Comments on: My Boyfriend Won’t Talk To Me: Five Steps To Open His Heart http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/11/my-boyfriend-wont-talk-to-me-five-steps-to-open-his-heart/ Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:47:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Catherine http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/11/my-boyfriend-wont-talk-to-me-five-steps-to-open-his-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-739 Catherine Mon, 03 May 2010 22:04:28 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=427#comment-739 Thanks for stopping by Dr. Jenn. I like to say that keeping the soul mate fires burning is never boring! I have come to embrace the triggers that bring up insecurities and doubts. Larry and I feel so fortunate to have our second chance at creating a marriage that inspires both of us! I will come over and check out your site...looks like we have much in common! Thanks for stopping by Dr. Jenn. I like to say that keeping the soul mate fires burning is never boring! I have come to embrace the triggers that bring up insecurities and doubts. Larry and I feel so fortunate to have our second chance at creating a marriage that inspires both of us! I will come over and check out your site…looks like we have much in common!

]]> By: TheDatingDr http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/11/my-boyfriend-wont-talk-to-me-five-steps-to-open-his-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-736 TheDatingDr Mon, 03 May 2010 18:30:28 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=427#comment-736 I love your ideas of ways to reframe your needs so that they get met more easily and don't hang a cloud of resentment over the relationship! Clever! It's funny, John Gottman calls these "Bids for Attention"- when you say something that you expect to get a response from, and instead your partner ignores it. Apparently how you and your partner respond to these bids over time helps to determine how satisfied you are. So paying attention both to how you ask for your attention and how you answer your partner's is a recipe for success! :) I love your ideas of ways to reframe your needs so that they get met more easily and don’t hang a cloud of resentment over the relationship! Clever!

It’s funny, John Gottman calls these “Bids for Attention”- when you say something that you expect to get a response from, and instead your partner ignores it.

Apparently how you and your partner respond to these bids over time helps to determine how satisfied you are. So paying attention both to how you ask for your attention and how you answer your partner’s is a recipe for success! \':)\'

]]> By: Catherine Behan http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/11/my-boyfriend-wont-talk-to-me-five-steps-to-open-his-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-88 Catherine Behan Wed, 05 Nov 2008 19:34:10 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=427#comment-88 Thanks Nan! I can't wait to interview this Saturday! My intuitive abilities have skyrocketed since I took your Spirit of Money class last Summer! I know my Tribe will love meeting you! Catherine Thanks Nan!

I can’t wait to interview this Saturday!

My intuitive abilities have skyrocketed since I took your Spirit of Money class last Summer!

I know my Tribe will love meeting you!

Catherine

]]> By: Nan Akasha http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/11/my-boyfriend-wont-talk-to-me-five-steps-to-open-his-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-87 Nan Akasha Tue, 04 Nov 2008 14:27:11 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=427#comment-87 Catherine, great observations! We do not need our beloved's to be everything to us all the time! I have come to know the immense value of communicating clearly..it really keeps things happy! And I agree with "Your intuition and imagination will help you find ways to tune to him. These inner senses are just waiting for you to engage them." If you want to enhance, activate or amplify your intuition, I am starting a 2 session class next week, just for accelerating your intuition! Check it out here: http://intuitionaccelerator.com/ Lots of love, your coach, Nan Catherine,
great observations! We do not need our beloved’s to be everything to us all the time! I have come to know the immense value of communicating clearly..it really keeps things happy!
And I agree with “Your intuition and imagination will help you find ways to tune to him. These inner senses are just waiting for you to engage them.”
If you want to enhance, activate or amplify your intuition, I am starting a 2 session class next week, just for accelerating your intuition! Check it out here: http://intuitionaccelerator.com/
Lots of love,
your coach, Nan

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