?

You can chat with me LIVE tomorrow morning, Saturday February 20 at 9 am pacific and I would
LOVE to have you there!

I will review “How To Be Loved Exquisitely:
5 Simple Secrets that Helped Me Stop Waking Up Alone,
Have the Relationship of My Dreams and Bring Me All
the Love and Intimacy I Want.

And then will answer questions from participants!

It will be great to meet you!

Here is the registration page:

http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/five-secrets-to-exquisite-love-preview-call/

See you tomorrow!!
Catherine

PS I also have a 6th secret that I will be revealing during
the call tomorrow…it is HUGE and without this piece,
True Love is too slick to hold on to!

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Category : For Single Soul Mates | Blog
19
Feb
I watched Tiger this morning in his news conference.  I couldn’t help but predict what I thought he would say.  I was right, he did own up to his indiscretion and made the obligatory comments.

But I was moved by his vulnerability and the level of shame and embarrassment.  I was sad for him.  Sad for his mom.  Sad for Elin and his kids.  Whether or not he and Elin can recover from this, once again, Tiger steps up as a leader and takes it on the chin.

He takes responsibility for himself and I wish him all the best in his search for peace and reconciliation.  Thanks for that Tiger.

What moves me the most is that each of us has something. Everyone of us has something we have done or are doing that could embarrass us if we were in the public eye.  We may not have been unfaithful in such a flagrant way, but we sure have made some HUGE blunders in our private lives.

I hope that Elin and Tiger can find answers to all that has happened.  Whether they are married or not, they are parents of itty bitty kids who need them to recover and restore balance.  True Love can be romantic love and often is.  But True Love is something else.


True Love loves in spite of error.
True Love honors growth and change.  True Love teaches that mistakes are not fatal.  True Love sustains during horrible circumstances.

I wish Tiger all the luck in the world.  I was so disappointed in him at first.  Today I am compassionate and send him love and support.  Having to do all of this in the public eye makes a tough situation even worse and I appreciate his words today.  I am still a fan.

Have you been betrayed by someone who you thought was your True Love? Tune in tomorrow, February 20 for a FREE Live Video Webinar at 9 am pacific.  I am doing a Q and A call and you can ask me anything you want about Attracting True Love.  Click here to register:
http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/five-secrets-to-exquisite-love-preview-call/

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Category : Soul Mates | Blog
18
Feb
Do you find yourself racking your brain to figure out a way to connect to the men that you meet? Are you looking for a way to attract the attention of QUALITY men?

Do you want men to CRAVE your company?

You know how men can clam up and close themselves off right when you have something earth shaking to talk about?  I hate that, don’t you?

Colleen told me in an email, “I thought he was in to me.  We talked and talked at dinner last week and now he hasn’t called. I wonder what I did.”

“Tell me about him,” I asked her.  Colleen started to tell me the basics, where he was from and what he did for a living, but then she fell back into her list of complaints about him and every other guy who let her down.

Can you relate?  Are you sick of meeting men that seem great and then disappear? There is one thing you can do that will completely fascinate a man and it isn’t what you think. Plus, so few women know this secret, you will stand out from the crowd.

When you look into a man’s eyes and open your heart, mind and EARS you are on your way.  Yes, it is your EARS that are the key to a man’s heart.  Most men are literally STARVING for someone to just Listen to them.

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It takes focus and intention to really hear what the man of the moment is talking about.  But…if you choose to do this….to really Listen to the heart behind the words, you will be a Wonder to him.

Every man has a story or ten to tell.  Even if he has told you the story before, there are still questions you can ask to deepen his experience of being heard.

Mary told me about her experience in an email:

“We went out to celebrate Veteran’s Day with a breakfast out.  I had heard his stories many times but on this day, I felt especially moved to ask him again about his Viet Nam war days.  My husband was so engaged with me.  It felt wonderful.  When I listen to my man…really listen, I feel an amazing connection with him.  I wish I would have known this secret years ago!”

It may seem to simple to be true, but what if it works?  Can you afford to not try it out?  Next time a random man crosses your path….just try it.  Plan on being curious…really curious, open your ears and be prepared to be feel the connection!

Want to find out more magnetizing tips? If you are free this Saturday,  February 20 at 9 am pacific….please join me on my debut VIDEO coaching webinar.  I will be reviewing the 5 Secrets to Exquisite Love and revealing a 6th Secret that will double your Love Vibe.  Click here for more info: http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/five-secrets-to-exquisite-love-preview-call/

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Category : Single and Searching | Blog
17
Feb

Remember the episode of Sex in the City where Carrie obsessed over a sex and city 300x247 Get Free of BreakUp B.S. breakup and told the story over and over and over…to anyone who would listen?

Why is it so hard to get over a break up and move on?

