Comments on: Don’t Give Your Man Away To Another Woman http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/08/dont-give-your-man-away-to-another-woman/ Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:47:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Catherine Behan http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/08/dont-give-your-man-away-to-another-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-61 Catherine Behan Fri, 12 Sep 2008 15:08:05 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=146#comment-61 Thanks for your comments, Shileen. I love releasing techniques and wonder what are your favorites. The more I allow myself to embrace past pain rather than hide from it, the happier I am and wonder of wonders, the happier my husband is living with me. Imagine that! I appreciate you stopping by! Celebrating Love, Catherine Thanks for your comments, Shileen. I love releasing techniques and wonder what are your favorites.

The more I allow myself to embrace past pain rather than hide from it, the happier I am and wonder of wonders, the happier my husband is living with me. Imagine that!

I appreciate you stopping by!

Celebrating Love,
Catherine

]]> By: Shileen http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/08/dont-give-your-man-away-to-another-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-60 Shileen Fri, 12 Sep 2008 14:16:35 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=146#comment-60 Great post, Catherine! I am finding it very helpful to do releasing techniques so that I don't store this emotional energy in my body because stored issues and hurts can cause or contribute to all kinds of health problems from physical to emotional. It's awesome when I bring up an issue of the past and find there's no emotional energy attached to it. Thank you for your honesty and transparency. Shileen Great post, Catherine!

I am finding it very helpful to do releasing techniques so that I don’t store this emotional energy in my body because stored issues and hurts can cause or contribute to all kinds of health problems from physical to emotional. It’s awesome when I bring up an issue of the past and find there’s no emotional energy attached to it.

Thank you for your honesty and transparency.

Shileen

]]> By: Catherine Behan http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/08/dont-give-your-man-away-to-another-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-59 Catherine Behan Tue, 19 Aug 2008 03:35:18 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=146#comment-59 Hi Eve, Thanks for your comment. I am focusing on my own reactions more and more every day. It is fun to see how my hubby's attitude is adjusting as I learn to express who I am clearly and confidently. I am grateful for all of my life experiences, even my perceived relationship failures because everything has brought me to the place where I am right now. My folks weren't able to role model a happy marriage for me and it has taken me a lot of years to get here but I am still standing....and smiling! Your kind words made my day! Blessings to you! Catherine http://jointheblogversation.wordpress.com Hi Eve,

Thanks for your comment. I am focusing on my own reactions more and more every day. It is fun to see how my hubby’s attitude is adjusting as I learn to express who I am clearly and confidently.

I am grateful for all of my life experiences, even my perceived relationship failures because everything has brought me to the place where I am right now.

My folks weren’t able to role model a happy marriage for me and it has taken me a lot of years to get here but I am still standing….and smiling!

Your kind words made my day!

Blessings to you!
Catherine
http://jointheblogversation.wordpress.com

]]> By: Eve Annunziato http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/08/dont-give-your-man-away-to-another-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-58 Eve Annunziato Mon, 18 Aug 2008 23:48:19 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=146#comment-58 This is so very well written. Thanks for the words of wisdom. I used to hold on to pain for a long time and wasn't satisfied until I hurt back and then some... I realized that was the WRONG response. Now, I make a concerted effort to talk through my feelings with my spouse before we head to bed. This way, by the next day, the issue is processed, settled, and OVER. A much more healthy way to deal - and has helped our marriage in a big way. Love your blog! This is so very well written. Thanks for the words of wisdom.

I used to hold on to pain for a long time and wasn’t satisfied until I hurt back and then some… I realized that was the WRONG response. Now, I make a concerted effort to talk through my feelings with my spouse before we head to bed. This way, by the next day, the issue is processed, settled, and OVER. A much more healthy way to deal – and has helped our marriage in a big way.

Love your blog!

]]> By: Catherine Behan http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/08/dont-give-your-man-away-to-another-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-57 Catherine Behan Sun, 17 Aug 2008 16:24:10 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=146#comment-57 Hi Paty, How very wise of you to see that a pattern from your original family is showing itself in your marriage. This is REALLY good news!! Now that you see the pattern, you can do something about it! Recognizing and getting uncomfortable about your reactions to your man is a very powerful thing. We women can change the direction of our relationships as we look at our reactions and adjust them. Keep reading and practicing the techniques you read about here and keep your eyes open for other resources that will support you! A great book is The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. This is great resource for you because it helps you focus on your own desires and reactions. You will love it! Thanks for stopping by! Catherine Hi Paty,

How very wise of you to see that a pattern from your original family is showing itself in your marriage. This is REALLY good news!!

Now that you see the pattern, you can do something about it! Recognizing and getting uncomfortable about your reactions to your man is a very powerful thing.

We women can change the direction of our relationships as we look at our reactions and adjust them.

Keep reading and practicing the techniques you read about here and keep your eyes open for other resources that will support you!

A great book is The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. This is great resource for you because it helps you focus on your own desires and reactions. You will love it!

