Comments on: Why Can't I Find My Soulmate? http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/why-cant-i-find-my-soulmate/ Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:47:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Catherine Behan http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/why-cant-i-find-my-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-19 Catherine Behan Mon, 28 Jul 2008 19:26:17 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=4#comment-19 Hi Andreya, I enjoyed your post so much, I wrote an article in response. Thanks so much for checking my blog out and I am glad to have you in the loop! Cheers! Catherine Hi Andreya,

I enjoyed your post so much, I wrote an article in response. Thanks so much for checking my blog out and I am glad to have you in the loop!

Cheers!
Catherine

]]> By: Andreya http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/why-cant-i-find-my-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-21 Andreya Sun, 27 Jul 2008 18:13:50 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=4#comment-21 Deer Catherine, That is an interesting perspective and I will be open minded to it. I do want to be with my body/mind/soulmate. I don't remember being abandoned by girlfriends while I was dating someone nor when I broke up with him. I found my girlfirends most supportive. This was true for boyfriends and when I divorced. I recently had a f riend break up with a boyfriend of a year, who had not called or been in contact with me during that time. Another friend and I had her over for dinner as soon as possible. And we continue to be in contact and be supportive. I have long-term male and female friends, friendships lasting decades. I am visiting a guy friend and his family as well as a single friend for two weeks each on my trip to California. AND, I am still single and would prefer to be with my body/mind/soulmate. (I want it all.) Please gtellme more an how you developed your position. Have you worked successfully with other single women who have now found their soulmate? I am very open to hearing more. Sincerely, Andreya Schneider Deer Catherine,
That is an interesting perspective and I will be open minded to it. I do want to be with my body/mind/soulmate. I don’t remember being abandoned by girlfriends while I was dating someone nor when I broke up with him. I found my girlfirends most supportive. This was true for boyfriends and when I divorced. I recently had a f riend break up with a boyfriend of a year, who had not called or been in contact with me during that time. Another friend and I had her over for dinner as soon as possible. And we continue to be in contact and be supportive.

I have long-term male and female friends, friendships lasting decades. I am visiting a guy friend and his family as well as a single friend for two weeks each on my trip to California.

AND, I am still single and would prefer to be with my body/mind/soulmate. (I want it all.) Please gtellme more an how you developed your position. Have you worked successfully with other single women who have now found their soulmate? I am very open to hearing more.
Sincerely,
Andreya Schneider

]]> By: Catherine Behan http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/why-cant-i-find-my-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-20 Catherine Behan Thu, 24 Jul 2008 20:39:38 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=4#comment-20 Hi Jannavene, I agree whole heartedly with you! I know that as I realize how utterly perfect my man is for me, even when we have rough patches, the more deeply content I am in my relationship. It is a completely different mind set compared to my first true love. Where as I used to search for the perfect man and then change him to fit me even better, I now practice tuning into him and when I adjust my thinking and consciously choose to see the best in him, he is the perfect man...exactly as he is. Little did I know how influential I can be in creating connection with my man, just by choosing my thoughts and reactions. Thanks for commenting and allowing me to chuckle at the irony of my title! Cheers! Catherine Hi Jannavene,

I agree whole heartedly with you! I know that as I realize how utterly perfect my man is for me, even when we have rough patches, the more deeply content I am in my relationship.

It is a completely different mind set compared to my first true love. Where as I used to search for the perfect man and then change him to fit me even better, I now practice tuning into him and when I adjust my thinking and consciously choose to see the best in him, he is the perfect man…exactly as he is.

Little did I know how influential I can be in creating connection with my man, just by choosing my thoughts and reactions.

Thanks for commenting and allowing me to chuckle at the irony of my title!

Cheers!
Catherine

]]> By: Jannavene http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/why-cant-i-find-my-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-27 Jannavene Thu, 24 Jul 2008 09:27:30 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=4#comment-27 Namaste I think there are some valid points in your writing. I do though have to disagree with your title "How to make your man Perfect" Why do I disagree. For one if you use the works make him perfect you are insinuating that he is less than perfect just the way he is. Secondly, we are only in control and can change ourselves not anyone else. Thirdly, if you go into a relationship thinking that anything about the other person need changing then you are more often than not setting yourself up for disappointment. No one is broken, no one needs fixing, we are all perfect just the way we are. It is our choice to change not someone outside of ourselves that dislikes parts of us. Be well all and loving thoughts to you all. Even the apparrently less than perfect men in our lives. hahaha Blessed Be Jannavene Namaste

I think there are some valid points in your writing. I do though have to disagree with your title “How to make your man Perfect”

Why do I disagree. For one if you use the works make him perfect you are insinuating that he is less than perfect just the way he is. Secondly, we are only in control and can change ourselves not anyone else. Thirdly, if you go into a relationship thinking that anything about the other person need changing then you are more often than not setting yourself up for disappointment.

