Archive for March, 2010

Before I could answer, she melted into tears, “I guess I am afraid there really isn’t anyone out there for me.  How can I know for sure?  If I knew he wasn’t coming, then I could move on in peace.  It is the not knowing that is just killing me.”

The phone went silent for a moment as she composed herself.

“I just can’t give up,”  She sighed.  “Something in me won’t let go of the dream.”

From that point, we went on to clear a powerful past break up with EFT and released some of the very real heart break from nearly 20 years ago.

So, is it your fault that the LOA is not delivering as you expect? After all, according to the Law of Attraction, you are living out what you are vibrating so if you are failing in your Soul Mate Search, aren’t you ultimately responsible?

Yes and no.  Your Dreams and Aspirations are powerful tools guiding you to truly enjoy your life.  If your man or woman hasn’t shown up for you, it is almost always a matter of Timing.  The very fact that you are reading this post is evidence that you are attracting the tools you need to make your dreams a reality.

Your past relationships have been filled with misperceptions and misunderstandings and you have to deal with that. There are no short cuts.  This part IS your responsibility.  Be sincere when you look inside at your heart.  Are you really ready to open your heart again?

If you are not so sure, then you can take inspired action to clear away the emotional residue that is cluttering your mind.  You can prepare your heart to love again and when you make THAT your primary goal, Law of Attraction will pour resources and support to manifest your strong and healed heart!

LOA is always strongest when you pick an Inner Goal rather than an Outer Goal. What I recommended to Janet was that she change her intention from: “I want to attract a Soul Mate.” to “I want to prepare my heart to BE a fantastic Soul Mate.”

I could almost feel her smile through the phone.  “I feel so relieved!”  She said. “I can DO that!”

Are you ready for True Love? http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com and find out today.

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Can you use a little ‘Luck of the Irish’ in your love life these days?

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And so the process that we move forward is two-fold. Its purpose will help you in the clarification of what you want, and its purpose is to assist you in achieving the vibrational stance that will let you allow what it is that you want.

And that, in a nut shell, is what Deliberate Creating is: Identifying and allowing. Identifying what you want and then achieving a vibration that will allow what you want to come to you. The work that we see that is mostly your work, however, we have to say this to you bluntly — your primary work is to lower your level of resistance.

In most cases, you have done enough wanting to keep yourself busy for twenty or thirty lifetimes. You are not short on wanting. You are not short on the clarity of what you want but you are, most of you, short on vibrationally allowing what it is that you want. Have fun with it and be easy about it."

- Abraham-Hicks –

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Maybe you get there a little early, just to enjoy the anticipation of it all.  You've been ready for hours, anyway.  Feel the breeze on your cheek as you sip that rare pinot.  The crisp linen table cloth a stark contrast to the bamboo table setting.  A single orchid highlighted by the spotlight above sits between you and the empty pillow across the table.  Soak in the moment of anticipation.  A part of you knows exactly what it feels like to be in that moment.

Your job is to find that part of you and connect to it BEFORE your soul mate comes into your life.

If you were drawn to the beginning few sentences, you are there.  Being captivated by words is the answer.  Create mini romance novels in your mind.  Your imagination LOVES pictures, emotions and stories.  Once the experience of your inner story gets physical and you can truly feel yourself there…you've got it.

There is only one slight problem…

If a part of you winces or gets sarcastic when you read something sappy like story, somewhere inside a part of you just might be living in an ancient breakup. It is as if the battle has never ended.  Think about it.  Which relationship or relationships ended badly?  Who did you fall for and never get over?  Why are you waiting?  What needs to change for you to move forward toward your dream?

Amazing what a little self inquiry can do. 

With these questions unresolved, it is downright painful to think about the empty spot in the bed next to you.  It is easy to feel overwhelmed and hopeless about ever meeting The One.  The good news is this.  As deeply as you ache over some of the hurt, that is how deeply you will feel loved when you resolve those old battle wounds.

You are creating your world with your thoughts.  Make it the World of your Dreams!  Make peace with those past dramas.  Let them go.  Learn to feel your own fabulous love story before it comes to you.  It is worth every bit of the effort it takes.  How much do you want to be loved and cherished by the perfect man?  Are you willing to really let go and allow True Love in?

If you believe it, you can achieve it.  What you focus on becomes your reality.  In a heart beat you can change your mindset.  Or can you?  What do YOU think?

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