Comments on: Do Men Think You Are Unapproachable? Is That Ok With You? http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/do-men-think-you-are-unapproachable-is-that-ok-with-you/ Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:47:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: I Never Thought I Would Feel Like This! « How To Make Your Man Perfect http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/do-men-think-you-are-unapproachable-is-that-ok-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-43 I Never Thought I Would Feel Like This! « How To Make Your Man Perfect Sat, 22 Nov 2008 18:59:30 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=70#comment-43 [...] remember how I have been so happy just being single, getting to know me and all that good stuff … I am way beyond that right now and am having the [...] [...] remember how I have been so happy just being single, getting to know me and all that good stuff … I am way beyond that right now and am having the [...]

]]> By: Catherine Behan http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/do-men-think-you-are-unapproachable-is-that-ok-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-42 Catherine Behan Tue, 29 Jul 2008 21:51:10 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=70#comment-42 Hi Angie, Thanks for sharing your good news! I am glad you noticed that you had been slacking a bit on your girl friends....don't we all tend to do that a little too much! Then when we need them, they are not around! I remind myself continually that my man is not girlfriend material and that I can't make him into a female cohort! Sometimes when I am feeling sad or overwhelmed and no girl is around, I will tell him that I need him to be a girlfriend for a minute and then I tell him how: Please just listen, nod and say it will be ok, baby and then give me a hug. OK, maybe I wouldn't include the baby part with my peeps but the heart is still there! He is always willing to be there for me when I ask like this. Then I drop my worry or my sadness and let it go. I know he can't understand when I keep going over and over an issue, repeating the story until his eyes are glazed over. After all, bless his heart, he is not a girl friend! Kudos to you Angie!! Catherine Hi Angie,

Thanks for sharing your good news! I am glad you noticed that you had been slacking a bit on your girl friends….don’t we all tend to do that a little too much! Then when we need them, they are not around!

I remind myself continually that my man is not girlfriend material and that I can’t make him into a female cohort!

Sometimes when I am feeling sad or overwhelmed and no girl is around, I will tell him that I need him to be a girlfriend for a minute and then I tell him how:

Please just listen, nod and say it will be ok, baby and then give me a hug. OK, maybe I wouldn’t include the baby part with my peeps but the heart is still there!

He is always willing to be there for me when I ask like this. Then I drop my worry or my sadness and let it go. I know he can’t understand when I keep going over and over an issue, repeating the story until his eyes are glazed over.

After all, bless his heart, he is not a girl friend!

Kudos to you Angie!!
Catherine

]]> By: Angie http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/do-men-think-you-are-unapproachable-is-that-ok-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-41 Angie Tue, 29 Jul 2008 20:31:27 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=70#comment-41 I discovered something today about myself that is so beneficial that I wanted to share it. Up until today I was feeling pretty good about my relationship with my boyfriend. I started feeling needy, whiny, unappreciated and like maybe I shouldn't be with him; he's not meeting my needs. I realized that over the past two weeks I've spent VERY little time talking with and spending time with my girlfriends. It made me realize how important female friendships are; how they keep you from projecting negatively onto your man, which exhausts him and drives him away. This was an exciting revelation for me. Now I can relax about my romantic relationship, since there really is nothing wrong with it right now, and focus on my girlfriends and myself and fill up that void positively instead of projecting onto my boyfriend and letting it become a self-fulfilling prophesy, that something is wrong with HIM or the relationship on a whole! I've been neglecting time for myself as well, doing the things I love to do in order to spend more time with him. I TOTALLY understand the importance of taking time for ourselves, Ladies, and for our girlfriends. Keep them at the top of your priority list and I bet it will help the romantic relationships! Angie I discovered something today about myself that is so beneficial that I wanted to share it. Up until today I was feeling pretty good about my relationship with my boyfriend. I started feeling needy, whiny, unappreciated and like maybe I shouldn’t be with him; he’s not meeting my needs. I realized that over the past two weeks I’ve spent VERY little time talking with and spending time with my girlfriends. It made me realize how important female friendships are; how they keep you from projecting negatively onto your man, which exhausts him and drives him away. This was an exciting revelation for me. Now I can relax about my romantic relationship, since there really is nothing wrong with it right now, and focus on my girlfriends and myself and fill up that void positively instead of projecting onto my boyfriend and letting it become a self-fulfilling prophesy, that something is wrong with HIM or the relationship on a whole! I’ve been neglecting time for myself as well, doing the things I love to do in order to spend more time with him. I TOTALLY understand the importance of taking time for ourselves, Ladies, and for our girlfriends. Keep them at the top of your priority list and I bet it will help the romantic relationships!
Angie

]]> By: Catherine Behan http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/do-men-think-you-are-unapproachable-is-that-ok-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-40 Catherine Behan Tue, 29 Jul 2008 16:28:28 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=70#comment-40 Hi Andreya, You are welcome and let us know how you are doing with your "Why Am I Still Single" detective work! Cheers! Catherine Hi Andreya,

You are welcome and let us know how you are doing with your “Why Am I Still Single” detective work!

