Comments on: When A Soul Mate Cheats http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2009/02/soul-mate-cheats-2/ Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:47:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Lissa Boles http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2009/02/soul-mate-cheats-2/comment-page-1/#comment-126 Lissa Boles Tue, 03 Mar 2009 02:53:35 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=645#comment-126 Boy do you have a gift for fine articulate of the subtle and tender - and with such spectacularly hooky titles, too! I'm with Julia AND I think that in relationships where the slide into divide isn't noticed or mended 'cheating' by overindulging another passion is an all too common kind of emotional infidelity. And I really applaud you for bringing it to light and giving it a voice. I'm loving your new moniker and look too... Boy do you have a gift for fine articulate of the subtle and tender – and with such spectacularly hooky titles, too!

I’m with Julia AND I think that in relationships where the slide into divide isn’t noticed or mended ‘cheating’ by overindulging another passion is an all too common kind of emotional infidelity. And I really applaud you for bringing it to light and giving it a voice.

I’m loving your new moniker and look too…

]]> By: Athena http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2009/02/soul-mate-cheats-2/comment-page-1/#comment-127 Athena Thu, 26 Feb 2009 20:52:37 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=645#comment-127 Hi Catherine, Yes, you cheated yourself. You have spent years growing into the beautiful spirit who manifested the connection between you and your husband. It's wonderful and generous of you to share your wisdom with others. However, not at the risk of your own balance. The dance of romance is beautiful and sometimes we step on toes. It just makes the twirls that much more fun! Cheers to you and your accountablity, and bless your husband for speaking up! Balance...balance...balance! Love, Athena Hi Catherine,

Yes, you cheated yourself. You have spent years growing into the beautiful spirit who manifested the connection between you and your husband. It’s wonderful and generous of you to share your wisdom with others. However, not at the risk of your own balance.

The dance of romance is beautiful and sometimes we step on toes. It just makes the twirls that much more fun! Cheers to you and your accountablity, and bless your husband for speaking up!

Balance…balance…balance!

Love,

Athena

]]> By: Catherine http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2009/02/soul-mate-cheats-2/comment-page-1/#comment-129 Catherine Tue, 24 Feb 2009 16:35:04 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=645#comment-129 Hi Julia, Thanks for your thoughtful comments. I know just what you mean when you talk about letting business "fun" get out of balance. It is tricky because I do love my work...second to family. And that is the key for me. In my first marriage I wasn't as sensitive to my husband's reactions to my projects and I am grateful that I noticed the subtle changes in my relationship this time before a big divide developed. I love to be passionate about my job and now that my husband is in it to win it with me, I may be doing less, but I am enjoying him more and that feels really good! I know you and John share a special bond and I am glad your love is shining for all to see! Be well! Catherine Hi Julia,

Thanks for your thoughtful comments. I know just what you mean when you talk about letting business “fun” get out of balance. It is tricky because I do love my work…second to family. And that is the key for me.

In my first marriage I wasn’t as sensitive to my husband’s reactions to my projects and I am grateful that I noticed the subtle changes in my relationship this time before a big divide developed.

I love to be passionate about my job and now that my husband is in it to win it with me, I may be doing less, but I am enjoying him more and that feels really good!

I know you and John share a special bond and I am glad your love is shining for all to see!

Be well!
Catherine

]]> By: Julia Mattern http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2009/02/soul-mate-cheats-2/comment-page-1/#comment-128 Julia Mattern Tue, 24 Feb 2009 14:34:49 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=645#comment-128 Thought-provoking post, Catherine! I personally don't think you cheated, but rather, allowed your passion for your work to unbalance your life in a way that negatively impacted your relationship. This is something that many of us can relate to and for many of us, finding the right mix can be tricky. So great to hear that you are now following your own rhythms, with your husband's blessing and support. What a gift! By the way, I love your new moniker and the new look for your blog :-) Thought-provoking post, Catherine! I personally don’t think you cheated, but rather, allowed your passion for your work to unbalance your life in a way that negatively impacted your relationship. This is something that many of us can relate to and for many of us, finding the right mix can be tricky.

So great to hear that you are now following your own rhythms, with your husband’s blessing and support. What a gift!

By the way, I love your new moniker and the new look for your blog :-)

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