Archive for August, 2009

“Catherine, say this after me.  I want to live.”

“I want to live.”

The phone was silent for a moment.

“Nope, you’re off for that.”

Not the kind of thing a person wants to hear while recovering from a cancer challenge.  “That can’t be right, I DO want to live, with everything that is in me!” I said a bit defensively. That’s what I THOUGHT I thought. It’s time like this that a life coach is very happy she has a coach of her own! continue

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Every now and then a bible scripture comes back to me at just the right time. One of these is “God places the lonely in families.”  I don’t remember where it is exactly but I do remember when I read it for the first time.

I was going through a particularly difficult time and living in a city with no immediate family, I was pretty lonely. I had found  a local bible study group, can’t tell you how I even heard about it, I just began attending.  What I found there were people who were kind to me, very kind to me.

I enjoyed the bible back then, as much as I enjoy reading Abraham Hicks today. I remember having the identical passion over the ahas I got while reading.

“God places the lonely in families.” No wonder that one still feels good.  Especially to those of us who grew up in stressed families.   Do you have a challenging relationship with a family member?

There is a very good chance there is someone in your life right now who is the same age as that person who is treating you awfully nice right now. Before you make too quick a judgment….look over your acquaintances right now and check it out.

Over the years I have had women come and go who have stood in the place of female family members. Sometimes there is no hardship in the family at all, sometimes it is simply geography that is in the way.

Right now I have managed to attract a woman named Joanne who makes me feel loved and accepted in a deep way. Very deep for how short of a time we have known each other.

She welcomes my ideas and my perspective with respect and curiosity and that feels wonderful.  She is my mom’s age.  She brings me what I don’t get from my mom.

I am glad for the parade of women who have passed through my life over the last ten years. If you are reading this and you know you are one of them….I appreciate you more than you know.  Who knows why some relationships are fleeting.

It doesn’t really matter why they come together quickly and dissolve without warning.  There is something important in each connection, no matter how short.

It really is a gift when you find someone you get along with easily. Enjoy the living tar out of it.  Hold it lightly and be kind to that person, chances are there is a family member of their own that is a hard one.

I have seen time and again that indeed I AM placed in families and you know what? It is the times I need a family the most that the right people always show up.  Did I mention that my mom’s name is Joan?  I know the Universe is getting a big kick out of that one!

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He walked into the house, head hanging in dejection.  “What’s up, hon?” she asked.  “I don’t know,” he said, “I am just not feeling like myself these days.” She knew he was facing challenges in his career and the stress was starting to show itself at home.  He was short with her and with the kids and there was a dark cloud that seemed to follow him wherever he went.  What is a soul mate to do?

So much had changed since the early days in their relationship.  She would give anything to see the spark back in his eye, the irresistible grin back on his face and the spring in his step.  After all, ever since she started reading Abraham Hicks, Napoleon Hill and Jack Canfield, her life had been getting more interesting by the moment. Learning that what a person focuses on expands had changed her life and she wanted that for him intensely.

“Why does he reject all of these ideas?” she wrote in her journal.  “I KNOW FOR SURE that this information will help him.  I am SO frustrated.  It seems the more I tell him about what he could do if he only set his mind to it, the more withdrawn he is getting.” continue

“I used to have friends that just just hung out together.” She sighed. “ We didn’t have to make plans or anything  We just hung out”.  The woman on the other end of the phone continued, “I think I just gave up trying years ago.”  Can you relate?

Where did our social circles go anyway? Years ago it seemed we easily congregated in some one’s apartment or dorm room. Young moms might gather occasionally at the neighborhood Starbucks, but eventually work environments become the main social environment.  How few of us work with groups of people who are genuinely supportive and kind to one another.  On good days ambivalent and on bad ones down right hostile, no wonder we isolate ourselves more and more as we get older. continue