Cheers!
Catherine

]]> By: Catherine Behan http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/do-men-think-you-are-unapproachable-is-that-ok-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-36 Catherine Behan Tue, 29 Jul 2008 16:27:23 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=70#comment-36 Hi Noelyne, Thanks for your comments. After divorcing my first husband, I became bound and determined to see relationship differently. My take on relationship is decidedly unique and fun. I am having a great time teaching women how to find the best part of their men and to nurture that part. I know for sure that what we focus on expands so why not focus on something you used to adore about your man!! If you are looking for more interesting men in your life, look at what you have been focusing on and you will have a clue about how to change that! I look forward to hearing more from you! Catherine Hi Noelyne,

Thanks for your comments. After divorcing my first husband, I became bound and determined to see relationship differently.

My take on relationship is decidedly unique and fun. I am having a great time teaching women how to find the best part of their men and to nurture that part.

I know for sure that what we focus on expands so why not focus on something you used to adore about your man!!

If you are looking for more interesting men in your life, look at what you have been focusing on and you will have a clue about how to change that!

I look forward to hearing more from you!
Catherine

]]> By: Andreya http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/do-men-think-you-are-unapproachable-is-that-ok-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-35 Andreya Tue, 29 Jul 2008 04:47:26 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=70#comment-35 Catherine, Thank you for taking the time to answer. I will do as you suggested. Sounds good! Blessings, Andreya Catherine,
Thank you for taking the time to answer. I will do as you suggested. Sounds good!

Blessings,
Andreya

]]> By: Noelyne http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/do-men-think-you-are-unapproachable-is-that-ok-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-39 Noelyne Mon, 28 Jul 2008 21:12:37 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=70#comment-39 Hi Catherine, You have a fantastic insight into relationships. It's amazing how we attract people into our lives. Over the years my thoughts have attracted people into my life, at the time I was unaware of this! Now I take much more care with my thoughts to stand a far better chance of creating the life that I want with the people that I want around me. I have recently read Wallace Wattles 'Science of Getting Rich' which confirms the importance of thinking in a certain way. Thank you for posting on my group and sharing your thoughts with us. Have a superb day, Noelyne Hi Catherine,

You have a fantastic insight into relationships. It’s amazing how we attract people into our lives. Over the years my thoughts have attracted people into my life, at the time I was unaware of this! Now I take much more care with my thoughts to stand a far better chance of creating the life that I want with the people that I want around me.

I have recently read Wallace Wattles ‘Science of Getting Rich’ which confirms the importance of thinking in a certain way.

Thank you for posting on my group and sharing your thoughts with us.

Have a superb day,

Noelyne

]]> By: Catherine Behan http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/do-men-think-you-are-unapproachable-is-that-ok-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-38 Catherine Behan Mon, 28 Jul 2008 20:45:58 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=70#comment-38 Hi Patricia, Thanks for your comments. Amazing how we can be sending out vibes that are so opposed to what we THINK that we are putting out there. I once heard a quote that the way we feel about ourselves is the predominant vibration that the Universe responds to. That sure adds some incentive to working on self concept, doesn't it? What are some keys that keep your relationship humming along? Catherine Hi Patricia,

Thanks for your comments. Amazing how we can be sending out vibes that are so opposed to what we THINK that we are putting out there.

I once heard a quote that the way we feel about ourselves is the predominant vibration that the Universe responds to. That sure adds some incentive to working on self concept, doesn’t it?

What are some keys that keep your relationship humming along?

Catherine

]]> By: Patricia Campbell http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/2008/07/do-men-think-you-are-unapproachable-is-that-ok-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-37 Patricia Campbell Mon, 28 Jul 2008 20:22:40 +0000 http://www.attractyoursoulmatenow.com/blog/?p=70#comment-37 Hi Catherine, You're definitely on to something! I didn't marry until I was in my early thirties; and while there were times when I thought, "oh I wish I was married - or at least truly serious about someone" - the reality was, I was having a ball. Looking back, I simply wasn't ready for that kind of commitment. And no doubt I was sending out those vibes! teehee - be careful what you wish for! Patricia Hi Catherine,

You’re definitely on to something!

I didn’t marry until I was in my early thirties; and while there were times when I thought, “oh I wish I was married – or at least truly serious about someone” – the reality was, I was having a ball.

Looking back, I simply wasn’t ready for that kind of commitment. And no doubt I was sending out those vibes!

teehee – be careful what you wish for!

Patricia

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