Thanks for stopping by!
Catherine

]]> By: Catherine Behan http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/08/dont-give-your-man-away-to-another-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-56 Catherine Behan Sat, 16 Aug 2008 15:44:06 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=146#comment-56 Hi Teresa, I LOVE how you called your partner "perfect" even if you are not sure you will stay. It is abundantly wise and self caring to realize that he is, at the moment, perfect for you! I spent my first marriage not realizing how I could have changed the dynamics bu changing my reactions. I know now that learning to change my THINKING about my man is the sure way to inner peace. And, ladies, inner peace is VERY attractive to our men! Kudos, Teresa, and keep me posted! Catherine http://YourAngelsAreCalling.wordpress.com Hi Teresa,

I LOVE how you called your partner “perfect” even if you are not sure you will stay. It is abundantly wise and self caring to realize that he is, at the moment, perfect for you!

I spent my first marriage not realizing how I could have changed the dynamics bu changing my reactions. I know now that learning to change my THINKING about my man is the sure way to inner peace.

And, ladies, inner peace is VERY attractive to our men!

Kudos, Teresa, and keep me posted!

Catherine
http://YourAngelsAreCalling.wordpress.com

]]> By: Paty http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/08/dont-give-your-man-away-to-another-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-55 Paty Sat, 16 Aug 2008 15:24:44 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=146#comment-55 Fabulous advice. I have the worst grudges! I get mad at my husband and it lasts for days....I know I'm wrong most of the time but it just eats me up. I got it from my father. My husband, on the other hand, forgets he's mad in like 2 seconds. A quality I wish I had. Thanks for stopping by!! Fabulous advice. I have the worst grudges! I get mad at my husband and it lasts for days….I know I’m wrong most of the time but it just eats me up. I got it from my father. My husband, on the other hand, forgets he’s mad in like 2 seconds. A quality I wish I had. Thanks for stopping by!!

]]> By: Teresa http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/08/dont-give-your-man-away-to-another-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-54 Teresa Sat, 16 Aug 2008 14:58:55 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=146#comment-54 Yes! When I feel the upsets within me, I am processing the energy and regrouping. I'm still not sure whether I want to stay with my "perfect partner," yet I am willing to evaluate my feelings and keep my energy resonating at the love/light level. Not easy! Recently, even though my relationship often feels otherwise, I declared that I am "happily married." I want to observe the possibilities of change surrounding the manifestation of my thoughts/words. Pollyanna? Maybe...yet I am dedicated to highest good for all involved. Yes! When I feel the upsets within me, I am processing the energy and regrouping. I’m still not sure whether I want to stay with my “perfect partner,” yet I am willing to evaluate my feelings and keep my energy resonating at the love/light level. Not easy! Recently, even though my relationship often feels otherwise, I declared that I am “happily married.” I want to observe the possibilities of change surrounding the manifestation of my thoughts/words. Pollyanna? Maybe…yet I am dedicated to highest good for all involved.

]]> By: Catherine Behan http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/08/dont-give-your-man-away-to-another-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-50 Catherine Behan Thu, 14 Aug 2008 03:42:49 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=146#comment-50 Hi Jess, It is amazing how the behavior of someone we love can remind us subconsciously of a hurtful event in the past. It makes me feel better to know that this happens to everyone and that if helps to remind yourself that "that was then and this is now and this man is NOT my ex." My man doesn't like to hear about my ex, I know that, but he does like hearing how much I appreciate that he is so different from my ex. Then I praise the things about him that I really like when ever I get the chance. I tell him I am so happy that I found him and I tell him I am the luckiest girl ever....and I tell him that a lot. He never seems to get tired of hearing it! Good Luck! Catherine http://yourangelsarecalling.wordpress.com Hi Jess,

It is amazing how the behavior of someone we love can remind us subconsciously of a hurtful event in the past.

It makes me feel better to know that this happens to everyone and that if helps to remind yourself that “that was then and this is now and this man is NOT my ex.”

My man doesn’t like to hear about my ex, I know that, but he does like hearing how much I appreciate that he is so different from my ex. Then I praise the things about him that I really like when ever I get the chance.

I tell him I am so happy that I found him and I tell him I am the luckiest girl ever….and I tell him that a lot. He never seems to get tired of hearing it!

Good Luck!
Catherine
http://yourangelsarecalling.wordpress.com

]]> By: Jess Reuter http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/08/dont-give-your-man-away-to-another-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-51 Jess Reuter Thu, 14 Aug 2008 02:38:46 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=146#comment-51 I read this and it hit me like a ton of bricks...when my husband and I fight, its normally because we have insecurities about something that has happened to us in the past. My problem is that I learned just to push everything aside and I don't like to sit down and talk about it, well, then it usually comes up later and much worse. I love him so I'm learning to talk things out and let him know when I'm upset and encourage him to do the same! But never before have I actually thought about how all our insecurities in this relationship surface from our past!! I read this and it hit me like a ton of bricks…when my husband and I fight, its normally because we have insecurities about something that has happened to us in the past. My problem is that I learned just to push everything aside and I don’t like to sit down and talk about it, well, then it usually comes up later and much worse. I love him so I’m learning to talk things out and let him know when I’m upset and encourage him to do the same! But never before have I actually thought about how all our insecurities in this relationship surface from our past!!

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