According to Thea Newcomb of http://SoYouveBeenDumped.com, “When we are reeling from a cold, hard dumping, the initial feeling that sets in is WORRY.

We worry whether anyone will ever find us attractive, whether we will have sex again, and whether we will ever find our “true love” and be happy.”

Maybe that is it, the feeling of being left is awful. Even if it is clear that the relationship is not a good fit for either person.  If it was once a highly magnetic relationship, it is hard to accept that the magic has disappeared.  What if there is no one else out there?

But you can do something about the Breakup B.S. The B. S. is the Back Story and you can do a lot about it.  When your latest breakup is aching and you are crying into your pillow, you definitely need a lot of TLC.  Check out Thea’s site, it is full of resources to support you.

I know this sucks, but once the first wave of pain is over, you can deal with your Back Story and that is the key to resetting your Love Magnet and trying again. Your past relationships are still alive in you at some level and a current breakup is the easiest way to access past emotional pain and dissolving it once and for all.

It is important to be gentle with yourself during this time. Brain scientists are finding that the same part of the brain that fires when having a crush on a new love also fires during a breakup.  No wonder it is so hard…pleasure and pain all wrapped up in one bruising package.  Ouch.

Take a quiet moment and look back, has there been a past relationship that still aches? Allow yourself to let go of as much of that past disappointment as you can.  If you need help, talk to a friend or join a Law of Attraction discussion group.  Disappointment is highly attractive and will continue to draw more of itself to your life until you change those emotional memories.

With your self esteem restored and renewed and some time under your belt, you will be ready for love again. It is worth the time to deal with your own Breakup B.S. before you try again.  Finding peace with your temporary singleness while you recover does wonders for your self concept.

As Thea says: “When I long to be part of a couple, all I need to do is look at my list of why I am happy to be single to be reminded of just how lucky I am to be flying solo (not forever, but certainly for the moment).”

If you are ready for Love and want to fire up Your Love Magnet, tune into this free download:  “5 Love Breakthrough Secrets.”
Register here:

 

Category : Law of Attraction | Single and Searching | Blog
16
Feb

I just hate it when this happens….

You know what I mean?

I have all of my systems set up and ready to roll, my fabulous co-host, the incomparable Nina Ferrell is on board and all of you eager for info when…

Technology breakdown!  Arrggghhh!  The recording from Sunday’s call did not take.

But, I do have Good News.  I am revealing a 6th Secret* just for the participants on a one time 5 Secrets to Exquisite Love Q & A call and it is going to be a VIDEO Event on February 20 at 9 am pacific time.  That is right, I am going VIDEO and can’t wait to meet and greet you on Saturday.  There is absolutely no charge for this event!

To register for this One Time 5 Secrets to Exquisite Love Video Preview Call, click here:

http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/five-secrets-to-exquisite-love-preview-call/

Funny how things work out.  What was first a big problem for me transformed itself into a fantastic opportunity to create something brand new and even better!  There has to be a lesson in there somewhere!

Love the old making lemonade from lemons routine!

See you on the 20th!!

Love,

Catherine

The Pied Piper of Lonely Hearts

PS With this *6th Secret, you will unlock the key to your LOVE destiny…don’t miss it!

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Category : For Single Soul Mates | Blog
13
Feb

Maybe.

Ask yourself this question next: bigstockphoto Mature Couple 2931109 300x185 Do You Believe True Love is Still Out There For You?

Could I be pushing love away?

Let’s look at this.

Maybe you are trying to protect yourself from hurt. It could be that you are still heart broken about a difficult breakup.

Perhaps you believe that you are just unlucky when it comes to Love.

Are you fearful of being disappointed….again?

Or maybe deep down you just don’t feel having a partner is worth all of the trouble.

I am ready to change this with you.

Juliet wrote to me last week to tell me how shocked she was to find that a relationship from 30 years ago still grieved her. During one of the exercises, she felt a sadness she had long forgotten bubble up to the surface.

“I thought I had moved on,” she wrote, “The relief I felt when we worked on our past loves was amazing. I see now how that big disappointment has over shadowed my relationships.”

Juliet sabotaged her love life over and over again. Ten significant breakups had left her self concept in tatters. Now she is steadily building up her confidence and as she describes it,

“I am attracting attention from some terrific men and I feel more hopeful than I have in years! I KNOW my soul mate is out there and we will find each other.”

Does Juliet’s story inspire you?

You Can get what you want. Law of Attraction will serve you faithfully when you are ready. To manifest a change for yourself….spend some time thinking about just how serious you are about attracting True Love.

Are you ready for New Love?  http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com and find out today!

P.S. A part of you is still longing for love. Listen to her whisper and join this very special call…

Category : For Single Soul Mates | Blog
11
Feb
Shhhhh…..This is top secret stuff.

