Comments on: Does A Break Up Haunt You This Christmas? http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2009/12/does-a-break-up-haunt-you-this-christmas/ Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:47:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Catherine http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2009/12/does-a-break-up-haunt-you-this-christmas/comment-page-1/#comment-2343 Catherine Sat, 27 Aug 2011 17:14:07 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2009/12/does-a-break-up-haunt-you-this-christmas/#comment-2343 Hi Salmah, Big hugs to you. I can hear the frustration in your note. It is easy to look back at former love when you are unhappy in your current relationship. I know, I have done it myself. In fact, when I was going through my divorce (I had been married nearly 30 years), I needed to do a tough thing. I forced myself to remember the BAD things instead of longing for the good times I missed. I focused on the miscommunications and hurt feelings not to torture myself but to empower myself to see I was ready to move on. An ex is an ex for a reason. Spend some time listing what was no longer working when you broke up. I believe there are lots of soul mates out there. Lots of love to share. Your ex was just one of the loves of your life. Now you have your kids and your new hubby. Don't go through this alone. Talk to a coach, counselor or minister. Find a way to accept where you are and your current situation. If you know which saboteur style you have, it may help you see your way through the maze. I wish you the best! Catherine Hi Salmah,

Big hugs to you. I can hear the frustration in your note. It is easy to look back at former love when you are unhappy in your current relationship. I know, I have done it myself. In fact, when I was going through my divorce (I had been married nearly 30 years), I needed to do a tough thing. I forced myself to remember the BAD things instead of longing for the good times I missed.

I focused on the miscommunications and hurt feelings not to torture myself but to empower myself to see I was ready to move on. An ex is an ex for a reason. Spend some time listing what was no longer working when you broke up. I believe there are lots of soul mates out there. Lots of love to share. Your ex was just one of the loves of your life. Now you have your kids and your new hubby.

Don’t go through this alone. Talk to a coach, counselor or minister. Find a way to accept where you are and your current situation. If you know which saboteur style you have, it may help you see your way through the maze.

I wish you the best!
Catherine

]]> By: salmah http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2009/12/does-a-break-up-haunt-you-this-christmas/comment-page-1/#comment-2342 salmah Sat, 27 Aug 2011 10:35:37 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2009/12/does-a-break-up-haunt-you-this-christmas/#comment-2342 I had a break up 8 years ago we had been together for 6 years and we were deeply in love that everyone around us thought that we would be the only ones to make it. Now 8 years later i am married with two lovely kids a gorgeous husband in a lovely big house, but the problem started 3 years ago when me and my husband had a big fight and i discovered all of our differences and now whenever i go to sleep whenever i daydream i picture the love that had been its like i am being haunted all over again, and i can t help it, i don t know what to do i feel ashamed because i am married wish i could find a solution to get me out of this circle. I had a break up 8 years ago we had been together for 6 years and we were deeply in love that everyone around us thought that we would be the only ones to make it. Now 8 years later i am married with two lovely kids a gorgeous husband in a lovely big house, but the problem started 3 years ago when me and my husband had a big fight and i discovered all of our differences and now whenever i go to sleep whenever i daydream i picture the love that had been its like i am being haunted all over again, and i can t help it, i don t know what to do i feel ashamed because i am married wish i could find a solution to get me out of this circle.

]]> By: Susan Lally http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2009/12/does-a-break-up-haunt-you-this-christmas/comment-page-1/#comment-453 Susan Lally Tue, 29 Dec 2009 01:27:16 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2009/12/does-a-break-up-haunt-you-this-christmas/#comment-453 yes, I just had a breakup 3 weeks ago. in the long run I know it was better this way but it still hurts. yes, I just had a breakup 3 weeks ago. in the long run I know it was better this way but it still hurts.

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