No one is broken, no one needs fixing, we are all perfect just the way we are. It is our choice to change not someone outside of ourselves that dislikes parts of us.

Be well all and loving thoughts to you all. Even the apparrently less than perfect men in our lives. hahaha

Blessed Be
Jannavene

]]> By: Catherine Behan http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/why-cant-i-find-my-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-26 Catherine Behan Mon, 21 Jul 2008 15:48:33 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=4#comment-26 Hi Angie, I think you are right on with the idea of attracting loving relationships not only with men, but with women too. We can't help but react badly to disappointment with our friendships if we haven't learned how to let go of past hurts and move on...once and for all. Isn't tapping the most wonderful tool ever? Thank God for EFT! Catherine Hi Angie,

I think you are right on with the idea of attracting loving relationships not only with men, but with women too.

We can’t help but react badly to disappointment with our friendships if we haven’t learned how to let go of past hurts and move on…once and for all.

Isn’t tapping the most wonderful tool ever?

Thank God for EFT!

Catherine

]]> By: Angie http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/why-cant-i-find-my-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-25 Angie Mon, 21 Jul 2008 00:30:04 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=4#comment-25 I wonder if this work of healing past relationships with girlfriends will help attract new girlfriends as a bonus! That would be the best of both worlds, new girlfriends and a new man! I wonder if this work of healing past relationships with girlfriends will help attract new girlfriends as a bonus! That would be the best of both worlds, new girlfriends and a new man!

]]> By: Angie http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/why-cant-i-find-my-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-24 Angie Sun, 20 Jul 2008 23:59:59 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=4#comment-24 I always got along better with boys, too. I've had numerous best girlfriends, but they always seem to remove themselves from my life, usually without explanation! Men are easier to be with, but girlfriends relate better! I'd like to find a perfect balance between the two! I'm so excited to get started with this group! I always got along better with boys, too. I’ve had numerous best girlfriends, but they always seem to remove themselves from my life, usually without explanation! Men are easier to be with, but girlfriends relate better! I’d like to find a perfect balance between the two! I’m so excited to get started with this group!

]]> By: Catherine Behan http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/why-cant-i-find-my-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-23 Catherine Behan Sun, 20 Jul 2008 23:35:37 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=4#comment-23 Hi Linda, Isn't age wonderful! I love what you said about your Baha'i women's group. My marriage is definitely enhanced the more I remind myself that my husband is not a girlfriend! Allowing myself to connect deeply with different human beings brings refreshment to my soul. I am just now trusting some women friends more deeply than ever before. Might some let me down...yes, and I am no longer afraid of that! Who of us is perfect anyway? Thanks for your comments! Catherine Hi Linda,

Isn’t age wonderful! I love what you said about your Baha’i women’s group. My marriage is definitely enhanced the more I remind myself that my husband is not a girlfriend!

Allowing myself to connect deeply with different human beings brings refreshment to my soul.

I am just now trusting some women friends more deeply than ever before. Might some let me down…yes, and I am no longer afraid of that!

Who of us is perfect anyway?

Thanks for your comments!

Catherine

]]> By: Linda http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/why-cant-i-find-my-soulmate/comment-page-1/#comment-22 Linda Sun, 20 Jul 2008 23:24:56 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=4#comment-22 When I was young I got along with males better than females. Females were for my taste mostly too complicated and I never felt that I knew where I stood with them. I learned with time that no one person can be everything to me (or me to them) and I developed friendships with women that speak to different parts of me. My Baha'i women's group has given me a safe place to be myself, no male bashing or or any bashing for that matter. I feel spiritually connected and understood and these friendships have enriched my life. Is it really possible to connect with a human being on every deepest level? When I was young I got along with males better than females. Females were for my taste mostly too complicated and I never felt that I knew where I stood with them. I learned with time that no one person can be everything to me (or me to them) and I developed friendships with women that speak to different parts of me. My Baha’i women’s group has given me a safe place to be myself, no male bashing or or any bashing for that matter. I feel spiritually connected and understood and these friendships have enriched my life.
Is it really possible to connect with a human being on every deepest level?

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