Only read this if you want a soul mate more than anything else.

You see, it is that singular focus….in other words, you have to want it bad.  Job, family, health, career, friends….everything else has to take a back seat to your white hot burning desire to be with a man.  You need to tap in to the deep longing in your heart and let it lead you.

Some of you think you are already there.  Guess what?  You’re not. How do I know?

Are you still single?

So before you get annoyed with me, check this list and see if you can relate to these things that beautiful, successful women have told me are great about being single:

1.  Independence.
SPW (Single Professional Women) love being in charge of their own lives and schedules.  The idea of checking in with someone to “ok” their schedule makes them cringe.

2. No Shopping Police
It is fabulous to have their hands on their own money and have no one to criticize or judge that new pair of shoes or designer bag.

3. No Inlaws or Partner Work Outings
They love not going to anybody else’s obligatory social events but their own.

4. Shaving
“Seriously, no one but me cares what I shave or how often I shave it.” Thanks for this one from http://stefanie-says.blogspot.com

5. Laundry
The smelly socks are always their own.

Seriously though, is there a part of you longing to belong to someone?  Do you wish you knew how to open your heart again?  Is there a part of you who would do anything to be cherished?

You can get what you want.  Law of Attraction will serve you faithfully when you are ready.  To manifest a change for yourself….there is only one thing you need to do.  Listen in to this preview call and learn:

“How To Be Loved Exquisitely: 5 Simple Secrets
To Help You Stop Waking Up Alone, Have the
Relationship of Your Dreams and Bring You
All the Love and Intimacy You Want.”

http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/five-secrets-to-exquisite-love-preview-call/

You’ll be really glad you did!

Law of Attraction And Soul Mates San Diego Meetup:  ~~A Hundred Sixty Strong and Growing! Http://LOAinLove.com

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Category : For Single Soul Mates | Blog
9
Feb

Are you dateless on Valentine’s Day again this year?bigstockphoto Behind The Window 4742455 199x300 Do You Know The Secret Of Being Loved Exquisitely?

Do you question whether there is a man out there for you?

Do you wish you had someone to come home to?

Last week I was talking to Linda (not her real name), a lonely 48 year old successful single professional. She told me that when she was 26, pregnant and engaged to the baby’s father, the door bell rang and it was her fiance’s WIFE.

That’s right, he was already married when he proposed to Linda after she got pregnant. Not only that, the woman was a Mormon and wanted to raise Linda’s child. She kicked the guy out and kept her son, who is now a strapping 22 year old. Good for her, but….

She has never been able to trust another man again.

Another broken engagement followed and now she wonders, will she ever fall deeply in love again.

Linda’s story is just one of many. Why are the brightest and most beautiful women still alone? Why can they manifest everything EXCEPT love?

Isn’t it about time you found out why you are still single and what you can do about it? This Valentine’s Day I am hosting a very important Teleseminar where I am going to reveal the 5 Simple Secrets That Helped Me Stop Waking Up Alone, Have the Relationship of My Dreams and Bring Me All the Love and Intimacy I Want.”

Being loved and adored is all that and more and best of all it is possible for YOU and I am going to share everything you need to do to find True Love for yourself.

Imagine changing your luck in love once and for all. What if YOU were loved like that? How would your life change? You have all the power you need to attract love….do you believe that?

I know this is true and want everyone to know the Secret to being Irresistible to LOVE. Here are the details:

Click here to register: http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/five-secrets-to-exquisite-love-preview-call/

FR*EE 60 Min LIVE TELECLASS

“How To Be Loved Exquisitely: 5 Simple Secrets
To Help You Stop Waking Up Alone,
Have the Relationship of Your Dreams and
Bring You All the Love and Intimacy You Want.”

Sunday February 14

11 am Pacific, 1 pm Central, 2 pm Eastern

Listen live by phone or online or download the recording to listen at your convenience.

In this 60 minute teleclass you’ll learn:

. The reason you are still single

. How your intentions are actually working against you

. How to USE a rebound relationship to prepare for The One

. How to activate your LOVE MAGNET like never before

. How to identify and release the one core belief that is controlling your love life

. Why affirmations don’t work and what you can do that is even better

. How to use your secret manifestation weapon….your intuition to know which step to take next

. How to change the patterns of the past to ensure your single days are on their way out for good!

Here’s your chance to find the love you’ve been waiting for. Don’t miss this!

Join me and Nina Ferrell, Master Law Of Attraction Teacher LIVE this Sunday, February 14th for their FREE teleclass where we will share these powerful, love-life-changing secrets with you so you can
LOVE AGAIN IN 2010

Click Here to Register: http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/five-secrets-to-exquisite-love-preview-call/

Be sure and register even if you can’t attend live.

I’ll send you the recording, so you can listen at your convenience

See you on the call!!

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